Showing posts with label Child Custody. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Child Custody. Show all posts

Thursday, 30 April 2020

Supreme Court Allows Child Visitation via Electronic media during Lockdown - A Panel Discussion


Save Family Foundation (SFF) & Men Welfare Trust (MWT), both registered NGOs, have been witnessing a huge surge on the issues specifically related to child visitation during Corona Lockdown.

Many of fathers, across India, have fought vigorously to get visitation orders to meet their children, amidst matrimonial disputes, from the respective Family Courts or Trial Courts. In many cases, our NGOs have come across the ordeals of fathers, who even after winning, are at the losing end, as the custodial mothers are misusing the Corona Lockdown to create a Chinawall between Father and Child.
Such Custodial Mothers have completely ignored the welfare of child and the rights of a child to meet their father. Since the existing visitation orders are not explicitly mentioning about the provision of Electronic Visitation (over Video Conferencing etc), many Custodial Litigating mothers are misusing this gap to their advantage. This has left many fathers helpless during these critical times and has created huge pressure on non-custodial fathers, about the health and safety of their children.

Seeing this huge issue for the very upbringing, rights of Children and respecting the intention of the courts, which granted visitation rights to father, a member of Men Welfare Trust (MWT) & Save Family Foundation (MWT), Dr. Tanuj Dhawan, took up the task of knocking the doors of justice at the highest level and filed an online Petition (PIL) in the Hon’ble Supreme Court.

While hearing and deciding the said petition by MWT, SFF member, the Hon’ble Supreme Court has issued clear observation that Electronic Contact instead of Physical visits can be substituted, keeping in view of the rights of the Child, non-Custodial parent and giving respect to the Intent of the respective Hon’ble courts, while granting visitation. The Hon’ble Supreme Court, further observed, that in case there is an aggrieved party (in this case, the non-custodial parent), they can approach to respective Family Court.

Based on these observations, MWT & SFF appeal to all the litigating parents to not use Corona or their own child as a tool of unleashing vengeance from the non-custodial parent (mostly fathers). The Observations of the Hon’ble Supreme Court are clear about Electronic Visitation to continue, as directed in the visitation orders.

We also would appeal humbly to all the Hon’ble Family Courts and Trial Courts of India to take a note of these observations from the Apex Court and provide quick and urgent redressal to the aggrieved parent, whose right of having visitation (physical or Electronic, as observed by Hon’ble Supreme Court, herein) is getting curtailed by the Custodial Parent (mostly mothers), during these times of pandemic.

Courts must also take into account the conduct of a custodial parent in these times, where stopping the visitation show their clear intentions, being against child welfare and hence cancel the custody to such parents.

At last, we are short of words while thanking Dr. Tanuj Dhawan, who took this petition Party in Person to the Hon’ble Supreme Court and did applaudable handwork in getting it listed as an urgent PIL and getting positive observations from the Hon’ble Supreme Court.

Breaking: Supreme Court Allows Parents Having Visitation Rights To Maintain Contact With Children Via Electronic Means [Read Order]




A message from Mr. Tanuj Dhawan for Nation & Some NGO's  Members who misusing the order to collect Donation from Victims!


Wednesday, 17 July 2019

#AskMWT #AskSFF - A #Hope4Men Legal Awareness Seminar at Delhi

#Hope4Men Legal Awareness Seminar ; #AskMWT #AskSFF



#Hope4Men is a series of legal awareness seminars organised by Men Welfare Trust in Delhi- NCR and even in other cities to help the victims of the misuse of gender-based laws to understand their basic rights as a citizen and also as accused in-case of a false- case coming on to their way. Starting with the frequently asked questions, the Volunteers carefully listen to the queries of the attendees and advise them on the way to go.

In continuation with providing legal awareness to people, Men Welfare Trust & Save Family Foundation under the aegis of Save Indian Family Movement organizing Legal Awareness Seminar on fighting with gender biased laws on Saturday 3 Aug 2019. This will be a full day FREE Seminar where everyone is invited however the seats will be provided as first come first serve basis.

