The effects of divorce differ by situation and personal circumstance and may be different for men and women.
Most dangerous stage for men is, waiting for divorce (maximum crime of spouse murder/suicide occurred) than after divorce. as marriage disputes in India, irrespective the man is right or wrong ,they had been abused, blackmailed, treated as Free ATM machine in front of society/police/court every where. In India marriage disputes had been termed as crime for men, not for women. Recently one Great Anchor of NDTV argued as 60% Divorce filed by women means women are harrased, but same anchor do not forget to term any Men as Wife beater/dowry seeker when 40% Men file for Divorce.
Awaiting for divorce and the suicide statistics of crime bure report reflects the same.
• Crime Bure data 2012 : Married Men Sucide : 63343 vs Married Women Sucide 32000.Still there is no LAW to Protect Men why?
After divorce the men’s life became more comfortable or worse, it depends purely on how troublesome was his marriage, what type of Divorce litigation he faced.
Perception shift:
Till 1990 or up to 2000, the basic perceptions were, a divorced woman is means she is a liberated women and a divorced men means he is a wife beater/abuser, thanks to special law 498A in 1983.
But 2000 onwards the same got changed and the society slowly accepted that A divorced men also can be victims of Domestic violence in terms of financial abuse, mental abuse, sexual abuse , physical abuse and the same reflects in the Suicide statistics of Men vs Women. As the divorce rate will increase more and more the same perception change will increase more, some one like it or hate it that is the fact of irony.
Going through a divorce is never easy for anybody; however, there are certain effects of a failed marriage that occurs more often with men, than with women. When a marriage is about to be dissolved, emotions often runs high, and a lot of important financial decisions have to be made.
This is almost always a recipe for disaster. As a general rule: Never mix emotions and finances, or emotions and legal matters.
Effect of Divorce on Indian Men:
1. Financial effect: Huge loss irrespective the men is right or wrong.
2. Government support: Due to no men welfare ministry and no shelter homes, no one cares for men.
3. Emotional effect: Depend on type of trouble he faced, type of marriage they have, time spend together, child involved or not and the last think the type of divorce man got.
4. Loss of child access: Major problem and maximum divorced men suicide related to that.
5. Social effect: It is not exactly loss, his the social and networking circle got changed, attract towards more unclear family instead of joint family.
Personnel life:
1. Try to Enjoy their work place much better than previous.
2. Spend more money for their self use/fun/enjoy/travel/satisfactions of life.
3. Get less angry for small issue.
4. Became less expected in life.
With the present set up , when the country like USA , who had more than 50% divorce, their child taken the initiative for marriage more workable and the divorce rate is reducing, the country like India and Asian country divorce is increasing and that is the hard reality, as we always think the rivers other side is better than our side.
Situation in USA:
Fifty percent of all children are children of divorce. Twenty-eight percent of all children are born of never married parents. Divorce is expensive. Aid for Dependent Children (AFDC) resources are drained by the needs of divorced and single parent families; including the cost of collecting child support.
For men:
1. Men are usually confronted with greater emotional adjustment problems than women. The reasons for this are related to the loss of intimacy, the loss of social connection, reduced finances, and the common interruption of the parental role.
2. Men get remarry Proposal more quickly than women but prefer to refuse more often.
3. As compared to “deadbeat dads,” men who have shared parenting (joint legal custody), ample time with their children, and an understanding of and direct responsibility for activities and expenses of children stay involved in their children’s lives and are in greater compliance with child support obligations. There is also a greater satisfaction with child support amount when negotiated in mediation. Budgets are prepared, and responsibility divided in a way that parents understand.
4. Men are initially more negative about divorce than women and devote more energy in attempting to salvage the marriage.
With the learning from USA social impact, our aim and action as a commando of SIF movement should be to avoid the nasty divorce and promote more shared parenting, as though the society had more or less accepted the divorced men and women in open heart, but still there is some discrimination towards the divorced child.
If divorce is unavoidable, try to make the legal and financial matters strictly apart from the emotional matters, even if it tears you up inside, the alternative is a prolonged, expensive battle, that in many cases will make long lasting emotional scars on both sides, and prevent chances of a future reconciliation.
Statistically up to 15% of all divorcees end up reconciling with their former spouses, this figure could be higher if the divorce was handled in a friendly or even in a business-like manner.
