Showing posts with label WCD. Show all posts
Showing posts with label WCD. Show all posts

Saturday, 9 May 2020

Panel Discussion on #Lockerroom Generation: Where it Heading?


Panel Discussion on #Lockerroom Generation: Where it Heading?

Panel discussion with Eminent Panel on something very important, urgent and about our future generations.

  • Amit Lakhani, discusses #BoysLockerRoom, #GirlsLockerRoom with a Panel of:
  • Dr. Bhooshan - Child Psychiatrist from Pune
  • Adv. Panjwani - Advocate, Hon'ble Supreme Court of India
  • Mrs. Preeti - Former Director of Higher Education, Uttar Pradesh
  • Mr. Swarup Sarkar - Save Family Foundation, Delhi (Regd. NGO)
  • Mr. Wasif Ali - Men Welfare Trust, Delhi (Regd. NGO)


#WakeUpBoys : Our child Ministry only for name Shake , they will not do anything for you ! Call our Helpline : 8882498498 when you face any discriminations !

Our Father Groups will be more then be a best friend of You. Never ever think about to die by suicide!
 Come out from #Lockeroom ! You are living in a #Misandric Society , where A Girls 1000 wrong will be forgiven , but your one wrong - you are gone !

#DidiGang with #Mangina gang at social ,Print and electronic Media are just waiting to suck your blood ! So be very careful !

Time to #SpeakUpBoys the discrimination you are facing., we are here for you as Best friends , who will not Judge you on basis of your Gender !


Girl make fake profile as Boy & Chat for Rape Girls ! 

Delhi Police issued Press Release and says : 

Investigation has revealed that the alleged Snapchat conversation is actually between a girl (sender) and a boy (receiver) in which the girl is sending chat messages through a fictional Snapchat account named 'Siddharth'. Using the fake identity of a male person, she suggested in the chat, a plan to sexually assault herself. 
The sad part is that after found the same in investigation that the Rape chat was Fake - no action taken against the Girls or against the DCW Chief Ms.Swati Maliwal who issued Notice to police with the Fake Rape Chat as evidence & put Video also in Twitter to arrest all Boys of #BoysLockeroom and created hatred towards school going Boys ! 













Monday, 20 April 2020

Maintenance during Corona Lockdown - A Panel Discussion !



Maintenance during Corona Lockdown - A Panel Discussion

Amit Lakhani discusses with a panel of Adv Gautam Panjwani (Delhi High Court), Arnaz (Men's Day Out Media House), Partha (SIF Hyderabad), Wasif (Save Family Foundation), Ritwik (Men Welfare Trust) about how Maintenance is taking a toll on Men during this lockdown.

Wednesday, 24 July 2019

Boys ( लड़का) on Road Working & What Indian Adult Women doing in Court?



Those Feminist always support special privilege start from child hood to end their life on the basis of Gender , god shake one time must go through this Video posted by Vikas Bishnoi.

Now Request to ask your self : 


1. Child labor of Boys is increasing day by day , but our WCD - Women and child development Ministry have any concern for Boy - Child ? Why it should not be renamed as Women and Girl Child Development Ministry ( WCG) ?

2. Wonder when able bodied Women demand Maintenance from their ex-Husband and law makers give that special privilege not only via one law , multiple law ( DV, CRPC125 , Section 24). So , for even an adult women, get marry, file divorce & criminal case against Husband family and rest of the life enjoy with the hard earned money of Husband , without taking any responsibility !

Sitting at Home & earn Free Money for rest of Life from Husband?  Is this called Gender Equality ? 

When government & society justify discrimination of even a Child in the name of his Gander , as a Man I have every right to refuse to be a Protector and provider for any Women or Girls , till the discrimination against boys and Men get stopped !





 

#UnfairLaw and Policy can't Bring Fairness in Society.






God had given both men and women two leg, two hand and one brain , but as we grow it's men who take more responsibility as provider and protector, which women can also take and by default women will get all rights what a men have . (Read More )

Indian Women, you want to be treated as special or equal?

Those women really believe to be treated as equal , they got equal treatment, but those women believe to be treated as special they got special treatment and should not expect equal treatment .







