Showing posts with label sexual assault. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sexual assault. Show all posts

Saturday, 23 October 2021

Men and Boys get Raped by Women Harsh Reality !


Men and Boys get Raped by women and Girls are Harsh Reality !
But unfortunately our Law Makers , Judiciary, Media and Feminist Gang never consider the same as Crime.
Hence all the #RapistWomen moving free in our Society and Men/boys suffer in Silence. #SpeakUpMen & rise your voice to amend the #RapleLaw gender Natural .
Enough is Enough , its time to #LiberateMen from #RapistWomen Too!
Stop Abuse Men !









Monday, 6 July 2020

Consensual Sex = Rape & How? - Panel Discussion


None cares for Dignity of Men, None understand pain of Men. Mere Allegation by women & Men get termed #Rapist. Men proved his innocent in court, still women gang harass Men, but no punishment to such women. Why Law maker/Media/Society in Deep-sleep , even when :
Supreme court says : Make rape laws Gender neutral ?

Stop protecting #RapestWomen , such women are not victim , they are criminal Too !

Be #Mangina Free , Be #Misandry FREE !


Every Men are under high risk of #Fakecases at Home, Office, Road due to multiple anti-Men #Unfairlaw - which became Blackmailing/Extortion Tool. To survive or #FightBack knowledge is Key. Law is not any rocket Science. Buy & Start to Read Law Books Now !















Thursday, 7 May 2020

Supreme court: Make rape laws Gender neutral


Law commission Report clearly suggested to make #RapeLaw by replacing the word Men/Women to person .

Lawmakers totally ignored the same due to pressure from WCD NCW and Women organisations of India !

Result all the Rapist Women are moving freely in our Society. They have no fear of law , first they rape men/boys and if the Men/boys #SpeakUp , such Rapist Women are terming the men/boys are rapist to hide their own Crime.

Stop to be a #Mangina and stop protecting criminal #RapistWomen of India ! Time to make #IPC375 gender neutral by replacing the word Men/Women to person .

Injustice Some where is direct threat of Justice Every where - all must keep in Mind !









Thursday, 9 April 2020

#TaslimaNasreen at her Best to spread #MaleHatered in #LockDown

Taslima Nasrin is a Bangladeshi-Swedish writer &  feminist, presently given shelter by Indian Government- never felt ashamed & never got any punishment for her advocacy that a Women deserve to have sex with 72 virgin Men in the earth . After all Women have Special privilege in India ! 

Muslim Women deserve to Sex with 72 Virgin Men in Earth !





Now on the eve of #LockDown due to Corono Virus in India , she came up with her another Tweet to spread extreme #MaleHatered  advocacy. After all how she can let it go the Golden opportunity to defame & demean  Men  ? She feel Lucky that there is no Men in her Home !

If this had been said by any Men that he is Lucky that No Women in his House , he had been termed as ............!!! Mo need to mention !





In a country where the married Men Suicide more than 64000+ every year which are double than married Women , a country where when Men face Domestic Violence in hand of Women, there is no remedy available in the Law, but on mere allegation by women -let it be true/false men had been made Homeless, Jobless , Jailed , but when after years of trial at court he prove his innocence, he had not been compensated for his loss of Life, Dignity or financial loss,

In such a situation, we welcome & hope all Feminist must take inspiration from Women like Taslima Nasreen and prefer to stay alone , than making life miserable of their Men at Home . #LiberateMen from their Provider Role and amend all Laws too. Stop force Men to pay abusive Women into heir life for Life Long .

We feel at least feminist gang should strictly follow the advocacy of Ms. Taslima , so that many Men can be allowed to be Live Alive .

Men have to silently suffer the emotional, economical, verbal & Physical #DomesticViolence at Home, but authority like @UN @UNICEFIndia @WHO totally failed to acknowledge the pain and suffering of men.




#LiberateMen from Domestic Violence at home & #MakeHomeSafe4Men Too !


Wednesday, 10 April 2019

Refusal of Sex in Marriage : How Many time as Husband You had been refused to have Sex by Your wive ?




Reference :

First make #RefusalofSex a Criminal offence then talk about Marital rape

  • wrong done by wives refuse to have sex without any justified reason and blackmailing Husbands , radical feminist groups termed as marital rape to hide their own wrong doing.