Most important think is need to make the Divorce related law, less personal money earning business and less attractive and gender neutral policy/law, or be ready to increase the divorce rate and it is good or bad only future child will give the answers.
“Divorce is not the solution to a troubled marriage; but Indian men have very less choice, as there is no men well fare ministry who can think about them.
Thanks to India’s more than half dozens anti-male law and multiple litigation like 498A, DV act,CRPC125,Section24, Section18, biased adultery LAW and lot more are on the way very soon in the form of IRBM where a men may even loose 50 to 80% of his saving for " No FAULT" !!! ”
This is called the present Justice system in India and equal right in India, made by India Government.
Every Men in India are under high risk of #Fakecases at Home, Office, Road due to multiple anti-Men #Unfairlaw - which became Blackmailing/Extortion Tool. To survive or #FightBack knowledge is Key. Law is not any rocket Science. Buy & start Read Law Books Now!
For a wife even adultery also is not a crime (it is a rewarding option and free money earning business for the whole life), but for a man even an allegation of “Name-calling” is crime and not only the man, his mother/sister/age-old father also can be put behind the bar under 498A or DV act.So for men filling Divorce in India means moving From Frying Pan to Fire
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what contribution does women does ,just using perfume food jwellery of husband and demanding property ,india has no laws for men ,women slaps husband and tells false story that husband has slapped ,the law of india are favourable for women that husband becomes beggar and women become boss or god of men ,more then 76 percent case done by women are wrong ,but slaps on husband face ,men must not born in india ,women spiols life of men 11-11-2013 ,men have no protection and only women can be violent is fact 100 percent fact reality of india
I watched the video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsFyd4FS-cA
and also watched 10s of other debates. I also read what you wrote but what good does it do ?
A woman can stand and say that she was tortured and was asked for dowry (even if she wasnt) - thats the end of story. No questions asked by Stupid Indian Penal Code and the husband is locked up behind bars !!
mera name ramandeep h or m delhi m rhata hu meri shadi 2 dec 2012 ko hui thi
meri wife mujha or mara ghar walo ko bhut prashan karti thi mujha khati thi ke
apna mata or pita ko ghar sa nikal do nhi to m mar jugi ya tum sab ko jhuta
ilzam m fasa dugi m apna mata pita ka ek hi shara hu or mara papa bhi handicap
ha es bat ki hamna camplan thana ma or rajori gardan DCP shib ko bhi ki thi rakhi
m mari wife apna maika gai thi jo hr m h ma or mari badi bhan jo ki shadi suda h
ham donu mari wife ko lana gay tha magar mari wife or uski maa na hma thaka mar
ka ghar s nikal diya or kha ki jis din apna mata pita ko ghar sa nikal daga tab
mari ladki ko lana aio fir ma or mari bhan wapis delhi a gya or hamna delhi m under
section 9 ka case dal diya hma jaj shibh n 2 month ka bad ki tarik da di mar wo
log tari pr nhi phucha or mari wife na ham pr jhuta aroop laga diya or aj mara
papa or mari bhan hisar thana m gya to mari wife ka ghar walo na unko marna ki bhi
koshish ki or kha ki ya to ghar mari bati ka name karo ya fir hma moti rakam do or
ma moti rakam to da nhi sakta hu kyo ki ma ek chuti se private nokri karta hu or
mari shadi ka mara upar bhut karja bhi h es liya ab mara pas ik hi rasta bachata
na ki m atam hataya kr lu agar ma atam hatay karta hu to uska zimadar mari wife
or uski ma or uski bhan or jija huga or uska wha s mujha dhamki bhi a rahi h ki
apna maa or bap ko ghar sa nikal da nhi to ham tara sath bhut bura kara ga ab
mujha ek hi rasta najar a rha h ki ma mar jao. or uska jija mara pita ko marna ki bhi dhamki
