#PurushPaksh : My discussion with NGO working for Men Daaman !

Men are Human Too ! Be #Misandry Free to Stop Abuse Of Men !

Panel Discussion on #Lockerroom Generation: Where it Heading?

Panel Discussion on #Lockerroom Generation: Where it Heading?

Panel discussion with Eminent Panel on something very important, urgent and about our future generations.

• Amit Lakhani, discusses #BoysLockerRoom, #GirlsLockerRoom with a Panel of:

• Dr. Bhooshan - Child Psychiatrist from Pune

• Adv. Panjwani - Advocate, Hon'ble Supreme Court of India

• Mrs. Preeti - Former Director of Higher Education, Uttar Pradesh

• Mr. Swarup Sarkar - Save Family Foundation, Delhi (Regd. NGO)

• Mr. Wasif Ali - Men Welfare Trust, Delhi (Regd. NGO)

#WakeUpBoys : Our child Ministry only for name Shake , they will not do anything for you ! Call our Helpline : 8882498498 when you face any discriminations !

Our Father Groups will be more then be a best friend of You. Never ever think about to die by suicide!

 Come out from #Lockeroom ! You are living in a #Misandric Society , where A Girls 1000 wrong will be forgiven , but your one wrong - you are gone !

#DidiGang with #Mangina gang at social ,Print and electronic Media are just waiting to suck your blood ! So be very careful !

Time to #SpeakUpBoys the discrimination you are facing., we are here for you as Best friends , who will not Judge you on basis of your Gender !

Girl make fake profile as Boy & Chat for Rape Girls ! 

Delhi Police issued Press Release and says : 

Investigation has revealed that the alleged Snapchat conversation is actually between a girl (sender) and a boy (receiver) in which the girl is sending chat messages through a fictional Snapchat account named 'Siddharth'. Using the fake identity of a male person, she suggested in the chat, a plan to sexually assault herself. 

The sad part is that after found the same in investigation that the Rape chat was Fake - no action taken against the Girls or against the DCW Chief Ms.Swati Maliwal who issued Notice to police with the Fake Rape Chat as evidence & put Video also in Twitter to arrest all Boys of #BoysLockeroom and created hatred towards school going Boys ! 

#JusticeForManav : DCW Chief #SwatiMaliwal A Big Disappointed & Blood in yr hand : https://t.co/UEowihKKTQ
Without any investigation by authority, #SwatiMaliwal herself became a Court Judge & Investigation Office which leads to One 12th Class Boy die in Suicide ! #SpeakUpBoys

— SwarupSarkar (@swarup1972) May 10, 2020

Humble request to @DelhiPolice @CPDelhi must take strong action against those created #WaronBoys ! Also must investigate, if there is any drug dealer gang or group or foreign funded NGO trapping our Boys & blackmailing ! it's seems deep rooted welpland activity @AmitShah @ndtv https://t.co/PaFq6xPRUu

— SwarupSarkar (@swarup1972) May 10, 2020

Anybody who is connected or can get us connected to the parents of the boys accused in #boyslockeroom, please do so. We can see a trap here & shall demand an unbiased investigation in the matter.
One can not just do all that shaming, maligning the reputation of boys n get away. pic.twitter.com/ptM9XftFoE

— Men Welfare Trust (@MenWelfare) May 10, 2020

#ArrestSwatiMaliwal : @DelhiPolice She is repeated Offender, earlier also she done crime by posting Minor rape victim video, but scot FREE by simply say sorry ! Will u give such type of protection, if any common people say sorry after do Crime ?https://t.co/l5uvplOdQJ@CPDelhi

— SwarupSarkar (@swarup1972) May 11, 2020

Not all Men are trash, some Women are trash too!!!
A girl is innocent until proven guilty
and a boy is guilty until proven innocent.
Our society needs an attitude makeover NOW! #ArrestSwatiMaliwal #BoysLockerRoomTruth pic.twitter.com/GDRJt1kuXd

— Koena Mitra (@koenamitra) May 11, 2020

Facing False IPC498A, rape, dowry, molestation, DV case, how to fight back?

Before start you must know the basic of criminal justice system:

•          Cases WIN or lost depend on ground contradictory statements, creating doubt against any allegations, abuse the process of LAW or for coming to court with unclean hands is the major key factor.