Monday, 26 October 2015

International Men"s day: Spare A Thought to Stop Legal Terrorism against Men.

When violence against women and girls are always on everyone's agenda, abuse of boys or men is never talked about or discussed.


Many even do not know in a recent Women and Child ministers survey report show the sexual abuse of boys are 53% vs 47% girls as child.


As a result we see there is no welfare system in place for boys and the need of security and well being of boys is completely ignored simply based on their gender. Whenever this issue comes up in any discussion it is said that Indian boys never face any discrimination. This survey tries to capture the childhood abuse of Indian boys so that their issues can be highlighted and correct data can be presented to lawmaking bodies.

Now as the boys cross 18+ years and get termed as Men, suddenly all abuse or crime against them get vanished by default?


Suicide of Men due to Legal Terrorism in India



Crimes against men are ignored amidst the noise around crimes against women. India has ministries for environment, women and child welfare ( WCD) and a National Commission for Women , thousand of Women NGO — but it has no ministry or tribunal for men.

Since men are ignored in the lawmaking process, lawmakers do not represent men per se; there is around 50 pro-women laws whose usage in practice amount to being anti-men. They forget men are Human too and they also have right to Life and liberty as per Indian constitution article 21.


Men are Human too , Stop abuse them



The misuse of dowry harassment law (Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code) has invited strong observations from courts and various government committees. In Sushil Kumar Sharma vs Union of India, the Supreme Court equated misuse of IPC 498A to “legal terrorism”.

In 2003, the Justice Malimath Commission report on criminal justice reform recommended making offenses under IPC 498A bailable. Many other judgments have pointed to the gross misuse of this law. 

In October 2010, the Criminal Procedure Code was amended via CrPC Amendment Act 2008 to introduce CrPC Section 41A that laid down the procedure of arrests for all offenses that entail seven or fewer years of imprisonment and not just IPC 498a.

But only its applicability to IPC 498A is opposed by its misuser. The reason for this is that IPC 498A has evolved into a money-minting mechanism.

The steps are simple: File a case and get everyone in the family arrested. This starts the engine of money making right from arrests, release, litigation and settlement.

It is worth noting that the number of cases and arrests under IPC 498A has continued to increase, despite the introduction of Section 41A, while fewer cases have resulted in conviction.

This means that Section 41A procedures are not being followed, leading to the arrest of many innocents, the majority of whom are eventually exonerated by the courts.

Even now such arrests happen without investigations or due procedure. Women’s organizations are contesting the court judgment in the court of public opinion.


Keeping in mind maximum men are totally unaware about our criminal justice system  SIF with their limited resources,  try to educated masses through their various Training programs by which many victim false cases  able to prove their innocence in court than surrender in front of Legal terrorist . 

But such Training program may not able to give back the suffering one gone through , but help to reduce reduce your suffering and losses , it does not remove the root cause of such Legal Terrorism.

Need of the hour , A Gender Neutral Domestic Violence law and scrap IPC498A as in our IPC enough  laws like , blackmailing, extortion, attempt to murder laws capable to take care if there are any true allegations of abuse with prima face evidence against any men or women.

Terming someone criminal with mere verbal allegations via a non-bailable section is nothing but promoting Legal Terrorism only.

On the eve of International Men's day , it's time to relies the Legal Terrorism Indian men are facing is not a Joke , the same rightly deserve a spare of thought for all.


In 2011, the Rajya Sabha’s Committee on Petitions in its 140th Report on Amendments in IPC 498A observed that in case the gross misuse continues, IPC 498A should be made bailable and also that the misuse clause should be in the Section itself. 

The government should live up to its commitment to make this Section bailable  and to introduce the penalty clause in this law or scrap such criminal law, which is nothing but duplications of laws.

 
 





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Wednesday, 14 October 2015

Not all Women hate Men but do they care for Men’s problem?



ARUP, WAS 14 the first time a women grabbed him inappropriately without permission. He was at a family functions and he can’t quite remember what he did to raise her ire, but he remember her grabbing him from behind. 

Then she yelled something to her ladies group friends about Arup’s private parts was not fitting into her hands. All her friends enjoy the same and poor Arup run away from there with shame.



Take his age out of the equation and most people would be more surprised about believing that that’s a sexual harassment to boys, playing with their private parts when done by any women or girls.