da rha h plz mari halp karo
mera name ramandeep h or m delhi m rhata hu meri shadi 2 dec 2012 ko hui thi
meri wife mujha or mara ghar walo ko bhut prashan karti thi mujha khati thi ke
apna mata or pita ko ghar sa nikal do nhi to m mar jugi ya tum sab ko jhuta
ilzam m fasa dugi m apna mata pita ka ek hi shara hu or mara papa bhi handicap
ha es bat ki hamna camplan thana ma or rajori gardan DCP shib ko bhi ki thi rakhi
m mari wife apna maika gai thi jo hr m h ma or mari badi bhan jo ki shadi suda h
ham donu mari wife ko lana gay tha magar mari wife or uski maa na hma thaka mar
ka ghar s nikal diya or kha ki jis din apna mata pita ko ghar sa nikal daga tab
mari ladki ko lana aio fir ma or mari bhan wapis delhi a gya or hamna delhi m under
section 9 ka case dal diya hma jaj shibh n 2 month ka bad ki tarik da di mar wo
log tari pr nhi phucha or mari wife na ham pr jhuta aroop laga diya or aj mara
papa or mari bhan hisar thana m gya to mari wife ka ghar walo na unko marna ki bhi
koshish ki or kha ki ya to ghar mari bati ka name karo ya fir hma moti rakam do or
ma moti rakam to da nhi sakta hu kyo ki ma ek chuti se private nokri karta hu or
mari shadi ka mara upar bhut karja bhi h es liya ab mara pas ik hi rasta bachata
na ki m atam hataya kr lu agar ma atam hatay karta hu to uska zimadar mari wife
or uski ma or uski bhan or jija huga or uska wha s mujha dhamki bhi a rahi h ki
apna maa or bap ko ghar sa nikal da nhi to ham tara sath bhut bura kara ga ab
mujha ek hi rasta najar a rha h ki ma mar jao. or uska jija mara pita ko marna ki bhi dhamki
da rha h plz mari halp karo
Every men in India should wake up. No women/girls are less than a men in India. In India a women can do anything and go to any extent because of the protection laws given to them on the basis of mercy. But they are misusing the laws. They are making false allegations on an innocent man just for his money. They don't want him or his family, but they want his money. If the man has really committed mistake, then give him the proper punishment. But nobody is having right to punish an innocent man for not committing any domestic violence.
you are right sir.
See this site for a real use case of abuse on man by 498A, 307,420, 354
http://www.survive498a.wordpress.com
This site shows how far a woma can go and misuse the laws
Don't get divorce in mutual concern if man is not in fault, fight against false& fraud wife.
Unless and until men will not start fight against false & fraud wife this false & fraud wife will going to take advantage of this law.
If you are really love to your children then fight for them so that next generation will not learn this thing from there fraud mother.
So it is all men’s responsibility to stand with true and open fraud is started by wife’s.
The effect of this another fraud will not become start , if another wife will start for thinking for the fraud then she will start thinking before doing.
The moral of this if you are really love your child and you are not able to save your childs life then at list try to save another unknown child’s life.
I truly believe that women can give men more mental pain and want to totally control their mind and soul , want to isolate him , mentally abuse him in a Subtle way that you can't prove specially in hypocrite society like ours . They want to isolate him from their parents , relatives and friends and its fact . If if you don't give your control you have to go thru legal pains . I m not sure whether we hypocrite Indians have any law to secure old parents who are abondoned because of such cruel and selfish wives . Its time to stand up and fight for this kind of rot in our society which has spread like cancer ..
Same story of my (Ramandeep Singh30 November 2013 02:59) please give any suggestion.
Same story of my (Ramandeep Singh30 November 2013 02:59) please give any suggestion.