Venue :The Indian Society Of International LawBhagwan Das Road V.K. Krishna Menon Bhawan, New Delhi
Starting at 9:00 AM till 5:00 PMDate: 3-Aug-2019, Saturday

#AskMWT & we will take top 25 max asked in Seminar. Ask about Misandry, 498A, 376, 354, DV, Divorce, Maintenance, Custody, POSH, #MenToo.



Fear of arrest, fear of losing Job, fear of losing social reputation, fear of to be termed criminal for a crime which they had never do became a nightmare for every day. Their all knowledge, training program go in vain to find any logical solution. Because this is called Legal Terrorism and there is no logic, how to find the solution. The fast you try to resolve the puzzle, you end up in more big trouble.


#SpeakUpMan to #StopAbuseMen , as Men are Human Too. 













Monday, 17 June 2019

Importance of #FathersDay



Let delegate this Video to Indian Prime Minister for 4.4Min Silence !!  

You Guys may be Surprising , why I am not talking , Right?

I Do the same think what India's Great or Greatest Prime Minister and his team Does !

Start from Toilet day , CA day to even #Canadaday India's PMO wish to all , but forget #Fathersday , he is Totally Silent !

Thanks to Indian Law Makers for making Indian Father's speechless !









Wednesday, 2 November 2016

A Father - Who is he ?

A Father !! Who is he ? 

Ask any one who lost their father or forced to dump their father in old age home.




" If Father have , then Child have all dream , when Father Have , all playing toys have with child. Father may not tell every time to child to remind that he loves you like your mother does , but silently sacrifice all his life to make your dream comes true. many think written , said about mothers , but fathers had been always ignored in India."

A video must watch by all who advocate for Father less child society and made many unfair law by which in India Judges even deny to have some hours of visiting right.

In addition we have male hater Child minister like Meenka Gandhi , who even say father does not need paternity Leave .

Just show all Judges who treat fathers as ATM machines but forget to allow Small time for child to have access their fathers.


Tuesday, 11 August 2015

Who really Killed Chaitanya with Cricket Bat ?


There is no wonder even god also fell ashamed and  not able to bear the daily in-human torture and the pain of Chaitanya , so prefer to call  him back from this cruel society than suffering every day in the hand of a monster mum of India.






Chaitanya , a 13 years old partially disabled child, having a dream to make his final place in  Indian Idol singing competition,  is not more with us. He had been killed by his own Monster mum at Pune.


He used to happily stay with his father at Nagpur, but due to court order he was forced to stay with her mother at Pune . We will never able to see Chaitanya will be taking part in any Singing competition any more.





With various news reports like NDTV , Mid day , Pune Mirror,  suggest Chaitanya had been killed by his own mother due to beating with a cricket bat, Police had arrest his mother and one man to whom she have some relationship as per her mobile call records.

Several chilling details have emerged in the cold-blooded murder of the partially disabled Pune teenager, Chaitanya Balpande, who was allegedly beaten to death by his mother and her alleged boyfriend last week. Investigations and statements from family members have led the police to suspect that the 13-year-old's murder had a rather sinister motive:

Mid-day's conversations with Rakhi's mother and neighbours also paint a picture of the 36-year-old as a monster mom, who used repeated beatings to keep the boy under her thumb. She would allegedly starve the partially disabled Chaitanya from time to time, force him to exercise for four hours and keep him up late at night. Rakhi had also threatened to file a kidnapping case against her own mother when the latter said she would take Chaitanya with her to save him from her abuse. A female neighbour who tried to intervene was kept at bay with the threat of filing a molestation case against her husband.

If you ask the law makers, who had killed Chaitanya, the answer may be given it’s his monster mother and her lover. From the news reports confirms Chaitanya was not killed for one day, many witness he was dying every day years after years all prefer to be a simple spectators.


But does it really so? Who really killed Chaitanya ?


Who all are deserved to be thanked for creating such barbaric Monster mum in India?


  • Thanks to Women and Child Ministry:


It’s not only Chaitanya , every day lacks of child had been getting abused, beaten and some have to end their life due to their monster mum in India , but unfortunately the issue never considered as child issue .Women and Child Minister always ignored the Child welfare in the name of women rights promotion.