Playing with boys private parts , kiss their private parts, forcefully remove their cloths , punish them in front of other kids as Naked is very common not only in Urban society , even  I had witness in remote villages also. But if the victim is boy, none term it as sexual harassment.

Samir other 16 years guys, just got expelled notice from his school and got termed a molester, as his parents had a heated arguments with School Principal regarding excessive demand of Donation.

Now those  boys became 18+ and gets termed as Men , but the sexual assault or abuse on them does not stop , it continue in various form , they even get raped by women/Girls but can’t even cry for get raped . The moment they will cry for rape, instead of treating him as victim, the law will term him a rapist.

As soon as a man tries to explain a problem that affects all men, like “some women can get very aggressive when they’re rejected, the hand-waving response is often just “not all women”. That is a comment that helps no one, clarifies nothing and only achieves the derailing of a conversation about an important problem. We know it’s not all women, but when the problems are experienced by pretty much all men, something has to change.

Being an ex-male feminist witness many brain wash advocacy that Feminism isn’t about hating men it’s about equality.  But when it comes to the victim of sexual, physical, mental, economical abuse of men in the hand of women, feminist show their true picture. All the ideology of equality goes out and desperate attempt made to justify all wrong doing of women against men as exceptions.

A Live example:


Today morning when I was driving for office there was a program in FM Radio regarding recent reports of more than 93% Pick picketers in Delhi Metro found are women/girls, but a young girl made RJ Raunak clean bowled by logic that girls/women are not expert of theft , so they get caught , but boys are expert so they never get caught and run away.


So in spite of having evidence on record we will still term Boys/men is culprit on assumption based theory only. CCTV footage will show how some women is beating boys/men left, right or center, but no case will be filed against such women, whereas without any evidence the molestation case will be filed against the men/boys on mere verbal allegations.

There are enough bad girls/women out there but men had been never taught how to avoid being get raped, what to do when get abused by women/Girls, how to hold your nerve or protect yourself when any women/girls get violent.

In reply of #MansWorld Misandry Videos



Ask any men, all of us have at least one own story in their life about a girl or women they had witness, who got aggressive after being rejected to full fill their illogical demand.

Roughly one of every two men/boys will experience sexual assault once they’re over the age of 13. Most of those men/boys won’t report the incident because men/boys are raised to believe that they’re in some way responsible, so this mass outcry goes in deaf ears only.



What’s sadly not surprising is that even though (or perhaps because) it took a lot of courage for the men to speak about the things that had happened to them, there was still a big backlash against them.

The laughably named “Women rights activists” always tried to turn the conversation back to how horrible men were responsible for rape of women and how dare men seek equality, taking “rights” to be victim away from women ?



This conversation is important to have because while not all women will go around abusing people, but a large number of women still think abuse any men is their birth right and any wrong they do against men is justified as Self-defense and will go Scot free .

More than that, all of these issues are the things that men need to speak up about, instead of just replying with “not all women” hate men and non-male hater women also need to learn listen and think about how they can be part of the solution, even if they’re not actively part of the problem.




Stop Abuse of Men, as Men are Human too.

 

Monday, 10 March 2014

A Ray of Hope for abused/Depressed Indian men : SIF



Save Indian family (SIF) A name which few people would have heard or cared about 9 years back, but today this is a force to reckon with. The membership of SIF has reached lakhs across the world. Most of the prominent members of SIF come from well-educated and respected families. 

SIF also has a large number of women supporters who have joined the movement realizing the pain and trauma men and their families go through in Indian society. Many of these women supporters have been victims themselves as sisters, mothers and mother-in-laws. These ladies themselves were falsely implicated due to gender biased laws that are wife-centric. Members of SIF aim to protect men and women from extortionist wives, corrupt Police officials and biased judiciary.
This is a true story of a man, Bharat. In 2005, Bharat was a hard-working young man, who jumped through many hoops to make a successful career as a scientist. He was raised to believe that a good man puts women and children first, protects and provides for his family, respects women, and endures pain and sacrifice without heaving a sigh.

Unfortunately, he was unaware of a fact that good men are often at the receiving end of abuse; until he himself became a victim of spousal violence and witnessed societal apathy towards men like him. To add to his woes, he also became victim of gender biased law IPC Section 498A, a law which gave undue credibility to his wife, and treated him as guilty until he could prove himself innocent. He was arrested and imprisoned for a crime he did not commit. He had to witness his parents and siblings being jailed for no fault of theirs. He lost his job and suffered unbearable pain due to separation from his child. Having lost all hope, he ended his life at a tender age of 28. In local dailies, news of his death was flashed as "A scientist ends his life due to financial problems.”