•           Go through all FIR/ Complaint/ Charge sheet or any other cases documents, then note down the contradictory statements, hiding of Important Fact.

•           On Facts of cases, prepare the questions for complainant and witness for Cross.

•           Bring out the fact in court and also try to find reference Judgments of SC or HC like your cases.

•           Use of CrPC 340 should not be missed at any stage, let judge dismiss it or keep pending for trial to end.

•           90% preparation should be from your side, as you know the fact better than your lawyers.

•           Avoid any contradictory statements or allegations without evidence from your side.

•           Highlight all the good things you have done for her, like purchase of any items / home / FD / education / photos of outings etc.

•           Identify the motive of her filling such cases, MOST IMPORTANT.

• Never ever try to close the Complaint at Police station:

We have witness many cases, people think such cases can be closed by police station itself by compromise or a simple apology etc. The fact such cases are non-compoundable and non-cognizable and as per Complaint if the allegations levelled revel cognizable offence, police have no option but to register the FIR, let the allegation fake or you have evidence to prove it wrong.

So, don’t waste money and time to stop conversion of complaint to FIR. Your job starts once FIR get registered , then try to close the FIR by providing any evidence you have to Investigation officer to file final closer reports to court. Wherever without FIR police had tried to close the complaint, the accused had faced much trouble. Any type of compromise dead or apology etc will be used to file second time Complaint with stronger prima face evidence and none will be able to save you.

• No self confession at Police stations or in Court:

Anything you say WILL be used against you, what you do not consider a "confession" police or social workers are likely to. Never try to explain why you have done this for her to help or come out form depression, learn from Sooraj Panchali case. It will be used against you as prima face evidence to build the case and the same act done for  good intention or bad intention up to court to decide and you will be dragged in court room years after years.

When we go through various judgments of Supreme Court of India witness more than 90% cases  where ever some men failed to prove their innocence, it is due to the self confession by accused was the prime reason for his convection.

We have seen many thousands of cases that would never have seen a courtroom had it not been for the things the accused said that were twisted into being a confession.

REMAIN SILENT! You HAVE that right, USE IT!

Yes police will try their best to play good and bad cope to get your confession by hook or crook, but always remember those are temporary torture, mentally prepare to face it.

• Demand advocate to be present

If you demand an advocate, and you cannot afford one, police can’t continue to question you if you want one appointed free for you. If they persist they risk contaminating a case.

They have to produce you in court and that time seeks again an advocate and brings the truth of their physical torture if any.

You have to understand the level of Trouble you are going to face.

• Finding the right advocate or LAW firm to represent you

There are many good advocates available, but that does not grantee hiring a good advocate will save you. There is nothing called good or bad advocate, it is how you and he make the relationship and understand each other’s requirement, start form fees to your capacity to pay.

Always avoid negotiating with advocate about their fees, asking their fees and if you can afford it go with it or avoid. It’s always better to fix fees per date than one time amount, it is a win win situation for both keeping in mind our Indian judiciary’s back log of cases.

First you have to understand the meaning of advocate. In legal terms he is representative of you. Why you need a representative for you? The reason is you have faced such cases first time, but an advocate witnesses such cases many times, so some experience he had which you don’t have. 

Maximum cases we witness people run behind costly advocates and end up with a situation, instead the advocate represent him, he became representative of advocate.

It is often best to find the best advocate reference from the various court judgements where they had past experience of success.

If at all you don’t find a suitable advocate for your case as per your budget, it is better to fight as party –in-person than try to find a re-negotiated advocate.

• Update your own knowledge:

It’s time to start update your own knowledge. You might have seen in movies, how an honest advocate brings all the evidences or witness in court room and in last minute turn the table.

But in reality it does not happen. 90% hard work, like collecting evidence, protecting your defence, you have to do it. Your advocate job to make the same in legal language and his job is only 10%. To understand various Law and judgements one need maximum 3 months for an average IQ guy, as it is not a rocket science.

The more you will start reading various SC or HC judgements, you will find more loop hole in your FIR or in her statements.

You can select any one as advocate to represent you, but should never rely solely on anyone, not even yourself. You must start to meet others who also facing such cases learn from their success and failure story. You can't help to defend yourself from a place of ignorance. You'll need to educate yourself on the subject area of the allegations you are facing.