I got married in 2010. Before my marriage my inlaws and my wife treated me nice , what I now realise that they were playing the game with my life. Right from the first day of marriage the girl has been disrespecting me and my family members. Over the period of initial two years of marriage I thought she may change her behaviour ....but she never did..We now have a baby boy which she made numerous attempts to kill my child when he was in the fetus .We often had quarrels between us....and she always disrespected me and my parents.....she used to go out of home midnights...and once her father even sent police at my home via wireless claiming that their daughter life is in danger......but I always tried to ignore the situations....thinking that every thing will be normal one day.....once my inlaws even tried to beat me....but I still ignored.......thanks to my upbringings and my education of being a double post graduate from technical background ......now I understand that its better to be an illiterate that being educated and suffer .......from the people misusing the govt laws and acts. I have been silently facing all the harrashment because I do not want my parents to loose respect in the society.....over the period since the first day of marriage my wife has been threatning me of filing false complaints on me and my family......past 2 years she had left my home and living with her parents.....she even took my child along with her.....whenever I try to talk to her she disrespects me and abuse my family members ...the same is being done by her parents too.....Last year in 2013 I had filed RCR PETITION against her......though she been receiving the court letters...she claims over the phone that neither she will come to the court nor let the court know that she had been receiving court summons.....she and her parents are even abusing the Judicial system of our country.....she and her father say that they keep the judiciary on their toes and can even fool the Judges and the court over the period of time...she claims over the phone to be roaming around and having fun with some other men....now whenever I talk to her father...and tell them that I am totally tortured and going through mental trauma....and I may take decision to file Divorce petition if my wife doesn't stop her nonsense behaviour.....for which they threaten me that they will get me in huge trouble by filing false 498A, Dowry case and other such cases on me......... or they may even kill me .....all these have been hampering my carreer growth and my professional life.....due to all these tortures I have left several jobs.........I believe that I am cursed of being born in this country INDIA where...the Govt makes laws for the benefit of womens in our society and Even NGO work to support only womens....Adultary is benefit to womens and a crime for mens.........what an equality of Rights we have been given in India....? My question is to our Government and the society...Is this what mens in India are suppose to face.....Is this what our constitution says equality of rights......Is this what Govt. in India do to married people......If this is all what I have to face.... in the coming years then I might have to take decision to commit suicide....which I am sure....means nothing to our Govt having constitutional machinery over a billion plus population.........I am very sure that there are hundreds of mens in India going through this pain and sufferring due to biased behaviour our Govt.......which leads to a high level of stress among mens forcing them to take wrong decisions of committing some crime....But no one to take care of unequality.......I know my talks may not make any difference to our Govt. But thought to share my problems and my views.
Hope some one may help me...?
my story is also like BK. Really gor frustated. My wife used to take contraceptive pills b4 marriage. She was having diabetes since birth. She even gave false birth date while marrying. Eveytime lie on every sentence. Filed false police complaint on me and my family. What to do???
http://divorceandindianmen.blogspot.com/
Very true. Totally with you on that. I do want to add to your comment "Most important thing to mention here is that lawyers in India totally misguide both men and women." They want the case to strech as long as possible. If one lawyer gets 10 divorce cases, he is good to go for 10 years at least, needing not to look for any more. LAW should be simple. If two people have not seen each other's face for two years, they don't need to be forced to stay together for all their lives. However, women are so focussed on milking money and specially their parents (in 90% cases) that by the time they realize they have past the age of marriage its already too late. Please open up your eyes and don't let Divorce lawyers live all their life happily on your money.
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Great informative blog about the status of divorce in india.I gain more and more knowledge from this blog.I also watched the interesting video on you tube.You can get more information in washington state divorce through their blogs.
I know about the 498A cases and that most of the cases are false to get men into trouble. My observation was that such cases are highest in Bengal across India , followed by Andhra (from statistical analysis in internet). I am a Bengali too and have never heard of Bengali families taking dowry. Even in my friends and close relatives and all across Bengal i've never heard about this much. But inspite of this how is it that Bengal has highest 498a registered ?? My take is Bengali women are the most dangerous and selfish in this regard. Is it correct to believe so ?? Note: In my close friends too , among some 13-14 guys who have got married there are already 3 divorces including 2 498a's (all bengalis).
Since years men are fighting for their safety and security however there hasnt been much improvrment/corrections in law. There has to be an impact, severe impact on indian government, law and order so that they are forced to make necessary ammendments in law to ensure both men and women are protected.
Everybody can post their suggestions for hugh impact...
Yes at least join FB Twitter team of www.savefamily.in
Marriage is most hazardous if it does not work. Women, being educated, quickly learn the tactics to find a fault in men and implement their rules, thereby suppressing them, and once you have kids, you are doomed for the next 15 years easily, as kids are the weak point and they know this pretty well.
It is men who are to blame for their misfortune.You see when a rape occurs thousands of them come out on the street and create a scene and our ever clever politicians who are always on the prowl for giving advantages to women,minorities not because they are concerned but for votes take the advantage of the situation in bringing downright unjust,biased and discriminatory laws.Nowhere in the world are domestic violence,sexual harassment laws gender specific.How unfair it is to think that a man is ruined for life for an offence which if committed by a woman would not even be considered an offence.I initially supported women's cause but now after being enlightened by the horrendous actual misuse of laws by women and their apathy for injustice on men I urge all to stop protesting rapes,molestations and pass by without raising a voice since this is the same response from women on unfairness towards men.Even domestic violence is of varying degrees,should a simple argument between a husband and wife lead to jail for men and severe mental torture by wives as already portrayed above not be recognised as a wrongdoing?