WCD had successfully converted the Child issue = Women or girls child issue only. In spite of various studies available a father less child subject to 10 times more Physical abuse, sexual abuse, school dropout,  still our Great Maneka Gandhi who always prefer to advocate more and more anti-father , anti-child law / policy as a promotion of Father less child society in India. For them Father = just a free FREE ATM machine, nothing else.

Result: Boys school dropout became 39% vs Girls 31%. More than 56% boys sexually abused vs 44% girls. Child abuses my monster mum, gets Scot free and never got punished. Monster mum unable to take care child still given custody to them as default and keep fulfilling their demanding of money but did not allow the child to meet their own fathers.


Any disputes between husband vs wife, the custody of child had been given to Mother, let she be monster or drug addicted or have relationship with other men. Thanks to such Misandric Judges of India, who is also responsible for killing of child like Chaitanya.

Judges do not forget to award excessive money to wife in name of child care, but forget to give few hours visiting right to child to their own fathers. They do not understand it’s not a husband or wife right, its child right to meet their father and not allowing that is nothing but pure promotion of Child abuse.


  • Thanks to help less Grand Mothers:



As per report in NDTV news, the grandmother confessed, she was witness of beating chaitanya many times by his mother. But she had not able to show any courage to take him to Nagpur , as her own daughter threatened a kidnapping case. So, she prefer to leave alone Chaitanya in the custody of her own monster daughter.

  • Thanks to Monster mum’s own sister: ( Masi)


The news reports says the monster mum’s sister also crying foul, she also witness the abuse and beating of Chaitanya many times. Her sister was not a good mother and never taken care the child. She had been spending many times with the child and the child so very humble and loving.  Great, in spite of knowing all, she prefers to keep silence when in court Tarun (Chaitanya’s father) lost the child custody. If she had been said the same in front of judge, may today Chaitanya had been alive.



Many neighbours says they had witness number of times Chaitanya had been beaten, heard his pain full cry, had been locked in room, but none shown courage to rescue him, as his monster mum threatened them that she will file false molestation cases against them. If they had been used some common sense, a simple call to 100 of police without disclose of name also might have saved Chiatanya’s life.



Now the question is why a grand mother, sister, neighbor, judges all failed to save the life of Chaitanya, in spite of witness many abuse, ill treatment & beating?

It’s the biased Verma Committees members made such law’s without using their own brain , relay assumption a women never lie or never cheat in India  by which they had given protection to all such monster women of India , who can rape, who can murder, who can do adultery  and if any one dare to speak up , term them a rapist or molester .

Such mindless Misandric deserves special thanks for protecting such type monster or rapist women of India.


The Chaitanya’s had gone through every day’s abuse, ill-treatment, beating years after years and our Judiciary, society , neighbors, grandmothers, sisters ( masi) but all failed to give any justice to him, refused to give a human life in India.

There is no wonder even god also fell ashamed and  not able to bear the daily in-human torture and the pain of Chaitanya , so prefer to call  him back from this cruel society than suffering every day in the hand of a monster mum of India.


It’s time to make separate Child well fare ministry from WCD as top priority, or such monster mum will keep killing, abuse, beat & ill-treat the child as their birth right, as no one have right to question their wrong doing forget about any punishment, and we all will prefer to be just a spectators till it hit our own home.

RIP Chaitanya and give all courage to Tarun( Chaitanya’s father ) fight for justice, it’s not a monster mum is the killer, start from Verma Committees members , Law makers, WCD,  Indian Judiciary , Neighbour and all those who prefer to keep silence all are also real killer of  Chaitanya.

Save Indian Child from such Monster mum and women of India too , a Chaitanya can be suffering at your next also.












Friday, 19 June 2015

Why Lacks of Separated Fathers deprived from #HugYourDad on the eve of #FathersDay ?

Vicks VapoRub #HugYourDad - YouTube




“This father’s day, I am expressing my love towards my dad by participating in the #HugYourDad activity at BlogAdda in association with Vicks.”