When your advocate tells you that you need to do "X" it is important that you understand why you need to do that. Lots of time can be wasted trying to explain every step to you, and often the effort spent "selling" you on the need to do "X" or "Y" becomes so tiresome that anyone will decide to stop trying.

You need to understand why the things are necessary and not just be a cash cow and a passenger along for the ride. The best results come from a fully involved advocate and client relationship.

Many advocates don't like that, but the successful ones demand it. Beware and don't snatch defeat out of the jaws of victory.

• Build your resources, may have to look for some Loan

No one wants to hear that this kind of case will be expensive and takes long time. Actually such cases had been filed against you keeping in mind that only. On the fear of arrest, on the fear of social reputation, on the fear of cases will drag years after years, you will surrender to their illegal demands.

If you had faced such cases, as your earlier brothers also done the same mistakes by surrendering in front them, it’s called Legal Terrorism. So, first you have to mentally prepare what ever happened to me already happened, but will not allow her to bite another innocent and for that if required will sell my own body parts also , but will not surrender in blackmailing or extortion.

Then only you will able to take right steps.

• You have to begin by realizing the level of trouble you are in

Understand the consequences if you underestimate the legal ramifications for your life lead you to make the wrong decisions. Unfortunately most people go into some level of denial and minimize the trouble they are in. As a consequence they fail to do things they must and find themselves in much deeper legal troubles than they started out with. 

For an example, say child sexual abuse allegations or sexual abuse to wife had been added during a divorce case, and you feel they mean little as how can such allegations to be taken seriously by court or your advocate says "such cases does not stand in court" . So you prefer to take such allegations lightly and ignore to concentrate to break their allegations and then find in no man’s land during trial. If you had reacted properly the eventual cost would be a fraction of what it will cost if things get out of hand.

• Learn to use Technology :

You must start learning various technological product like , CCTV, SPY Cameras , good recording device for Mobile Phone , latest voice recording software , as during the process of all investigation, you may en-countered many threat , blackmailing , extortion demand . Don't loose the opportunity to capture the same always keep safe the original .

• Avoid running away from court date:

We know maximum people hate to attend the court date, but the fact is as per criminal law, as an accused you are suppose to be present in court date. If you unable to present an exemption must be filed. But maximum cases we witness, when judge call, neither accused or advocate present and opposite party take un-due advantages to issue NBW and again you have to run form pillar to post and loose all advantages of your hard earned earlier bail or AB.

• Start working with witness list:

You will need to start working on lit of witness. Include the people's name, addresses, phone information, as well as their employment and a brief biography. And also a brief bit on what they can testify to. Many time seen the witness you think is not important became key witness in your case.

You know best your case, so first identify truthfulness of witness and concentrate to bring truth in court room via cross exemptions. So, don’t limit yourself on one or two witness, use bad witnesses as well as ones on your side all, bring them in court notice. Let us decide who is important and who isn't. Witnesses are key evidence in any criminal cases fate. Always insist first all evidence of all wittness completed then only cross should start . Otherwise depend on your cross other wittness may add more aligation. If judge do not agree file application under CRPC 242/3 , let judge reject it at least it will help in higher court the evidence was after thought.

• Prepare for Final arguments:

•          Depending on FIR, Charge sheet, Witness statements, you have made the question of cross exemptions and your aim to get maximum contradictory statements, creating doubt against any allegations, abuse the process of LAW or for coming to court with unclean hands.

•          Summaries all and Present all the same, preferably as written statements.

•          Enclose some SC or HC judgements if any, same like your cases.

•          Prepare yourself to fight Up to Sc than surrender against any Legal Terrorism.

90% is your mental battle and 10% is legal battle in all such cases. Start networking with people in advance than crying foul after wards and keep blaming, advocates and judges as biased.

All are suppose to be behave as biased ( the way you also was till you got hit by any false cases in India )  as law itself is biased on assumption that a women never lie or  a women never cheat .

Be happy without her or Suicide due to her abuse ?

As per NCRB reports till 2013, every year on or average more than 64000+ married men ending their life, but in 2014 we witness about 10% reduction i.e. 59700+, clear effect of  SIF-One multi city, self supported, self volunteered-  Single Number helpline for distressed/abused men launched in 2013.