Friday, 31 May 2019

Smriti Z Irani as Child Minister first Tweet promote discrimination to Boys !

Discrimination of Boys from Childhood in India ?


There was different views on Social Media , when they came to Know that Ms. Smriti Z Irani will be new Women and Child Minister of India  (WCD) , she will be better than Ms. Menka Gandhi or worse ! Many even started Poll also !!

We had been witness WCD always forget that their ministry is for Child too, It is not Women and Girls Child Ministry  (WGD) .

Many had suggested to make Child Ministry separate from Women ministry for their inherent anti-men , anti-Boys policy .






The unfortunate fate of Indian Boys, from their Child Hood itself they have to face the discrimination on the basis of Gender !

Wonder how we can expect a Gender harmony in India, when you inject the discrimination  poison in the mind of Poor boys from child hood itself ??

#SpeakUpMan and Tweet to WCD , PMO for Rs.3000 equal to both Boys and Girls !

Stop Discrimination of Boys @NavneetSahu





DNA News : More boys than girls dropping out of schools in India

Over 39% boys drop out from schools before completing elementary education compared to 33% girls. Poor academic performance, lack of interest in studies and need for employment to support family could be prime reasons, say experts.


More boys than girls are dropping out of the schools in India. As against 39% boys who dropped out before completing elementary education in 2013-14, only 33% girls did so, says the latest statistics of the Ministry of Human Resources and Development (MHRD).
In 2012-13, nearly 41% female students had dropped out of the schools without completing elementary education, as against 40.3% male students. The gender gap in dropout within a year appears to be more profound in the upper primary classes (5-8). The figures are based on provisional data of Unified District Information System for Education.
Poverty, poor academic performance, substandard teaching, migration and need for employment to support the family are major factors behind the higher dropout rate of the boys, say experts.
Until now, various reports had stated that more girls in India dropped out from schools leading to launch of target schemes like Kasturba Gandhi Balika Vidyalaya. However, the fresh statistics suggest that the government needs to focus on arresting the dropout of boys as well.
Discrimination of Indian Boys @NavneetSahu

Monday, 26 October 2015

International Men"s day: Spare A Thought to Stop Legal Terrorism against Men.

When violence against women and girls are always on everyone's agenda, abuse of boys or men is never talked about or discussed.


Many even do not know in a recent Women and Child ministers survey report show the sexual abuse of boys are 53% vs 47% girls as child.


As a result we see there is no welfare system in place for boys and the need of security and well being of boys is completely ignored simply based on their gender. Whenever this issue comes up in any discussion it is said that Indian boys never face any discrimination. This survey tries to capture the childhood abuse of Indian boys so that their issues can be highlighted and correct data can be presented to lawmaking bodies.

Now as the boys cross 18+ years and get termed as Men, suddenly all abuse or crime against them get vanished by default?


Suicide of Men due to Legal Terrorism in India



Crimes against men are ignored amidst the noise around crimes against women. India has ministries for environment, women and child welfare ( WCD) and a National Commission for Women , thousand of Women NGO — but it has no ministry or tribunal for men.

Since men are ignored in the lawmaking process, lawmakers do not represent men per se; there is around 50 pro-women laws whose usage in practice amount to being anti-men. They forget men are Human too and they also have right to Life and liberty as per Indian constitution article 21.


Men are Human too , Stop abuse them



The misuse of dowry harassment law (Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code) has invited strong observations from courts and various government committees. In Sushil Kumar Sharma vs Union of India, the Supreme Court equated misuse of IPC 498A to “legal terrorism”.

In 2003, the Justice Malimath Commission report on criminal justice reform recommended making offenses under IPC 498A bailable. Many other judgments have pointed to the gross misuse of this law. 

In October 2010, the Criminal Procedure Code was amended via CrPC Amendment Act 2008 to introduce CrPC Section 41A that laid down the procedure of arrests for all offenses that entail seven or fewer years of imprisonment and not just IPC 498a.

But only its applicability to IPC 498A is opposed by its misuser. The reason for this is that IPC 498A has evolved into a money-minting mechanism.

The steps are simple: File a case and get everyone in the family arrested. This starts the engine of money making right from arrests, release, litigation and settlement.

