How to stop Legal Genocide of Indian Men?

#Unfairlaw or Policy can not bring Fairness in any Society, it only kills fairness in Justice System and harmony in Society.

 

The topic of the legal challenges faced by men in India, particularly in the context of gender-based laws, is a complex and sensitive issue. Some individuals have raised concerns about what they describe as the "legal genocide" of men, particularly in relation to laws that they feel disproportionately affect men, such as those regarding dowry harassment (Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code), false rape allegations, and child custody disputes. 

However, it's important to address this matter from a balanced perspective, considering both the protection of men's rights and the need for gender equity.

Here are a few ways the issue might be discussed and addressed:

1. Reform of Gender Bias in Laws

• Review of Section 498A (Dowry Harassment Law): Supreme Court of India argued multiple times that this law, while aimed at protecting women from dowry-related harassment, is often misused, leading to unjust consequences for men. Reforms that ensure better scrutiny of cases, as well as proper checks and balances, could be explored.
• Balanced Laws in Family Courts: Custody battles and divorce cases often have gender biases, with women sometimes given preference in child custody, regardless of the father's situation. Family courts should aim for fairness and evaluate each case independently, based on the best interests of the child, without gender bias.

2. Education and Awareness

• Raising Awareness of Men’s Rights: There is a need for campaigns and educational programs that raise awareness about men's rights, particularly in relation to family law, domestic violence, and false accusations. This could help remove stereotypes and ensure that both genders are treated fairly.
• Gender-Sensitive Approaches: Promoting gender equality doesn't just mean focusing on women's issues but also addressing the challenges faced by men. Gender sensitivity training for police, legal professionals, and others can help them approach cases with impartiality.

3. Support Systems for Men

• Establishing Support Networks: There are relatively few support systems for men in distress in India, especially when dealing with family-related issues, false accusations, or mental health. Creating more avenues for emotional, legal, and psychological support for men could provide a way to address these issues effectively.
• Men's Helplines and Advocacy Groups: Advocacy groups that focus on men’s rights can play an important role in offering legal assistance, psychological counseling, and support in situations where men may be unfairly treated.

4. Preventing False Allegations

• Stronger Legal Framework Against False Accusations: While laws like 498A and those related to sexual assault have been created to protect women, there are concerns about their misuse. Providing legal safeguards against false accusations and ensuring strict penalties for malicious intent could help balance the scales.
• Objective Investigations: Law enforcement agencies and courts should prioritize objective and fair investigations to prevent wrongful convictions and ensure that the rights of the accused, whether male or female, are protected.

5. Public Discourse and Dialogue

• Open and Constructive Conversations: Societal attitudes towards gender roles and gender-based violence can be difficult to change. Promoting open discussions about the challenges men face, while also addressing women’s issues, is crucial. This could lead to better understanding and a more equitable legal system.
• Media Representation: The media has the power to influence public perception. Encouraging responsible and fair representation of both genders in issues of law and family dynamics can help promote gender equality.

6. Comprehensive Legal Reform

• Revision of Laws for Gender Neutrality: A reformation of laws to ensure they are gender-neutral could be a long-term solution. This would involve crafting policies and laws that don't disproportionately benefit one gender over the other but instead focus on the merit of the case at hand.
• Establishment of Gender-Equal Standards in Law: A thorough analysis of the impact of existing laws on both men and women, coupled with a focus on fair justice, can help avoid potential biases in legal processes.

7. Mental Health Support and Wellbeing

• Promoting Mental Health Care: Men’s mental health often goes underreported, especially in the context of legal struggles. Addressing emotional and psychological issues in a healthy and supportive way can prevent negative outcomes, such as suicide rates among men.
• Societal Support: A shift in societal expectations, which often encourage men to remain silent about their struggles, can play a significant role in alleviating these issues.

In summary, while laws are necessary to protect individuals from abuse, ensuring that these laws are applied fairly to both men and women is essential. Gender biases should be minimized, and legal systems should focus on justice and the specific details of each case.