 But still the married men suicide continue to be double than married women suicide in India.

The same is neither a concern for government nor any Media house. Even National family health Survey committee also had not made any effort till today to find or to understand the problem of such males in India.

Many guys of today’s SIF volunteers network might had been also added their name in that list of NCRB, if they had not gone through with Time to time SIF weekly meetings, Work shop, Get-together, National Meets , Event like Protest, Press conference, Meeting your MP, organized by SIF Network NGO’s in multiple city all over India and world.

Hopefor Men is one of such training module designed by SIF volunteers from the various success and failure story of distressed / abused men of India. Such work shop brings some smile to many hopeless men of India, who find a reason to live a life than end their life as harassed Husband.

 

A simple formula, which I got in one of my corporate training program perfectly fit for all, not only in your family problem, even you can use for stress free professional life also.

 

•      STRESS = UNCERTAINTY * IMPORTANCE

 

•      MAKE ONE OF THEM ZERO, YOUR STRESS WILL BE ZERO.
•      Try to reduce any of the two; your stress will get reduced by default.
•      The more you will try to increase Uncertainty or Importance; your stress will keep increasing.

There can be some situation where neither you are in a position to reduce uncertainty or importance, use ANY OF 3A:

• ACCEPT

• ACTION PLAN

•   AVOID

Number of time we witness distressed call in our helpline, my wife is staying with me and threatening me for false cases, what should I do?

•          Must use technology; start recording (Video/Audio) all her threats and Blackmailing, as your verbal allegation no one going believe. 

•          Try if you can stay alone with your wife; away from your parents/family, it’s a tuff call, but present Domestic Violence act may give more trouble to your parents. 

•          Keep a track of all the expenses that you are doing on her, because 99% she will make allegations, you have not provided even food to her.

•          Keep all important documents/valuables away from her, have witness many cases husband’s passport, PAN, educational documents had been destroyed.

•          Keep a proof of her educational Qualifications, Job, Salary etc, as 90% cases we had observed husband running pillar to post even to gather a simple wife about PAN numbers , where as wives have already collected not only husband even his forefather all assets details .

•          Keep relatives / neighbours informed, don’t try to hide your problem. First accept you are a Victim of Domestic abuse, and then only you will able to try to find solution. The more you will be in denial mode, more pain and suffering you going to face.

At the time she is leaving:

•          Inform the police as soon as she leaves the house if possible just make a call 100 numbers and it get recorded. 99.9% cases the allegations are it is husband throw her in the mid night, where as fact is she left your home in Open day light with her all belongings.

•          Take a receipt of the things that she is carrying with her; get it signed by witnesses and if she refuses call 100 numbers and get recorded the same.

•          Try to keep the kids with you (if possible).

Most important, time to start join SIF network to update your own knowledge, reading various Supreme Court Judgements, success and failure story of your fellow male victims of domestic abuse.

Start visiting police station, courts when you have free time and be comfortable in advance than get shocked when you have to visit those places one day.

The dangerous situation and most distressed panicked call we get like, wife is NOT staying with me but threatening me for false cases, what should I do?

•         Use of technology and patience is key, start recording all phone calls with her (family) if they call you or threat you. Avoid to make call back to any miss calls, it can be trap to make evidence you call them and given threat.

•         Keep a record of your presence (especially on weekends/holidays), as 90% cases the allegations are you went their home, beat them, threat them and demanded dowry, to make a prima face evidence to file criminal case in their own Police station.

•          Do not close channels of communications, if the conversions are normal and healthy. 

•          Keep a tab on FIR or Complaint in her police station via network. 

•         It is better to visit police station and get comfortable with atmosphere, when there is no complaint than get panicked in the name of visit police station when real complaint done.

•          No Anticipatory Bail in UP, Uttaranchal, so prepare to get arrest stay form HC.

•          Avoid showing that without her you can’t live and dying every day. If she can live a life without you, why can’t you?

•          Never use any provocative words from your sides. It is like putting ghee in fire.

•          Minimum 2 to 3 years do not file any RCR or Divorce from your side.

•          Prepare yourself and start collecting evidence by which you can file any criminal cases on them, depends on your evidence and witness you collect.