NO MAN SHOULD SUPPORT WOMEN'S CAUSE,THIS IS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN PROTEST IN INDIA.
OH! HOW CAN YOUNG MEN LIKE ME LOVE SUCH AN UNFAIR COUNTRY,RESPECT SUCH UNFAIR LAWS?Men like me are being driven towards misogyny.Is there no solution?
Bro awareness is key the way earlier u fooled by media and radical women orginasation many still in that phase and getting fooled join www.savefamily.in twitter team at least
Hi Bro...I am also facing the same problem as yours...your problem almost 95% matches with mine..Plz don't do suicide for the sake of ur wicked wife and in-laws...wait for time...time will only teach lesson to all...put all your burden on God and make yourself comfortable and stable and fight till you win ...All the best....
a man is send to jail if he ask money from his wife.
the same man should give money to his wife. as compensation.
this is cruel to men
friend. i am feeling for you.
a man is sent o jail if he ask money from his wife.
but a girl and girls father asking a bridegroom what is the salary.when the time before marriage it self.
at the time a girls family asking a bridegroom what is the salary ? they should be arrested.
a man is sent o jail if he ask money from his wife.
but a girl and girls father asking a bridegroom what is the salary.when the time before marriage it self.
at the time a girls family asking a bridegroom what is the salary ? they should be arrested.
mr sarkar sir !
your work is great.
be care full with the male feminists they will come and join your organaisation they will dilute mens organaisatiaons .principles.
they are double gamers.
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Facing the same problem... This women has made my life hell.
Solution: Do not marry, just live in relation. Or, get a pre-nupital agreement where eitger party gives up right on before marriage property. Third, if wife try to take advantage and misuse the kaw then dont goto court. Just take care of the siruation. May be at a far kesser cist :)
Rightly said.. Woman have all the rights and sympathy..society is with her, law is with her.. All a man can do is sit back and gobble all the pain and tension in the marriage, but don't say a word..
Hiii
You are right sir. It is true that we men stood n fought against any sort of injustice in the world, including injustice against women. It's high time that we must stand united once again and fight against this fraudulent women who destroy innocent men. Let's develop a forum, law, agency n awareness among men to fight hard n win against odds.
men should become bolder. there is no point in lamenting. i have been fighting a divorce and 498 since last 6 yrs. Unable to see my son for years. i dont want to give the bitch a simple divorce. i want to teach her a lesson that she will get more than what she asked for. in the process i may get affected in my career and the position in the so called white collar society. Fxxx with that.
i realized how a common man is living peacefully without any white collar.
i too had cried and thought of suicide in the beginning. but 498a made me stronger. One day in lockup... that changed the total outlook. Dont be afraid of being in jail.. that is a place where u will learn many survival skills.
Somebody pointed out majority of the 498a cases are arising in middle class white collar families. We are brought up to fear everything. There is nothing to be afraid of in this world, if you think yourselves that you are not an "in-expendable" commodity. Actually u are not!!!!
Really a great blog with a best thoughts and ideas are shared thanks for sharing..
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My advice to all men after reading this blog.
1. Man is made of steel. Man is powerful. Man is a tiger. Man cannot be cowed down by his wife or police or the law.
2. There is nothing wrong if a man goes to jail for the right cause including fighting false 498A filed by his wife. If you haven't done anything wrong, you won't be punished. Post aquittal, a man will ensure he files harassment cases against his wife, her family members and the police officers who harassed him and his family. A man never forgives his enemies. Remember that police fears backlash too. They would never arrest a person if they realize that the person has a vindictive nature and will get back at them strongly. They fear to lose their jobs if they are found guilty of torturing a person without reason.
3. A real man loves his wife and so will never divorce her. He will never beat his wife but is powerful enough to defend himself as well as intimidate his wife and her family members. After all, a sheep's family cannot harm a tiger.
4. A man will make his wife mend her ways and fall in line whether she likes it or not. There are many ways to do that like showing love, being stern, public humiliation, financial and social isolation, mental torture etc.
5. If 1000 men in this country take a stand to repair their existing wives rather than getting a new one, it will send a strong message to the whole country and even lawmakers will be forced to amend the law.