Last one week we were very happy to see so many corporate brands today recognize the Value of #Fathersday and came out with multiple awareness activity. 

When I write 21st June: Sunday #Fathersday: What you planned? Subsequently witness  many activity like with message like , #SelfiwithFather , #PapaHaiNa , #Luv2Dad , #LoveforDad , #HugYourDad and the list is never ending in social media.

But when I receive a mail from a father: To my kiddo, with love! , who is separated from his kid, how he feel, have ever we try to understand?



Dear Kiddo,

Lots of love and wishes.

I always write my diary with a hope that one day when you grow up, you will read this and understand that how much your father loves you.

Father's day is around the corner and I am looking forward to meet you on that day; hopefully. I say hopefully because there are many people around me who really do not like my meeting with you, especially your mamma. But a day will come, for sure when you will be with me, forever.

You know kiddo; I was always excited about you. It started with the day when mamma told me that she has conceived you. My happiness knew no bounds on hearing the news and I was jumping in excitement. I took your mamma in my arms and told her that she was about to give me the best gift of my life.

The next nine months made me a different man. Day and night, I thought about you. I became less carefree and more caring. I took extra care of mamma so that she did not get uncomfortable. I took responsibility of the house and started doing small household chores as well. It was a pressure situation for me to manage my office work along with household work. But I wanted your mamma and you to be in best of your health. I wanted that nothing should affect you whatsoever. All for you, dear. I was so excited, so happy.

I told your mamma that I shall be your best buddy for life. I shall be there always for you, in sunshine and in grey.

One fine day, I told your mamma about all the financial planning I am going to do for you so that your future is secured; so that you get a good education; so that you enjoy all the goodies of life. I want you to feel proud for your father. I never knew your mamma had planned a different type of financial planning.

Months passed by and finally the day came when you were about to come to earth. I was nervous, pensive and all emotional till you came. The moment your umbilical cord was cut and I heard that you came on earth, my eyes were flooded.  Flooded with tears of happiness.  You made my world complete. People say parenting is a tough job and I indeed felt so but looking at you took away all the pains for me. I enjoyed my sleepless nights, changing your nappies, singing Lorries for you so that you sleep.

I was so excited with each passing day of your growing up and I made sure that I captured each and every moment through my lens. I felt as if I am the luckiest person on the earth. I live by and cherish those memories now as you are not around me.

I always wished to carry you on my back, throw you in the air and catch you back, be the horse for you to ride, teach you how to ride a bicycle and what not. But probably, I never knew that a situation would come in my life when you would be snatched away from me.

It was seemingly all going great until that fateful day. Mamma had a fight with me and she was upset. I went to office thinking everything shall be fine by evening. When I came back, you and your mamma were not at home. I was shocked and surprised. You both had gone to your maternal grandparent’s house and your mamma told me to be back in couple of days. I never ever thought what she would do two days later. She complained to police that I torture her and don't take care of you. I was called to the police station and IPC498A was imposed on me; by the person who was my world; by the person whom I gave my everything. Your mamma made me a criminal in a moment without giving a second thought. My world was shattered.

Mamma took you away to Nani's house. From that day, you are there. I miss you a lot kiddo. Life is incomplete without you. I have a hidden fear that you might forget my identity. Mamma and Nani feed you with all sorts of imaginary negative things about me. I just pray to God that you do not grow up hating me. I am not like that kiddo. I hope one day you will understand.

You know kiddo your papa was down but not out. Your papa had not lost courage and hope. Your papa had decided: to fight; fight for you, fight for justice. A day will come when I will bring you to my world, indeed. And then, every day shall be father's day.

With lot of Love.

Papa

This not a simple mail, it expose how our Society and Law makers are victim of Misendric – Male Hatered Mindset , the pain and suffering of a separated Father from their Kid ignored so easily and their cry never reach to deaf ears of our LAW makers. 

But NGO like SaveFamily Foundation take the imitative and Plan to make a massive awareness Campaign on 21st June, 2015 in the Heart of Delhi i.e. CP from 4PM onwards.