Discussions around men's Constitutional right Article 21- Live and Liberty with Dignity should emphasize a balanced approach that upholds justice for all genders.

STOP ABUSE OF MEN: How to stop Legal Genocide of Indian Men? https://t.co/4ATbwiDwZO
Discussions around men's Constitutional right Article 21- Live & Liberty with Dignity should emphasize a balanced approach that upholds justice for all genders. Stop #InJustice2Men #AtulSubhash pic.twitter.com/0qE2OqqEOM

— SwarupSarkar (@swarup1972) December 13, 2024

STOP ABUSE OF MEN: How to stop Legal Genocide of Indian Men? https://t.co/4ATbwiDwZO
Discussions around men's Constitutional right Article 21- Live & Liberty with Dignity should emphasize a balanced approach that upholds justice for all genders. Stop #InJustice2Men #AtulSubhash pic.twitter.com/0qE2OqqEOM

— SwarupSarkar (@swarup1972) December 13, 2024

Toxic women group Creating #FalseNarrative Husband Suicide under #FamilyIssue not due to wives or her family.
Till 1994 @NCRBHQ record Family issue under quarrel with wife & parent-in-law. From 1995+ stop recording separately & combined as #FamilyIssue to hide fact by @NCWIndia pic.twitter.com/Ap49whRQ5o

— SwarupSarkar (@swarup1972) December 27, 2024

Shaadi , Dahej and Gangster Movie Review : Courtroom drama and melodious Songs that keeps you on edge .

Shaadi , Dahej and Gangster Movie Review : Rating 4.5 out of 5.

Shaadi , Dahej and Gangster released on OTT platform of Shemaroo on 30th July ,2021.

 

The film is written and directed by none other than former TV anchor Mr. Shuyab  who used to be a House Hold name in India for his famous crime show "India’s Most Wanted”.

 

Marriage Dowry and Gangster
A movie, a view to #misandrc society & gender biased laws .. #ShaadiDahejNGangster Watch now on #ShemarooMe app: https://t.co/rdMuof8AHG#ReemaLagoo #AlokNath #HarshNagar #FaridaJalal #DeepakTijari #SupriyaKarnik #AaliyaProductions pic.twitter.com/Te9GhXtLuL

— Shemaroo (@ShemarooEnt) July 31, 2021

The film makes for a gripping watch with a crisp runtime and top-notch performances by veteran actors like Farida Jalal , Deepak Tijori , Alok Naath , Reema Lagoo , Supriya Karnik , Zarina Wahab , Anjan Srivastav , Deepraj Raana, Legendary Ghulam Ali khan along with young Harsh Nagar , Shrishti Gautam  .

 

The film had wonder full melodious songs by Sonu Nigam , Sunidhi Chouhan , Shaan and Legendary Ghulam Ali Khan .

 

Surprise package Mr. Suhaib  as actor too in the film, it seems he is Back in action once again after almost a decade.

 

Start with a court room seen – where Public prosecutors make wild allegation and emotional argument with full of Misandry in front of lady Judge to convict a NRI husband family with IPC 498A, with commonly known as anti-dowry law or Dahej in India.

 

Within few seconds the accused advocate exposes his open lie in court with humor at best and viewers came to know a false dowry case had been filed, but they don’t know how, why and when such cases had been filed.

 

Then the accused advocate present Husband side of story with flash back from start.

 

A NRI family wants to get married their son with Indian girl, start searching bride. Match makers bring a proposal for them and during visit to the girl’s family home, the girl’s mother refused to allow meeting of boy and girl before marriage as per their traditional values.

 

This impressed the NRI family. During conversation girl’s mother asked about Dowry demand, on which the NRI family clearly said forget about any dowry demand and even all marriage cost will be borne by groom’s family.