It is worth noting that the number of cases and arrests under IPC 498A has continued to increase, despite the introduction of Section 41A, while fewer cases have resulted in conviction.

This means that Section 41A procedures are not being followed, leading to the arrest of many innocents, the majority of whom are eventually exonerated by the courts.

Even now such arrests happen without investigations or due procedure. Women’s organizations are contesting the court judgment in the court of public opinion.


Keeping in mind maximum men are totally unaware about our criminal justice system  SIF with their limited resources,  try to educated masses through their various Training programs by which many victim false cases  able to prove their innocence in court than surrender in front of Legal terrorist . 

But such Training program may not able to give back the suffering one gone through , but help to reduce reduce your suffering and losses , it does not remove the root cause of such Legal Terrorism.

Need of the hour , A Gender Neutral Domestic Violence law and scrap IPC498A as in our IPC enough  laws like , blackmailing, extortion, attempt to murder laws capable to take care if there are any true allegations of abuse with prima face evidence against any men or women.

Terming someone criminal with mere verbal allegations via a non-bailable section is nothing but promoting Legal Terrorism only.

On the eve of International Men's day , it's time to relies the Legal Terrorism Indian men are facing is not a Joke , the same rightly deserve a spare of thought for all.


In 2011, the Rajya Sabha’s Committee on Petitions in its 140th Report on Amendments in IPC 498A observed that in case the gross misuse continues, IPC 498A should be made bailable and also that the misuse clause should be in the Section itself. 

The government should live up to its commitment to make this Section bailable  and to introduce the penalty clause in this law or scrap such criminal law, which is nothing but duplications of laws.

 
 





Watch & Share "SIFAR : Documentary on International Men's Day !" on YouTube 








Friday, 18 September 2015

WCD propose Marriage Contract Law like Prenuptial ?



When I came to know from various news that present WCD minister working with a module in the name of marriage contract or popularly known in rest of the world as Prenuptial agreement, remind me in 2007 itself I send a mail about that to them, which was put in dustbin.





Prenuptials agreements have been finding their way into marital unions in India too, but there's a problem: Indian law does not recognise these pacts, rendering them useless. Now Maneka Gandhi's Ministry of Women and Child Development has initiated moves to change this.

It is outlining modalities for introducing prenuptial agreements into the existing legal system as an option for couples.





Now, my concern , hope this proposed law also should not be anti-men , like we witness they had done in earlier domestic violence act, work place harassment act, where the word person was replaced by women and spouse was replaced with husband. Hope this time also the same should not happen.

So, the question how it should be the proposed Marriage Contract Law of India and how it can be enforceable in India?

Prenuptial are enforceable guidelines, contrary to popular perceptions it is not only about financials but is much more.

Prenuptial agreement is more likely to stand up if it meets the following conditions:


1. The Agreement should be fair, and duly acknowledged.
2. The Agreement should have attorney certification from both parties as well.
3. The Agreement should have clause stating that if any provision of the agreement is
     invalidated, the rest of the agreement still remains in effect.
4. There should be listing attached showing each spouse's assets and liabilities.
5. The Agreement should have all the clauses of agreements arrived at between the
     prospective spouses.
6. The Agreement may also contain the necessary history of proposed alliance.
7. The Agreement should be reviewed by separate lawyers and duly certified by them.
8. The Agreement should be setting out each party's assets, debts, and property rights before the marriage, settling issues of division of property and of spousal support in the event of marriage breakdown.


That means, if the both party are genuine, transparent and do not have any pre-planned ill mind, will accept the same before marriage itself.

The Prenuptial Agreement cannot counter Section 498A IPC at all, but may reduce the damage
Caused by misuse of the law .

Some of those people, who refuse to see dangers and consequences of false 498A or Domestic Violence Act cases and brush aside the truth, thinking nothing is going to happen to them, may find this as cheap insurance policy like medical Insurance, which is not very popular in India.

It has got three Modules:   Entry Module, Operations Module, and Separation Module.

