#StopAbuseMen a movement intends to work for Men's welfare and strongly believe in replacing the word Men/Women by Person and Husband/Wife by Spouse in any Government law or policy.
#MenToo are Human, they also have Constitutional Right to Live & Liberty with Dignity (#Article21 ) .
#Unfairlaw or Policy can not bring Fairness in any Society, it only kills fairness in Justice System and harmony in Society. #SpeakUpMan.
Help Line for abused/distressed Men ( SIF - One): +91-8882498498.
I Proved My Innocence : It’s Not #News: My Live & Liberty with Dignity Denied!
Please share your Story , awareness is key to Stop Abuse Men.
We witness on mere allegation #MediaTrail start, but when the same Man proved his innocence in Court of Law, Main Stream #Media ignored.
#Article21 a constitutional Right of a person: Live and Liberty with Dignity snatched away but our Law Makers and Judiciary remain silent.
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Help Line for Distressed and Abused Men : 8882498498
After 3 Yrs Girl Say I was not Raped, Court Directs to Return 10 L Compensation https://t.co/klWl6adxS8 via @law_trend@HMOIndia why girls family should not file #FakeCase to get such easy money on mere filling FIR? Who will return Live, liberty & Dignity of Men termed #Rapist?
#YellowJournalism at Best: There's a false narrative being created by so called women's rights activists in India which is also being supported by Media Houses.
The narrative is that Indian Husbands do forced sex with their wives without consent and go scot FREE. They never question when wife does forced sex with her husband against his will or consent, is wife termed as a Rapist?
The logic which is given is that in modern days marriage is based on equal partnership hence wife’s will or consent is to be respected like an unmarried woman irrespective . Further a married woman’s right to say No to sexual relationship is being compared to that of a Sex worker right to say No to customer.
Fact is that India has already criminalized forced sex (#MaritalRape) with wife by Husband and provided laws such as #IPC498A & #DVAct to protect wife and punish not only husband, his relatives too. But the same protection has not been accorded to any Indian Husband as the laws are gender specific.
Forget about Sex if any Husband even Kisses his wife without her consent Husband can be sent to jail on mere verbal allegation by wife & no evidence required in #IPC498A for an FIR against family.
In #DVAct, husband can be thrown out from his Home on mere allegation by wife that husband had forced Sex with her and husband’s family is collateral damage. She gets protection order & on her single testimony husband can be sent to jail in the name of breach of protection order.
In #CrPC125, a Husband is asked to beg, brow or steal but he even has to pay his divorced wife or working wife till she's alive or she gets remarried as per recent precedents, irrespective if the breakdown of marriage is due to his or her fault.
As per #NCRB-2020 Suicide data, Husband suicide is 73093 whereas Wives suicide is 28085.
Have Judiciary or Law makers made any effort or action plan how to reduce Husband Suicide in Last 75 years?
Just a group of elite Men & Women are desperate to term Husband a Rapist for their own self-interest, nothing else !
When a wife does forced sex with her Husband without his will or consent, they will never term the wife a #Rapist. Why the will or consent of Husband should not respected by law makers/society should also be the question?
No one will understand the violation of Men's Constitutional rights under Article14, Equality before law & equal protection by law to all citizens irrespective of gender and Article 21, Life, Liberty & Dignity of a person.
The burning question is that why Man should marry at all with Indian woman when he knows marriage would give wife a #RedCard, which she can use any time and term him a #Rapist and he does not even have a #YellowCard in marriage.
As a result #MarriageStrike is the only option for common man in India till the law makers, judiciary and society do not take corrective action to make modern day marriage in India too as equal partnership in true sense and replace the word husband/wife to spouse in every law related to marriage relationship.
शौक़ नहीं मज़बूरी है #MarriageStrike ज़रूरी है !
STOP ABUSE of MEN : MEN ARE HUMAN TOO !
None will understand violation of Men's Constutional right. Must watch below to educate your self. Forget about forced sex with wife without consent, even Husband can't kiss a wife without her consent. He termed criminal via #IPC498A#DVAct do u know?https://t.co/iOtZQEW41v
"My clients r certainly not against recognising spousal sexual violence. They r sayıng it merits a separate & slightly special treatment which legislature has already done. In addition special treatment has been accorded to it in other jurisdictions also" https://t.co/RqzqX4E3Hh
#MaritalRape Exception Based On Intelligible Differentia Of Marriage: #MenWelfare Trust Argues Before Delhi HC https://t.co/LWhvQiNuzw Deepak concluded by referring to Parliamentary Committee Report which dealt with sec. 375 of IPC & international position, specifically UK law .