•          Make ready Criminal Lawyers to get AB/Bail if any FIR is filed.

•          Accept your life is not like any of your other friend who is still under marital slavery.

In every family disputes it’s 90% mental battle and only 10% legal battle.  

But maximum time people will advice you find solution via legal route, like file divorce or file RCR which lead to high Stress /Tension in your life as in legal battle , your uncertainty will get increased by multi fold , as we term our Judges “My Lord”.

Husband Suicide : Unable to bear abuse by Wife

You can hire highly paid advocates but that’s’ give only your 10% battle remedy. Will help you to prepare a perceived Strong allegations (without any evidence or witness) as Cut, copy paste from others petition and in court, Judge understand in 2 seconds the entire cut/copy/paste lie. Your one lie will nullify her 10 lie as our Judges are also in Misandric mindset, women never lie or women never cheat.

 So, neither your problem gets solved nor you able to cope up the mental battle. You start changing advocates, get distressed and one day make statements: “I had been harassed more by advocates than my wife.”

So, we advice, never seek or beg or run behind Divorce, seek Justice. Divorce should be part of Justice, which should come by default as your right, not by parrying in front of Lord.

Will love to here , what option you will prefer , Join SIF Network to be happy or end your life .

When Men became Victim of Domestic Violence

Stop Abuse of Boys from WCD's malicious proposal

Crime done by Child is not UN-common , but after all consideration , UN had made rule instead of punish them like adult , such child to be reformed as their development of Brain is still under construction. Many child get abused , ill treated , forced to Child labor , their child hood had been taken away by our society , we failed to provide a basic home to many home less child . 

Cores of Fund , shelter home provided under WCD , but the same never taken seriously that if a Child had done any crime , means it is our society failed to reform him or able to provide the necessary education to them and such child instead of punishment to be send to reform home or school and bring them in flow of Normal society .

Photo by Mark : Stop de-humanizing Men or Boys for their Gender

Now for well fare of child in India also have a ministry , but it is clubbed with Women and termed as WCD ( Women and child department).

We had witness several time , WCD failed to do the real welfare of child and now the most in-human act they are doing is abuse the boys by various fake cases.

A 40 year old women and 17 year old boy have some physical relation , the whole world term the women as rapist and send her to jail, but in India , it is the Boy termed as rapist , which WCD failed to understand. 

Save Family Foundation and their associated organizations had cautioned about the loop hole in anti-rape law, where the consented relationship had been converted to rape cases and increased the rape statistic in police record. At a time when various court asked:  “Tougher rape law leading to increase in false cases?”

When Gujarat CM termed the poor uneducated boys as Rejected mall , as a WCD minister she had preferred to keep her silence , proved beyond reasonable dought, she had no concern for child in the form of boys in this country and totally doing injustice to lacks of Homeless Child's of India.

Unfortunately the same facts and figures could not get into public and before that came another burning issue pertaining to Juvenile crime.

Minister for Women and Child Development Maneka Gandhi advocating treating juveniles accused of heinous crimes like rape on par with adult offenders.

She said according to the police, 50 per cent of all sexual crimes were committed by "16-year-olds who know the Juvenile Justice Act so they can do it." But now for premeditated murder, rape, if we bring them into the purview of the adult world, then it will scare them.

We have already filed so many objections stating the facts and figures of gross misuse and utter neglect of the WCD ministry in addressing them. However, when it has become eminent to the world that that the sections of law which were formulated for the protection of women have been grossly misused, the WCD has got no options to turmoil the brains of society addressing with new agenda and in short “ABUSE OF BOYS”.

WCD minister came out with a proposal by citing a totally malicious, unclean hand, hiding the real fact of statistics without applying any fair thought, behind such statistics. Does WCD unaware that any consented relationship with a girl’s vs Boys aged below 18 years , by default the boy had termed as rapist and the same added in rape cases statistics ?

We would bring to notice of WCD : When any girl or women have any physical relationship with a boy aged less than 18years, do you term the same as rape?

If the answer is no, then why a Boy had been termed as rapist by you, when he had any physical relationship with any girl aged less than 18 years?