We know such separated Fathers of India does not get any hearing, but hope the effort of SFF self Supported Volunteers,  will able to reduce some of their pain on the Eve of #Fathers day who are deprived from the #HugYourDad.


 



Sunday, 14 June 2015

21st June: Sunday #Fathersday: What you planned?



Many of us blessed to have our wonder full father in our life; so on the eve of father day, they really deserve a big Hug from us.

But men like Rahall, a 35 years old IBM engineer, will be in night mare. In spite of having a court order by which he allowed to visit his only son , his ex-wife had made all effort to deny the same in last 4 visiting date. This time also he will be denied to meet his son and in spite making all effort , but not sure that he can meet the child on the eve of #Fathersday . 
3 times he brings the fact to court, but in return he only gets date after date. The judge failed to understand it is the Child right to have access to meet his fathers, than it is a father or mother right.

It’s not Rahall along, lacks of Indian men’s fate will be like that, if you don’t believe go to any court, father are seeking the visiting or custody of Child, had been denied right way, asked to pay huge money as maintenance , but in return they even not allowed to meet their own child for a mere 2 or 3 hours in weekend  forget about giving the Child custody.


When we go through the Suicide note of various News of Men in India, found more than 70% cases the main reason they had been deprived to meet their own Child and unable to bear the pain lead to depression and suicide.

In last 2 years we had tried to bring the same burning issue to at least more than 240+ MP along with ministers like #SushmaSharaj, #MenkaGandhi , #NarendraModi , # RajNathSingh take some few names , but all gone in deaf years.

But there are some NGO like Savefamily Foundation, does not stop their effort to bring some smile to many men in India via their Free Self Supported, Self Volunteered, Help Line SIF-One: #Call08882498498.

NGOs to rally for gender-neutral laws on June 20 | Business ...


Non-Governmental Organisations fighting for "gender-neutral" family laws will hold country-wide rallies on June 20, activists said on Sunday.

They are seeking implementation of the Law Commission's report on providing joint custody of child/children in cases of matrimonial discord/breakdown.

"On June 20, a day before the Father's Day, we will hold a nationwide rally to demand shared parenting to be made mandatory in accordance with a draft Law Commission recommendation of May 2015," Kumar V. Jahgirdar, president of Bengaluru-based Child Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting (CRISP), told IANS on phone.

"The government of India ought to take steps to move a bill - as per Law Commission draft - in the coming session of parliament, with necessary amendments in guardianship and custody laws," he added.

Swarup Sarkar, founder of Delhi chapter of Save Family Foundation NGO, said suicide by married men owing to matrimonial disputes in India were on the rise.

"We keep getting cases of men not able to get access to their biological kids. During counseling, we find that many such persons harbour suicidal tendencies because nobody is bothered to even listen to their problems. We demand a separate commission for men in line with the panel for women in India," he said.

"The government has to consider Law Commission findings in view of changes in Indian society. If a woman can multitask, there is no reason why a married man can't perform domestic chores, including raising children," Jahgirdar added.

The Law Commission's draft law submitted to the government on May 22 proposed amendments to existing guardianship and custody laws. The draft provides for consideration of welfare of children as paramount while deciding custody issues.

"There is disparity in importance given to principle of welfare of children by different legislations regulating custody and guardianship," Law Commission chairman Justice A.P. Shah said.
"As a result, in fiercely fought custody battles, there are no ways to ensure that the interests of the child are actually protected," he said.

The draft law proposed children should have access to grandparents.

Sudha Rajashekar, who heads the grandparents' wing of CRISP, said grandparents often were victims of their children's matrimonial discords.

"There is no law in our country that protects our rights as grandparents in case of matrimonial disputes of our children," she said.

She advocated a law on the lines of those pertaning to inheritance and succession to ensure old people's right to have access to their grandchildren in case of marital discords and breakdown of marriages.


So, we appeal to all, plan some awareness activity in your area, write memo to Government authority, use social platform, and write blog, share twitter to remind all:


“It's not father or mother right, it is Child Right to meet or have access of their Father on the eve of #Fathersday. Don’t deprive Your Child Right.”