"in case of sexual abuse in a marriage, a "basket of remedies" is already available in law, which is different on account of difference in relationship & context, & their alleged "inadequacy" cannot be a ground to strike down the exception.#MaritalRapehttps://t.co/UQjdiBvZHD
Sexual relationships, whether marital or non-marital, stand on same footing-militates common sense & mere difference of opinion on this can't make #MaritalRape exception IPC375(2) unconstitutional. #DelhiHighCourt was told on Thursday by NGO @MenWelfarehttps://t.co/Iohmq7XtZp
Social aspects would have to be considered: #MenWelfareTrust@MenWelfare at #DelhiHighCourthttps://t.co/0GeVhwPVOo To say this has no social impact or it's not a social issue would be to truncate the entirety of particular position. Social aspects would have to be considered.
However reasonable, legally backed, research based balanced arguments we present but somebody working for th cause of men would always be portrayed as misogynist, unreasonable, patriarchal etc. This is th mind wash media has been doing to serve agendas of some foreign funded NGOs pic.twitter.com/yGxammBmJN
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A time will come in your life, when you will feel every thing has been lost. My friend that's the time Real Story of your life will start. Be #Misandry & #Mangina FREE ! Be a self-supported, self-volunteer commando of @SFFNGO@MenWelfare to Stop Abuse of Men. pic.twitter.com/EXWEZoWraZ
#लड़कीहूँलड़सकतीहूँ : सब के पता है। Boys be #Mangina FREE !
Abusing, Cheating, blackmailing, extortion of money from Men/Husband/BF they can do without any fear of Law in India. #NoVoteToMaleHaters who are silent #CrimeAgainstMen .
#MarriageAgeDebate: My Live discussion with @JM_NEWS_INDIA .
#MarriageAge increase is irrelevant. Without amend #ChildMarraigeAct it will lead to more sexual disease, unwanted Pregnancy, Abortion, Fake #RapeCase increase, Extortion from Boys family.
Men and Boys get Raped by women and Girls are Harsh Reality !
But unfortunately our Law Makers , Judiciary, Media and Feminist Gang never consider the same as Crime.
Hence all the #RapistWomen moving free in our Society and Men/boys suffer in Silence.
#SpeakUpMen & rise your voice to amend the #RapleLaw gender Natural .
Law commission Report clearly suggested to make #RapeLaw by replacing the word Men/Women to person .
Lawmakers totally ignored the same due to pressure from WCD NCW and Women organisations of India !
Result all the Rapist Women are moving freely in our Society. They have no fear of law , first they rape men/boys and if the Men/boys #SpeakUp , such Rapist Women are terming the men/boys are rapist to hide their own Crime.
Stop to be a #Mangina and stop protecting criminal #RapistWomen of India ! Time to make #IPC375 gender neutral by replacing the word Men/Women to person .
Injustice Some where is direct threat of Justice Every where - all must keep in Mind !
#CrimeByWomen : A 19 yr boy have been harassed, threatened for #FakeRape cases by A 29 Yrs Women if he refuse to marry ! Boy compliant to Police, but no FIR done. https://t.co/zQrjEBpvME
#CrimeByWomen : युवती ने कपड़े फाड़कर झूठे आरोप में फंसाने की धमकी दी थीhttps://t.co/pAgUTM9Ms2 जूहिता ने कपड़े फाड़ने और अश्लील हरकत करने का आरोप लगाते हुए एफआईआर दर्ज कराने की धमकी दी। लांछन से परेशान होकर आंनद ने सुसाइड कर लिया। #UnfairLaw like #Rape making Men life Hell !
Constitution Article 21 : Live & Liberty of A person with dignity , had been snatched way by Law makers , #MiLord of Judiciary from Indian Men. They abused/misused the #Article15 (3) for their vote bank policy and common Men are suffering in #Fakecases.
Time to #SracpArticle-15_3 to restore the Article 21 . #SpeakUpMen as #MenToo are Human.
#UnfairLaw of India in the Name of Rape ( IPC376) , where the assumption that A #WomenNeverLie . She can term any Men or Boys a Rapist only by her Verbal allegations along and there is no limit of time frame also. She can term you a Rapist even after 10 or 20 or 30 Yrs latter also.