6. A wife is not bad. She is just misled by her perception that her husband is weak. The moment she realizes that her husband is strong and even the police and the court cannot cow him down, she will immediately fall in line. It is a man's duty to make his wife realize that he is too powerful and all her struggles against him are futile. Over a period of time (maybe after 30-40 years) she will eventually give in and fall in love with her man.
My wife has been involved with 3 men since we've been married for 8 years, it was an intercaste love marriage. Recently I discovered that my also drinks n smoke, men used to come at my home while I used to work in office, one of them was my office colleague, I'm really hurt to the core, but at the same time I think of my daughter with whom I'll be separated if I file for divorce. I'm really confused at present. Because of my wife's adultery my work has taken a hit, my cibil has gone down, I'm heavily debtridden. Sometimes I also think to end my life but just because of my daughter I don't want to take that drastic step. I bought this flat with my wife being coapplicant. I've left no interest in paying home loan where my wife cheated on me. I feel caged in my own house. Sometimes I feel to hand over this house n go away. I need all your suggestions n guidance.
We had been married for a while and things were OK, I was in love with her, she was crazy about me, but later on everything changed and by complicated exterior circumstances which did not have to do with us, we decided to pause for a while, but still remain friends. But in the end, she started getting cold: she treated me as if she did not know me, she acted too immature to the point where she did not even say hi to me when we bumped into each other (we had the same circle of friends). Of course, it hurt so badly, I wanted to kill her. Then out of nowhere she disappeared. I wrote her for her birthday and she replied little. Some of my “friends” saw she had left and started going cold with me too, as if it was my fault that she had left. The few that were still my close friends and still hers, told me she had moved on, that it was best not to make contact with her. Then out of the blue some months later she reappeared, but still acting like a douche. I was suffering emotionally of course, because we had never even had a divorce, it was just supposed to be a pause, so I did not know how to react, what to feel, what to do… anyway, she kept coming over and over on the weekends, and I had to deal with my “friends” who the moment they saw her, immediately left me and went over to her. Eventually, I decided to give up trying to restore anything with her as she was showing no signs of wanting me back, and started healing. Around four months after we had ended our relationship, I find out she is with another guy! That’s when I knew I had not gotten over her, because I cried, I was mad, it was just a feeling of “oh, poor me”. I could not stand losing her to some other guy, I decided to go diabolical (i.e. via spell). I got involved with a lot of fraudulent so-called spell casters on the internet who ripped me off my money without getting a result as to what I wanted. I almost lost my sanity. Just as I almost was giving up, one faithful morning, I received a mail from one of the spell castes I had applied for spell with but never got a reply all along. He made me to understand that he could not attend to all his costumers then because it was that time of the year for his annual fellowship with his ancestors for the renewal of his spiritual and supernatural gift. I told him not to worry about the spell anymore, that I was done with all of them fake spell casters. He assured me of his 100% genuine work of this gift which he possessed. I decided to give it a try. After spending about 2500 USD (which was due to my inability to provide a whole lot of materials which he needed for the spell process), I am happy to announce to the world that I have gotten back my wife and we are expecting our first baby. All thanks to Dr. Kene Dilli. All you out there tired of all these fraudsters that call themselves spell casters (seeking to rip were they have not sown) and you require legitimate spell for whatsoever purpose, contact Dr. Kene Dilli on his email address; kenedillitemples AT yahoo DOT com
Thanks for sharing Effect of Divorce on Indian Men !, This blog is best for divorce persons.... I like your post. Thanks...
Thank you all. I gained a very good idea as how to move ahead with the similar challenge I too facing from my wife.
Me too was looking for some kind of campaign or "Raise the voice" against law that favor-ism towards Women only - the way above Anonymous said.
I married this girl in 2010; and she started showing her blundered nature from day-2 of our marriage. I tried for 4 years to save my marriage by being with her, supporting her, spending money to most of her needs to satisfy, higher studies, facilities, crying and finally even begging to her knee to make my family by being with me as a good wife - BUT NO GO till today.
Now we staying separately and I bearing all her monthly expense since last 2 years.
She enjoying taking money from me and spending life with her friends and circle.
She refuses to give me a divorce.
There were too much too talk about her including its me who approached the police and social organization talking harassment she gave me - But that turned back on me.
-BN
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