Bharat’s story is just one of more than 68000 thousand men in India, whose thankless lives taken away every year just when they are ready to blossom. Statistics from the National Crime Records Bureau show that every 9 minutes one married Indian man committed suicide unable to withstand verbal, emotional, economic and physical abuse and legal harassment.

An unanswered question from SIF to all social activists and law makers: Is the Pain of A Mother or Sister any less when they lose their Son or Brother?


In the last 150 days SIF and its associated 35+ NGOs all over India, have been mentioned in the media in 60 different articles. If every article has been read by at least 100,000 people, then about 8 million people across the world would have known or heard about SIF and that is something to be proud of.

We believe in the teachings of Mahatma Gandhi and we get our inspiration from this great man. We believe in his words "First they ignore you, then they mock you, then they fight you, then you win "!!


SIF is aware of the odds stacked against it. SIF knows very well that media and other industries would love to see more family break ups, because family breakups increase spending and this further drives up the demands for the goods and products. "A united family will own one TV while a dived family will need two is the simple reasoning.”

However SIF knows it will win, because SIF is on the same side as truth is and we believe that "Truth Always Wins"(Satyamev Jayate).
SIF may not have the blessing of the Government of India, but we do have the blessings of thousands of mothers, grandmothers and sisters who work and fight with us day in and day out trying to educate the slumbering Indian populace.
SIF has the support of hundreds of small but nevertheless important NGOs who work with us to spread the word on how gender biased laws are destroying Indian society. We all try to wake up the people of India to bring about gender equality in the society.

We know we will win and we will succeed in creating a Ministry for the Welfare of Indian Men .



We know that the night is darkest before the sun shines and the SIF has no doubt that the sun will shine and spread the rays of hope, peace and family harmony that will keep the Indian family as a cohesive unit for the next ten thousand years.

On this occasion, SIF would also like to review the present status of men in Indian society and highlight the need to accord men the privileges and protections that they rightly deserve as fellow humans.

Thousands of men are becoming victims of "legal terrorism" unleashed by the misuse of Indian Penal Code Section 498A, Protection of Women Against Domestic Violence Act, adultery laws, laws against rape and sexual harassment, and even divorce, maintenance and child custody laws.

The Universal Declaration of Human rights states that "all are equal before the law, and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law". Article 14 of the Indian Constitution declares that "The State shall not deny to any person equality before the law or the equal protection of the laws within the territory of India." However, the Government of India has not made any provisions to protect men against any form of domestic abuse or harassment at the work place.

The Universal Declaration of Human Rights also proclaims that "everyone charged with a penal offence has the right to be presumed innocent until proved guilty according to law."  However, women-centric laws in India presume that the accused man is guilty until he can prove his innocence, thus violating the presumption of innocence and the principles of fair trial which is guaranteed under Articles 20 and 21 of the Constitution of India, in addition to defying the Universal Declaration of Human Rights.

SFF has been working hard to sensitize the public to these serious issues, and to urge the Government to take appropriate measures to alleviate men's woes in the present times.

I request all honest citizens of India, to Join SIF Team, to Stop such legal terrorism against Indian men and demand to replace the word "Husband/wife" to "Spouse" and "Men/Women" to "Person" in all Laws and Policies. This is followed all across the world and assumptions that Women never lie do not hold ground. As per Indian Laws her verbal allegations, without any evidence, are sufficient to label anyone as a rapist, wife beater or dowry seeker. This is nothing but promotion of injustice and such injustice has and will continue to become an extortion tool.

On the eve of SIF Foundation day , we make an appeal to Indian Government to Form

Ministry of Men's Welfare.
   - *As per Crime Bureau of India, more than 92,000 men commit suicide
   every year*
  
   - *Why 3.5 lac men are losing their jobs per year?*
  
   - *According to** Labour and Employment Ministry (2001 to 2005), more
   than 13 lakh Men became Jobless and the count is increasing every year.


Today some one may love or hate SIF , but can't ignore any more as the same became a Ray of Hope for many abused/distressed men of India.