The moment any Rape case news Flashed , masindric people of India start dreaming a violent, forced sex with women and start #DigitalMobLynching without using any commonsense to destroy the Men's life in such a extend, in the name of Investigation he had been Jailed, sacked from Job as accused & his bail had been denied months after months.
More than 76%+ Rape case, its the Men had proven his innocence in the court in front of #MiLord , but still his constitutional right of Live & Liberty with dignity (Article 21) had been restored . The trauma the Man have to go through all his rest of the life in silence !
When you have sex with in any type of relationship and latter terming your partner as Rapist not only Unfair , its pure cheating & Blackmailing !
Time to realize by Law makers and #MiLord of Judiciary that #FakeCases on Men are also a heinous Crime. Its time to amend the CRPC , IPC to ensure that the same amount of Punishment must be given to fake complaintent too at the end of Trial on the Sport, instead of justifying the same has deterrent like IPc182 , IPC211 and hide behind such totally useless , toothless Law.
Those feel law IPC182 , IPC211 is very good law and is sufficient as deterrent for the heinous crime like #Fakecases , request them why not amend the law like Rape also in same principal & CRPC followed in IPC182, IPC211?
Every Men are under high risk of #Fakecases at Home, Office, Road due to multiple anti-Men #Unfairlaw - which became Blackmailing/Extortion Tool. To survive or #FightBack knowledge is Key. Law is not any rocket Science. Buy & start Read Law Books Now !
#MenToo are Human, stop Killing their Constitution Right of Live & Liberty with Dignity- #Article21 by misusing #Article15 (3) .
Time to #ScrapArticle15_3 to make any #UnfairLaw or policy by vote hunger Political Parties.
#CrimeByWomen : युवती ने कपड़े फाड़कर झूठे आरोप में फंसाने की धमकी दी थीhttps://t.co/pAgUTM9Ms2 जूहिता ने कपड़े फाड़ने और अश्लील हरकत करने का आरोप लगाते हुए एफआईआर दर्ज कराने की धमकी दी। लांछन से परेशान होकर आंनद ने सुसाइड कर लिया। #UnfairLaw like #Rape making Men life Hell !
Refusal of Sex in Marriage : How Many time as Husband You had been refused to have Sex by Your wives without any Justified/Medical reason or in failure 2 purchase of Valuable items 4 her?
P.S. Marriage = Man forced to give up his choice 2 sex with other women Legally, #SpeakUpMan
A wrong done by wives refuse to have sex without any justified reason and blackmailingHusbands , radical feministgroups termed as marital rape to hide their own wrong doing.
In a press release issued by coalition of various NGOs , like Save Family Foundation , working for abused and distressed men of India ask:
Why suicide Increase, when a boy became men after 18 years of age?
Boy became Men-after 18yrs Suicide Increase at Rapid Speed.
Up to 18 years the suicide of boy vs girl are more or less same. But one must wonder what get changed after 18 years the men suicide keeps increasing?
As the age increases, a boy getting to be termed as Men and they are becoming victim of all gender biased law as well by default along with there is no support system available, when they face any type of Domestic abuse like verbal, emotional, sexual or economical abuse. There is no protection of men in present Domestic Violence act. With the increasing ages Men are getting more victims of blackmailing, extortion and domestic abuses which witness clearly from the suicide data.
This Independence Day, group of 50 Ngo’s and 180 activists across nation will assemble in Mumbai to brainstorm advocacy of gender neutral laws in their 7th National Meet.
The seventh national confluence has been earmarked to evolve with strategy of protecting vulnerable men from laws facing undue harassment due to heavily loaded legal provisions against men. It’s ironical that “India” presumed to be a patriarchal society has marginalized men like never before. Apart from gender neutral laws the group will also discuss the concerning issue of suicide of men & deteriorating health status and lack of medical facilities for men & boys.
Husband Suicide vs Wives is 2.6 Times More
Suicides is one avenue which exhibits the social trauma and mental status of a men NCRB 2014 illustrates the vulnerable situation men are facing in present scenario. Every 5.9 min a men is committing suicide in India with family disputes as single largest reason of male suicide. As per the latest statistics from NCRB, we wish to highlight following:
ØAs against last year ratio of 2.17 Husband Suicide per Wife Suicide in India, in 2014, the ratio has increased to 2.21 Husband Suicide per Wife Suicide. Similarly, Male Suicide to Female Suicide ratio has increased from 2.05 last year to 2.10 in 2014. This means that with the Anti-Men environment in India, more Men and Husbands are forced to commit suicide. India, indeed, is becoming unsafe for men.