WCD citing the report of Police that more than 40 % cases boys are involved, without any court order, how can she term all cases as true? Why she ignored the same police report when it had says more than 90% cases are mutual consent only, which latter converted to rape?

Instead of dealing with the figures of misuse and work on it, they are preparing another platform of misuse. This can be clarified with the simple example.

A boy and a girl fall in love in a co-ed school. They had some intimate sharing with the consent of each other.  Later the girl’s parents file a rape case on the boy. This innocent who has no count of IPC and CrPC is rigorously punished. Is it justified? Even when the police figures clarify the same as 90% of cases of juvenile rape are actually a consented sex, Maneka Gandhi is hurried to get Juvenile law amended.

So, the formula used by all radical groups along with WCD, first create a loop-sided Rape LAW by which massive false/fabricated cases can be filed to increase the statistics crime against women and then again demand to amend further law saying crime is increasing, crime is increasing.

The cycle continues and the crime against women never gets reduced and their demand/funds never get stopped.

We have severe objections and lay it down as below:

• If Juvenile Law can be changed, change age for passport, driving license and bank account, etc. If a child can be termed as adult, as he has committed a crime which he doesn’t know, then in general a juvenile can be termed adult for all these.
• If juvenile can be termed adult, why shall he not given voting rights at early age.
• Age for consensual sex, drinking, etc to be reduced.
• Age for marriage and conceiving is to be reduced as the juvenile is matured enough.
• There have been numerous cases where boys have been used as a toy for pleasure by some nymphomaniac, however no such protection of child exists. Such acts should also be considered heinous and such women termed rapist.
• WCD ministry has failed to curb the menace of child labor which has risen by 6% in a year for boys and is at its Apex, but is ready to turn a juvenile an adult bypassing all the biology doctors’ study for years. This clearly indicates their soiled intentions and unclean hands towards ABUSE OF BOYS.
• Before implementing the amendment, it must be ensured that juveniles know all the 511 sections of IPC and 484 sections of CrPC, which Meneka Gandhi assumes that a juvenile has knowledge before committing such a heinous crime.

With all the above, it is quite eminent that the WCD ministry is not capable of handling child issues in a gender balanced thought process and thus the Women and Child Development shall break into two different entities.

The Supreme Court and various high courts have often stressed on the need to check the rampant misuse of such gender biased laws, basis this Maneka Gandhi has come up with new solutions of breaking families and promoting misuse and targeting boys only with hiding the real fact to hide their own failure to provide a safe, healthy education to poor Childs.

In a country the Child labor is banned, but every year 6% increase of boys in child labour, but WCD had not taken any corrective action, on the other hand the Sex between girls vs Boys below 18 years not banned, but WCD want to term boys rapist for a consented sex also.

Save Family Foundation, along with all their associated NGO all over India, once again demand to Prime minister to immediately stop such malicious act by WCD by separating the Child ministry from present set up as they had no concern for poor, uneducated boys or we should be ready to pay a heavy price as such step will increase only heinous crime in society, as we witness earlier also.

A Ray of Hope for abused/Depressed Indian men : SIF

Save Indian family (SIF) A name which few people would have heard or cared about 9 years back, but today this is a force to reckon with. The membership of SIF has reached lakhs across the world. Most of the prominent members of SIF come from well-educated and respected families. 

SIF also has a large number of women supporters who have joined the movement realizing the pain and trauma men and their families go through in Indian society. Many of these women supporters have been victims themselves as sisters, mothers and mother-in-laws. These ladies themselves were falsely implicated due to gender biased laws that are wife-centric. Members of SIF aim to protect men and women from extortionist wives, corrupt Police officials and biased judiciary.

This is a true story of a man, Bharat. In 2005, Bharat was a hard-working young man, who jumped through many hoops to make a successful career as a scientist. He was raised to believe that a good man puts women and children first, protects and provides for his family, respects women, and endures pain and sacrifice without heaving a sigh.

Unfortunately, he was unaware of a fact that good men are often at the receiving end of abuse; until he himself became a victim of spousal violence and witnessed societal apathy towards men like him. To add to his woes, he also became victim of gender biased law IPC Section 498A, a law which gave undue credibility to his wife, and treated him as guilty until he could prove himself innocent. He was arrested and imprisoned for a crime he did not commit. He had to witness his parents and siblings being jailed for no fault of theirs. He lost his job and suffered unbearable pain due to separation from his child. Having lost all hope, he ended his life at a tender age of 28. In local dailies, news of his death was flashed as "A scientist ends his life due to financial problems.”