 

They ignore many warning signs of girl’s family on blind faith and go ahead for marriage. After marriage-once a child bore out of wedlock- the girl’s mother along with an advocate cum property dealer gang up with Police officer to snatch highly valued land worth of 200 crores of NRI family which they bought for build up a Temple, Hospital, schools about 10 years back.

 

When NRI family refused to surrender on blackmailing and extortion, girl’s mother plan to file IPC 498A cases, which commonly known as Anti Dowry law or anti Dahej law in India.  NRI family got arrested and sends to jail.

Media and court trails begin.

 

While packing in various standpoints to showcase the flash back story, the screenplay also highlights how media and media trials take over a criminal case of this nature.

 

During trail and before final order passed: Why bring tears on the lady judge’s eyes?

 

 

 

Why lady judge have to say “Supreme court says there is no Law which can allow commonsense to be kept at cold storage”?

Does law allowed to judge really to deliver the justice?

 

To find such un-answered question, you have to watch the film.

 

Overall, Shaadi , Dahej and Gangstar is an audacious effort. It is a relevant film that tackles a complex issue of grossly abused Dowry Law in India which once supreme court of India also to be termed as unleash legal Terrorism if such abuse of law not stopped. The final verdict of the movie declares that will engage, inform and open up debates.

 

The most important part of the movie at end with the long list of thanks and acknowledgement mentioned large number of NGO , Activist and Helpline numbers for false accused victim to reach out for help , shows the director and production team had spent enough time and research for the film to create a much needed awareness to large public .

 

 

Our overall rating is 4.5 out of 5 and recommended to must watch irrespective of your age, family back ground ,  marital status and if you are a already victim of false dowry cases, you will not be disappointed even to watch the same 2 or 3 times too.

Watch now online Movie Shaadi , Dahej and Gangster at #ShemarooMe . ( Click to Subscribe Link ) 

How to Fight #Fakecases on Men? Learnings From Ramayan at #Hope4Men Seminar !

Learnings from Ramayan : #UnfairLaw and Policy by Misandric law makers of India, today pushing many men in The war Zone.
Some end their life some prefer to became a commando to stop this #LegalTerrorism against Men.

Every Men in India are under high risk of #Fakecases at Home, Office, Road due to multiple anti-Men #Unfairlaw - which became Blackmailing/Extortion Tool. To survive or #FightBack knowledge is Key. Law is not any rocket Science. Buy & start Read Law Books Now!

#AskMWT #AskSFF - A #Hope4Men Legal Awareness Seminar at Delhi

#Hope4Men Legal Awareness Seminar ; #AskMWT #AskSFF

#Hope4Men is a series of legal awareness seminars organised by Men Welfare Trust in Delhi- NCR and even in other cities to help the victims of the misuse of gender-based laws to understand their basic rights as a citizen and also as accused in-case of a false- case coming on to their way. Starting with the frequently asked questions, the Volunteers carefully listen to the queries of the attendees and advise them on the way to go.

In continuation with providing legal awareness to people, Men Welfare Trust & Save Family Foundation under the aegis of Save Indian Family Movement organizing Legal Awareness Seminar on fighting with gender biased laws on Saturday 3 Aug 2019. This will be a full day FREE Seminar where everyone is invited however the seats will be provided as first come first serve basis.

Venue :The Indian Society Of International LawBhagwan Das Road V.K. Krishna Menon Bhawan, New Delhi
Starting at 9:00 AM till 5:00 PMDate: 3-Aug-2019, Saturday

#AskMWT & we will take top 25 max asked in Seminar. Ask about Misandry, 498A, 376, 354, DV, Divorce, Maintenance, Custody, POSH, #MenToo.

Click to Register Here !

Earlier Reference : Workshop by NGO SFF at Delhi : Hope for Men

Fear of arrest, fear of losing Job, fear of losing social reputation, fear of to be termed criminal for a crime which they had never do became a nightmare for every day. Their all knowledge, training program go in vain to find any logical solution. Because this is called Legal Terrorism and there is no logic, how to find the solution. The fast you try to resolve the puzzle, you end up in more big trouble.