ØIn India, 1 male commits suicide every 5.9 minutes in 2014. While Women suicide is 1 in every 12.36 minutes. Unfortunately, still Government is not showing any intent to bring equality for Men in Law. In 2014, India witnessed Male Suicide (89129), Husband Suicide (59744), Female Suicide (42521) while least was Wife Suicide (27064).
ØAnother startling fact is that suicide of women in age-group 30-60 years is 39% of total women suicide while the same for men is 16% Higher & is 55%. This clearly shows that the age group of 30-60 years is 16% more vulnerable for men as compared to women. It is pertinent to mention here that this is the age group which is contributing maximum to GDP of India and hence government’s loss of focus to men of this age groups specifically will have a direct effect on the GDP of the country.
ØAnother clear indicator of how growing to be an Adult male in India is crime is showing in the NCRB 2014 data. Till the age of 18 years, for every 100 suicides, boys and girls have almost equal proportions. The moment a boy becomes a man, i.e. of every 100 suicides of adults in India, 2/3rd of the suicides are by Male. This is clearly arriving to the fact that since POCSO is Gender Neutral (and other laws are too), the suicide ratio is almost same irrespective of Gender. The moment laws become biased, male suicide sky-rockets by another 25%-28%. Means, women are safer in Husband’s house whereas Men are unsafe once they become adult.
ØIt is ironical that Ministry of Women and Child Development, in their own report in 2007 had said that of every 100 children sexually abused, 53 are boys but still the Rape laws of India or other laws do not cover men as victims because of which we see a huge increase of Suicide of Male gender the moment they become adult. The suicides are because of either false rape case threats or because of them being victims of Rape by women and no law covers them.
ØCannot be directly established but indeed in 2013-2014, Men in India did see some relief with launch of SIF One (National helpline for Men – 8882498498) and also the directions from Hon’ble Supreme Court in ‘Arnesh Kumar vs State of Bihar’ gave a huge hope to Husbands / Married men and that’s where we are pleased to see their suicide rate coming down.
ØAs per the Accidental deaths (by unnatural causes) data of NCRB 2014, 80% of victims are Men but still the Government is no waking up to make workplace, society, public areas, homes safer for men.
ØMore than 85% of Traffic Deaths and over 81% of Traffic injuries victims are Men and still the Government is ignoring men completely in their policies and their budgets.
Single largest reason as revealed by NCRB for suicides were found to be family disputes (21.7%).
Cause of Suicide
The Confluence of activist will discuss the expansion of SIF one helpline to various other states.
Presently the helpline is operational in 10 States of the country namely MP-CG, UP, Delhi, Karnataka, Rajasthan, Maharashtra, West Bengal. The Non sponsored non funded helpline is a Single helpline service run by by self supported, self volunteers 24X7 to counsel and guide men in distress.
The grim scenario of men facing atrocities is a black spot as India when it is assumed to be a male dominated society where men even lack basic amenities as gender neutral laws and distress centers.
Single largest reason as revealed by NCRB~ for committing suicide 21.7 % are family disputes. 18623 male & 9977 females committed suicides because of family problems. Followed by illness 18.0% marriage related issues rank third with 5.1% love affairs 3.2% drug addiction 2.8%. The unsympathizing attitude of government & investigating authorities is exhibited from the fact that 12.4% of suicides have causes unknown.
Men are completely on a barren land in case of any disputes with any female in family, work place or at Social Network. It’s the Men have to pay heavy price even without any fault at their end.
65 crore male population does not have a law to protect themselves in case they face cruelty or any form of Domestic abuse. Studies report that male child Sexual abuse is 15% more than female child yet the laws remain biased to protect girl child alone. Amendment in various laws to protect women fails to protect men under similar scenario of molestation & sexual abuse. The forum will formalize a strategic group to create legal sensitization and seek constitutional amendments and urge lawmaking authorities to enroll men in the frame work of laws to protect interest of men.
Absence of a dedicated “Men Welfare ministry” explains gender Apartheid and men even facing poor health condition and medical aid also. Out of Illness 16078 men & 7663 women committed suicide. Aids forced 184 men & 48 women to suicide.
Men are more also prone to various forms of cancer, 407 men & 175 women chose to death.
Mental illness also engulfed 4761 men & 2341 women. Other prolonged illness sucked 10425 men & 4992 women to death.
Paralysis cased male suicide 3 times that of women. 407 men & 175 men committed suicide because of paralysis.
