10 Step Planning by a 498A/ DV Women!
Last week I meet one of my friend Samir , a smart , hard working guy , working in a reputed company and one year back I saw them in a TV show ( represented by Samir and his wife Sarikha ) , and they seems a made for each other . In show Shiraka told the whole nation that She is very proud to have a Husband like Samir . They know each other for more than 4 years before marriage and they able to convince both of their parents , that they are made for each other .
But last week when I saw him , sorry unable to belive they end up with a legal battle , and under the so called 498A ( anti dowry LAW ) had been fired to him , his mother , sister and AL other 7- relative , except their pet Dog name every one in FIR list. Along with that CRPC125, DV act, Section-24 also as a incentive.
I just asked how all this happened ??
1. During Honeymoon :- Sarikaha Says :-
"" Darling , I always wanted to stay in a Hotel , where all the waiters and manager would take my orders and i would not have to do anything except eat and sleep. Cannot we stay in hotel all our life ?? You can go out and work and I Spend all your money ""
2.In Telephone :- ( Cool and normal talk by Sarikha )
" You know , why I am not speaking to you . I told you I will never speak you again as you did not bother to call my sister yesterday as I told you . Now you expect me to talk to you . Go to hell ."
3.In Night when Samir ask for a child :-
" I have got married the biggest fool on this planet. You do not know how to keep me happy . You do not earn enough to keep a mid. I cannot do the household work and you have the guts to think of planning a family . I have committed the biggest blunder by marrying you . I had thought that you would be earning enough to keep me happy , but i did not know that you are a Bhikhari. Your bloody parents never made you understand that before marrying you should have thought of how are you going to satisfy all the demands of your wife and that you should kept one cook and one maid servant after your marriage because it is not possible for me to cook food and wash utensils .""
4. Sarikha go back to her parents house and Samir call for come back :-
"" Now I will meet you at court ""
5.Next step by Sarikah:-
"" If you will not leave Delhi and do as I tell you , then I have other means of making you follow me wherever I go . I will not take no for an answer. Don’t dare to tell me that you will not leave Delhi. I want you decide with in a week or else I will make sure that you regret your decision for the rest of your life .""
6. More pressure :-
"" You do not have money in your pocket to buy a flat. Now my parents are ready to live with you in Delhi , but are saying that you cannot buy a flat in my name in Delhi and you do not want to shift either in Kolkata or Bangalore . You are a self made man . Do as I tell you . I am telling you I have to look after my parents . We sister have to be near them. They are getting old . I will only allow you to stay in Delhi , if you buy a three bed room flat in my name or else you will have to shift to Bangalore or Kolkata . The choice is yours .""
7.Secend step by Sarikha :-
"" See you either accept my terms or you will have to pay trial. I will make sure that you go to jail and loose your job just the way i made you loose the previous job . I will never allow you live peacefully . I do not want to stay in Delhi .I have to be near my parents in Kolkata or In Bangalore with my sister .""
8.Samir call to your in laws to convince but shok to get the reply as under :-
"" You do not have standard to be the husband of our daughter . Do whatever she says , otherwise you don’t know one of my brother is advocate , he will make your life miserable , you don’t know the Indian LAW , your whole family be behind the bar , as soon as we decide .""
9.Now final step , call to Samir office land line :-
"' Shut up , you dam fool , why don’t you understand . I am asking you whether you have taken any decision , as i cannot wait till eternity. You have to take the decision with in 4 days or else mark my words , i will ruin your life ""
10 . Final Action by Sarikha :-
"" All right you will not understand like this . I think I will have to now teach you a lesson . You wait and see what i will do . I will lodge a police complaint against you and your family members and make all of you repent for the rest of your life . Be prepared , I will finish you off. The office in which you are standing would be compelled to through you out. You just wait and watch. Don’t forget , one of my mama is an Advocate and my another mama is MMBS Doctor in Peerless Hospital "".
Then next week , Samir got the notice from Women cell that a complain of 498A ( dowry harassment , mental cruelity ) had been loaded .
Now reconciliation process are going on !!!!
Samir in big question , what he should do ??
Police says , either you accept the terms of Sarikha demands or be prepare for going to jail along with your all parents . One more option is there , arrange 25 lacks rupees and go for a mutual Divorce .
Slowly , I request to Samir , better accept what Sarikha asked , after all money is not the all the thing , you will earn more than 25 lacks with in few years .
Samir shout back: " She gone to police and file the false complain under dowry harassment, her parents want to put me behind the bar, I will fight and if required will go to jail, but not going to suffer for the whole life."
"Whatever money I have will prefer to through in Garbage , but not a single penny to her under Blackmailing and extortion , let her fight at court and get whatever she can ."
End of a happy , lovely married life , with in 2 years !!
New Born of another SIF Commando , who refused to surrender in front of Legal Terrorist, instead prefer to take the bullet on Chest.
Great power given in 498A ,Legal Terrorist will not stop here , further Domestic Violence Act, CRPC125, Section 24 in all the LAW based on assumption all the wives born in Raja Harish Chandra Family ( never lie) and all men born in Criminal Family.
Our great LAW maker forget that " To build a relationship we put a lot of pain , sacrifice , but to break a relationship required only two seconds !!!!! "
Supreme Court of India term the same as "Legal Terrorism" but our Government is sleeping since 1983 as NCW, WCD,CSR,AIWDA , Lawyers Collective and thier associates, keep on justifying all law get misused , so let such LAW also get missued, let two month old baby apply for bail, let 92 years old women go to jail, but such "Legal Terrorism " should not be stopped at all.
They forget to relies history witness any terrorist activity can't give freedom, it only kills the innocent people.
As a , result more and more normal disputes converted to Criminal cases to show crime against women is increasing and make further new and new law. Our Constitution says , a person even in murder case can't be punished twice, but in India in case of marriage disputes a Husband is punished not once 5 to 6 times in different cases , let he is right or wrong.
Does the same not violation of Natural Justice and Indian constitution?
For a same allegation( true or false) 5 to 6 cases field , like some one ordering a PIZZA in court and our Supreme court also unable to take any proactive action to punish such people who abuse the process of Law for their own benefit.
Join SIF Team to Stop this legal terrorism of India and demand to replace the word Husband/wife to Spouse to all marriage related LAW or policy like all over world follow instead of making assumption that all wives born in Raja Harish Chandra family ( never lie) and all husbands born in Criminal family.
(Crime Is Crime. Punishment should be irrespective of gender, religion and caste. Let us be honest and fight for truth)