#SpeakUpMan to #StopAbuseMen , as Men are Human Too. 

#Hope4Men Press Release
Legal Seminar to help men fight #LegalTerrorism & save Muslim men from Triple Attack of #TripleTalaqBill@BBCHindi@aajtak @ndtvindia @htTweets @TOIIndiaNews @DDNewsLive @ANI @PTI_News @ians_india @the_hindu @NavbharatTimes @IndiaToday @IndianExpress @CNN pic.twitter.com/XDKesAES3k

— Men Welfare Trust (@MenWelfare) August 3, 2019

Japan Follow :
1. The Word Person instead of Men/Women in LAW.
2. Civil Damage cases even in case of Rape also!
3. Low poverty levels and low jobless Person (Men/Women).
4. More Police surveillance for safety of Person ( Not discriminate Men/Women).
5. Reasonable Jail with Work!

— SwarupSarkar (@swarup1972) December 18, 2019

Inspector Says : We are duty-bound to register #Rapecase when a women cry #RapeInIndia , let it be #FakeRape case & this is how #crimeagainstwomen data increased to fool whole nation. But who cares ? https://t.co/zpBpK6SSO8
Be #Misandry FREE @AmitShah @rsprasad @PMOIndia @UN

— SwarupSarkar (@swarup1972) December 20, 2019

#CrimebyWomen via #UnfairLaw :ससुरालवालों को फंसाने के लिए महिला ने रची ऐसी साजिश कि जानकर आप भी चौंक ...

Women family claim wife suicide or get murder (but she is alive ), but without any evidence , the Husband Family had been book in criminal cases.

How white Lie had been made and we all Indian Misandric People every time believe as their every story, every allegation and shame ,spread hate towards all Men community. 

In the Name of Dowry the #Unfair law made by Law makers , mere Verbal allegation and the Husband , husband Family behind the bar.

At the time of Marriage they claim its Streedhan and the same Women Right, none can ban it , but the same Streedhan termed Dowry as and when she want. So a Item at the time of Marriage is Streedhan , which is legal , but the same is became Dowry when any disputes comes. 

The home, car , money , property, gold wives and her family demanded from Husband family never termed as Dowry.

Result in the name of Dowry law makers made multiple special law DP3, 498a , 304B , DV act in-spite in Indian Ipc every law is there start from extortion to murder.

Result it only increases the #Fakecases on Men , it had been misused Left , right and center , married Men Suicide keep increasing , but our Law makers prefer in deep sleep .

But who cares ?

Law makers and women organisation assumption a #WomenNeverLie and the Men should be punished on mere allegation.

In India #CrimeByWomen towards to Men leads to Zero-Action.

Today Indian Women do not have Fear of any law.

Swarup Sarkar and Amit Lakhani on SC Judgment on 498A Misuse

SIFAR Presents - Voice of Underprivileged Gender with MRA Vitesh Aggarwal

Neither Society or LAW makers had liberated Men from their Protectors and Providers role , but increased their burden by making multiple Unfair laws where any disputes Men vs Women the man had been termed as Rapist, molesters or wife beaters .


Today even men are not safe in Traffic light crossing, any Tina or Mina can term you molester and prominent Media without any shame will declare guilty even before without hear your concern.
Help Line for abused/distressed Men ( SIF - One) : +91-8882498498 .

Purush Mange Insaf ( Men Seek Justice) Presented by JM News

A on line News - JM News had released the series of 3 episode on : Purush Mange Insaf ( Men Seek Justice).

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NGO for Men: Why suicide Increases, when boy became Men?

In a press release issued by coalition of various NGOs , like Save Family Foundation ,  working for abused and distressed men of India ask: 

Why suicide Increase, when a boy became men after 18 years of age?

 

Boy became Men-after 18yrs Suicide Increase at Rapid Speed.

Up to 18 years the suicide of boy vs girl are more or less same. But one must wonder what get changed after 18 years the men suicide keeps increasing?