Where men are prone to illness & health hazards Indian men don’t receive any respite in the so called male dominated society.
“The Forum in this national confluence will evolve with a strategy to create pressure groups to sensitize parliamentarians to evolve with a time line & concrete plan to address male specific heath issues” , Said by one of activist from Mumbai.
Men overburdened with the social expectation of providing & protecting their families and society face larger social trauma.
Bankruptcy took away 2098 men vis a vis 210 women almost 10 times that of women showing men the sole breadwinner could not take the trauma. Poverty adhered 1419 men & 280 women, unemployment 1965 & 242 women.
Thus strengthening the fact that men are more vulnerable to social stigma and unable to meet the expectation of family & society succumbed to death.
·To evolve a consensus from nationwide volunteers to evolve with strategic initiatives to empathize with the deteriorating situation of men in legal front, heath care & Social Status. ·To address men in distress through various channels, campaign, create pressure groups and establish the respect for men. ·To avoid the inevitable & stand by all Men to address their pain n support them for better living. ·To restore the dignity of men & give them equality in true sense by respecting Indian Constitution article 21 – right to Live and Liberty to all.
When it comes to Rape, Molestation or acid attack, we Indian men and women never agree to accept the same crime can be done by a women or girls, due to our Misandric mind set.
When a women or girls rape a men we termed it as Love, affection, where as when the men try to make the complaint, instead of treating him as victim, he himself land in Jail on as accused of rape or molest women as per IPC354 or IPC376. So, the men victim of rape suffer in silently or end this life, as neither law or society or media support him.
So, when we see the news that in Delhi two girls tried to rape, molest and made MMS of men, we had never been surprised. It shows some courage of some media house to show the truth in front of us, though main stream media prefer to ignore it.
Here the girls can't be booked under a molestation act ( IPC354) forget about attempt to rape ( IPC376). They will be booked under simple assault or cheating case and will get scot-free very soon.
Such cases you will never find in National Crime Bure report , as such cases never considered as crime under IPC354 or IPC376. So, the crime against men by women will be shown always as Zero and keep claim women or girls don't rape or molest men in India.
Many developed countries including UK already made Rape or sexual assaults Law, work place harassment law as Gender Neutral. In UK itself more than 65000 women and girls found guilty of raping men and boys, then wonder why not a single women in India had not found guilty?
It’s because when a women or girls rape a men or boys, it never considered as crime in spite "The Law Commission in one of its Report dated March, 2000 hadrecommended that laws relating to rape or sexual assaults to be made gender neutral.
Our Justice Verma Committee and their supporting gang, made all effort to Protect Indian Rapist women and get got Scot free.
They even forced government to change the original ordinance where the provision was made to Punish irrespective of Gender, a person can be accused for rape or molestation.
Biased Justice Verma and his gang strongly argued the crime done against women is far more than against men, so let some men suffer and make the law gender bias as the life of some men’s are not valuable .
Even our Law makers also surrender in front of them and ironed the earlier LAW commission’s report to make rape / Sexual assaults law Gender Neutral.
They forget it is not the numbers game, injustice somewhere is direct treat to justice everywhere. Number of Terrorist/murder in the form of Women or men is much less than total population, so does all prevention of Terrorist act or Murder act will be only for men? Number of women caught in Drink and drives also much less (90% cases police do not even register a case against women), so does the same law should be only for men?
Request all honest citizen of India, demand to your MP/ MLA to make gender neutral LAW as a Natural Justice all over world follow and immediately replace the word "Husband/wife" to "Spouse" and "Men/women" to "Person" or be ready to pay heavy price tomorrow as crime in society is going to increase in multiform.
Women organizations always give logic whenever any discussion to amend the anti-men laws come in sight, that good men will not suffer from such law, only bad men are booked by such laws. Abuse or misuse of a law is not a valid ground to stop making any law etc.
So, same logic should not apply that if any good women does not rape, molest or acid attack to boyfriends, they will not be punished, very simple logic, but what the logic they have, when bad women like bad men do heinous crime like Rape, molestation or acid attack, the same should not be termed as crime in India ?
Would love to hear from you.
My humble request, law should not be on emotion as crime does not have any sex, caste or religion, so the first priority the law should be gender neutral. If women do not do rape, molest or acid attack on boyfriends, they will not be punished, but outright say, women do not do rape or sexual assault, is wrong and such mindset in law making process will increase the crime in society.
It’s time to stop Protecting Rapist women of India also. Men are Human too.