Bharat’s story is just one of more than 68000 thousand men in India, whose thankless lives taken away every year just when they are ready to blossom. Statistics from the National Crime Records Bureau show that every 9 minutes one married Indian man committed suicide unable to withstand verbal, emotional, economic and physical abuse and legal harassment.

An unanswered question from SIF to all social activists and law makers: Is the Pain of A Mother or Sister any less when they lose their Son or Brother?

In the last 150 days SIF and its associated 35+ NGOs all over India, have been mentioned in the media in 60 different articles. If every article has been read by at least 100,000 people, then about 8 million people across the world would have known or heard about SIF and that is something to be proud of.

We believe in the teachings of Mahatma Gandhi and we get our inspiration from this great man. We believe in his words "First they ignore you, then they mock you, then they fight you, then you win "!!

SIF is aware of the odds stacked against it. SIF knows very well that media and other industries would love to see more family break ups, because family breakups increase spending and this further drives up the demands for the goods and products. "A united family will own one TV while a dived family will need two is the simple reasoning.”

However SIF knows it will win, because SIF is on the same side as truth is and we believe that "Truth Always Wins"(Satyamev Jayate).

SIF may not have the blessing of the Government of India, but we do have the blessings of thousands of mothers, grandmothers and sisters who work and fight with us day in and day out trying to educate the slumbering Indian populace.

SIF has the support of hundreds of small but nevertheless important NGOs who work with us to spread the word on how gender biased laws are destroying Indian society. We all try to wake up the people of India to bring about gender equality in the society.

We know we will win and we will succeed in creating a Ministry for the Welfare of Indian Men .

We know that the night is darkest before the sun shines and the SIF has no doubt that the sun will shine and spread the rays of hope, peace and family harmony that will keep the Indian family as a cohesive unit for the next ten thousand years.

On this occasion, SIF would also like to review the present status of men in Indian society and highlight the need to accord men the privileges and protections that they rightly deserve as fellow humans.

Thousands of men are becoming victims of "legal terrorism" unleashed by the misuse of Indian Penal Code Section 498A, Protection of Women Against Domestic Violence Act, adultery laws, laws against rape and sexual harassment, and even divorce, maintenance and child custody laws.

The Universal Declaration of Human rights states that "all are equal before the law, and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law". Article 14 of the Indian Constitution declares that "The State shall not deny to any person equality before the law or the equal protection of the laws within the territory of India." However, the Government of India has not made any provisions to protect men against any form of domestic abuse or harassment at the work place.

The Universal Declaration of Human Rights also proclaims that "everyone charged with a penal offence has the right to be presumed innocent until proved guilty according to law."  However, women-centric laws in India presume that the accused man is guilty until he can prove his innocence, thus violating the presumption of innocence and the principles of fair trial which is guaranteed under Articles 20 and 21 of the Constitution of India, in addition to defying the Universal Declaration of Human Rights.

SFF has been working hard to sensitize the public to these serious issues, and to urge the Government to take appropriate measures to alleviate men's woes in the present times.

I request all honest citizens of India, to Join SIF Team, to Stop such legal terrorism against Indian men and demand to replace the word "Husband/wife" to "Spouse" and "Men/Women" to "Person" in all Laws and Policies. This is followed all across the world and assumptions that Women never lie do not hold ground. As per Indian Laws her verbal allegations, without any evidence, are sufficient to label anyone as a rapist, wife beater or dowry seeker. This is nothing but promotion of injustice and such injustice has and will continue to become an extortion tool.

On the eve of SIF Foundation day , we make an appeal to Indian Government to Form

Ministry of Men's Welfare.

   - *As per Crime Bureau of India, more than 92,000 men commit suicide
   every year*
  
   - *Why 3.5 lac men are losing their jobs per year?*
  
   - *According to** Labour and Employment Ministry (2001 to 2005), more
   than 13 lakh Men became Jobless and the count is increasing every year.

Today some one may love or hate SIF , but can't ignore any more as the same became a Ray of Hope for many abused/distressed men of India.

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