As the age increases, a boy getting to be termed as Men and they are becoming victim of all gender biased law as well by default along with there is no support system available, when they face any type of Domestic abuse like verbal, emotional, sexual or economical abuse. There is no protection of men in present Domestic Violence act. With the increasing ages Men are getting more victims of blackmailing, extortion and domestic abuses which witness clearly from the suicide data.

This Independence Day, group of 50 Ngo’s and 180 activists across nation will assemble in Mumbai to brainstorm advocacy of gender neutral laws in their 7th National Meet.

The seventh national confluence has been earmarked to evolve with strategy of protecting vulnerable men from laws facing undue harassment due to heavily loaded legal provisions against men. It’s ironical that “India” presumed to be a patriarchal society has marginalized men like never before.   Apart from gender neutral laws the group will also discuss the concerning issue of suicide of men & deteriorating health status and lack of medical facilities for men & boys. 

 

Husband Suicide vs Wives is 2.6 Times More

Suicides is one avenue which exhibits the social trauma and mental status of a men NCRB 2014 illustrates the vulnerable situation men are facing in present scenario. 

Every 5.9 min a men is committing suicide in India with family disputes as single largest reason of male suicide. As per the latest statistics from NCRB, we wish to highlight following:

Ø  As against last year ratio of 2.17 Husband Suicide per Wife Suicide in India, in 2014, the ratio has increased to 2.21 Husband Suicide per Wife Suicide. Similarly, Male Suicide to Female Suicide ratio has increased from 2.05 last year to 2.10 in 2014. This means that with the Anti-Men environment in India, more Men and Husbands are forced to commit suicide. India, indeed, is becoming unsafe for men.

 Ø  In India, 1 male commits suicide every 5.9 minutes in 2014. While Women suicide is 1 in every 12.36 minutes. Unfortunately, still Government is not showing any intent to bring equality for Men in Law. In 2014, India witnessed Male Suicide (89129), Husband Suicide (59744), Female Suicide (42521) while least was Wife Suicide (27064).

 Ø  Another startling fact is that suicide of women in age-group 30-60 years is 39% of total women suicide while the same for men is 16% Higher & is 55%. This clearly shows that the age group of 30-60 years is 16% more vulnerable for men as compared to women. It is pertinent to mention here that this is the age group which is contributing maximum to GDP of India and hence government’s loss of focus to men of this age groups specifically will have a direct effect on the GDP of the country.

 Ø  Another clear indicator of how growing to be an Adult male in India is crime is showing in the NCRB 2014 data. Till the age of 18 years, for every 100 suicides, boys and girls have almost equal proportions. The moment a boy becomes a man, i.e. of every 100 suicides of adults in India, 2/3^rd of the suicides are by Male. This is clearly arriving to the fact that since POCSO is Gender Neutral (and other laws are too), the suicide ratio is almost same irrespective of Gender. The moment laws become biased, male suicide sky-rockets by another 25%-28%. Means, women are safer in Husband’s house whereas Men are unsafe once they become adult.

 Ø  It is ironical that Ministry of Women and Child Development, in their own report in 2007 had said that of every 100 children sexually abused, 53 are boys but still the Rape laws of India or other laws do not cover men as victims because of which we see a huge increase of Suicide of Male gender the moment they become adult. The suicides are because of either false rape case threats or because of them being victims of Rape by women and no law covers them.

 Ø  Cannot be directly established but indeed in 2013-2014, Men in India did see some relief with launch of SIF One (National helpline for Men – 8882498498) and also the directions from Hon’ble Supreme Court in ‘Arnesh Kumar vs State of Bihar’ gave a huge hope to Husbands / Married men and that’s where we are pleased to see their suicide rate coming down.

 Ø  As per the Accidental deaths (by unnatural causes) data of NCRB 2014, 80% of victims are Men but still the Government is no waking up to make workplace, society, public areas, homes safer for men.

 Ø  More than 85% of Traffic Deaths and over 81% of Traffic injuries victims are Men and still the Government is ignoring men completely in their policies and their budgets.

 Single largest reason as revealed by NCRB for suicides were found to be family disputes (21.7%).

Cause of Suicide

The Confluence of activist will discuss the expansion of SIF one helpline to various other states.

Presently the helpline is operational in 10 States of the country namely MP-CG, UP, Delhi, Karnataka, Rajasthan, Maharashtra, West Bengal. The Non sponsored non funded helpline is a Single helpline service run by by self supported, self volunteers 24X7 to counsel and guide men in distress.

The grim scenario of men facing atrocities is a black spot as India when it is assumed to be a male dominated society where men even lack basic amenities as gender neutral laws and distress centers.

Single largest reason as revealed by NCRB~ for committing suicide 21.7 % are family disputes. 18623 male & 9977 females committed suicides because of family problems. Followed by illness 18.0% marriage related issues rank third with 5.1% love affairs 3.2% drug addiction 2.8%. The unsympathizing attitude of government & investigating authorities is exhibited from the fact that 12.4% of suicides have causes unknown. 

Men are completely on a barren land in case of any disputes with any female in family, work place or at Social Network. It’s the Men have to pay heavy price even without any fault at their end.

65 crore male population does not have a law to protect themselves in case they face cruelty or any form of Domestic abuse. Studies report that male child Sexual abuse is 15% more than female child yet the laws remain biased to protect girl child alone. Amendment in various laws to protect women fails to protect men under similar scenario of molestation & sexual abuse. The forum will formalize a strategic group to create legal sensitization and seek constitutional amendments and urge lawmaking authorities to enroll men in the frame work of laws to protect interest of men.

Absence of a dedicated “Men Welfare ministry” explains gender Apartheid and men even facing poor health condition and medical aid also. Out of Illness 16078 men & 7663 women committed suicide. Aids forced 184 men & 48 women to suicide.

Men are more also prone to various forms of cancer, 407 men & 175 women chose to death.

Mental illness also engulfed 4761 men & 2341 women. Other prolonged illness sucked 10425 men & 4992 women to death.

Paralysis cased male suicide 3 times that of women. 407 men & 175 men committed suicide because of paralysis.

Where men are prone to illness & health hazards Indian men don’t receive any respite in the so called male dominated society. 

“The Forum in this national confluence will evolve with a strategy to create pressure groups to sensitize parliamentarians to evolve with a time line & concrete plan to address male specific heath issues” , Said by one of activist from Mumbai.

Men overburdened with the social expectation of providing & protecting their families and society face larger social trauma.

Bankruptcy took away 2098 men vis a vis 210 women almost 10 times that of women showing men the sole breadwinner could not take the trauma. Poverty adhered 1419 men & 280 women, unemployment 1965 & 242 women.

Thus strengthening the fact that men are more vulnerable to social stigma and unable to meet the expectation of family & society succumbed to death. 

Four-fold hike in no. of Indians ending lives: Study

  

National Confluence aimed:

·         To evolve a consensus from nationwide volunteers to evolve with strategic initiatives to empathize with the deteriorating situation of men in legal front, heath care & Social Status.

·         To address men in distress through various channels, campaign, create pressure groups and establish the respect for men.

·         To avoid the inevitable & stand by all Men to address their pain n support them for better living.

·         To restore the dignity of men & give them equality in true sense by respecting Indian Constitution article 21 – right to Live and Liberty to all.

#NCRB Suicide Data:2020
Men: 108532 vs Women: 44498 (1.43X)
Husband : 73093 vs Wives: 28085 (2.6X)
Once Boy became Men: after 18Yrs #Suicide increasing in Rocket Speed-Still No action by Lawmakers.
Why not make #304B #DVAct #498A #354 #375 gender Neutral?https://t.co/UdVgdeNlpt pic.twitter.com/F1lx94ZChP

— SwarupSarkar (@swarup1972) October 28, 2021