A. Entry Module:

Examples of preconditions: 

1.HIV tests
2.Horsoscopematching (Optional)
3.Proof of age
4.Passport copies, getting a passport
5.Proof of educations
6.Trial Period
7.Mode of calling of the marriage.
8. Expense sharing for preparation of marriage
9. Expense sharing or compensation in case of calling of the marriage
10.Gift register (setting limits)

B. Operations Module

1.Lifestyle
   Example: How will the various items required for running marital will be bought
          1. Car (who buys or who rents)
          2.house
          3.Furniture..etc.
      

 What percentage money will each put for common pool also called as marital pool.

How will the common pool be operated?

What happens if one person puts from their pool into marital pool is it to be treated as gift or a zero percent loan to the other spouse.

Example: if a husband becomes unemployed then the wife would put in some money is it to be treated as marital expense or loan to the marital pool) 


 Who gifts what to whom, setting the limit of yearly gift from close relative .Limits can be set on what can be maximum or minimum limits.

In case of financial despair acceptable sources to tap and the modalities.

2. Definition cruelty: You are setting certain expectations from your spouse here as all the Indian marriages act says mental cruelty depends in the conditions. This gives you a chance to clearly define these are a not acceptable and this are acceptable to some extent, also you can grade it to cruelty, violence and crime.

3. Household chores (cooking, cleaning etc)

4.Child planning (when, how many, where)

5. Define exception conditions (Example if the couple cannot conceive then adoption or surrogate or intravital ) 

6.Rules of staying away ( Transfer )

7.Rulesof abortion ( Either or both )

8. Rules of meeting parental obligations ( in-house, in complex etc )



C. Separation module

  • Define the alimony ( indexed on wholesale Price index, index on income , limiting alimony based on tax limits etc ).
  • Define the shared parenting responsibilities (residence, schooling, clothing, food. Mode of collection of the Childs needs).
  • Define the rules for division of marital property (Operation module defines how the marital property will be accrued).
  • Define residential rules for children.


 How to enforce such Marriage Contract or prenuptial agreement in India ?


Now as I had discussion to a smart retired judge (who doesn’t) want to   be known and asked him if a Prenuptial agreement was valid in the court of law .He smiled "why not "and said my opinion it could definitely be valid, if you follow certain procedures and amend the Present contract act along with a note in all Marriage related law the previous agreed Marriage contract to be considered as valid.

The way to do it is to file for declaration of marriage in the family courts under the "Special Marriage Act" along with your documents, witnesses and the deed of Prenuptial.

That would be treated as your engagement.

Take next date and solemnize in the family court in the next date.

Orders are passed and you are declared married.

With this document get the whole order registered in the Registrar office and you have married with an enforceable prenuptial in courts.

But he says such a prenuptial is very likely to be enforceable as the courts have married you by accepting the prenuptials.


A marital pool has to be defined regardless of assets.

The prenuptial agreement in India stand a very good chance of enforcement in India if the prenuptial is certified by the court easily and with open mind and this is possible in the "Special Marriage Act" where in the magistrate goes through all the documents and then declares the marriage based on those. 

Just Married !!



A magistrate can refuse the marriage in certain circumstances. eg: if one of the spouses is below the age of marriage the magistrate can dismiss your petition for declaration of marriage or if the magistrate feels the some clauses are unfair then also he can dismiss but once the magistrate has accepted the prenuptial agreement in India then for demanding money or anything beyond prenuptial agreement in India the onus is one other party to prove additional circumstances. 

Don’t think that prenuptial agreement in India are just two to three pages. Nothing can be far from the truth. A good prenuptial may go to 40 to 50 pages.

There is no grantee such contract give 100% success of your married life, but at least be honest , be transparent to your would be spouse , which you perceive to do at present verbally , it’s time to get documented.



Monday, 14 September 2015

Maneka Gandhi Hate Speech: Men are Root of Violence ?




As per various news reports Ms. Maneka Gandhi , present Women and Child Minister(WCD) and BJP MP, believes the root of all Violence is Men.

Earlier when Maneka Gandhi accused of hitting forest employee, she was Approached for comment, Ms. Maneka Gandhi told reporters outside Parliament: “I am not even answering things like this.”

Now just imagine if any Male Politicians claim that as per History and all Mythology proved beyond reasonable doubt: “The root of all Violence is Women”, what would have been reaction by all Electronic Media.


The real root of all Violence are not men or women , the real root cause of all Violence we witness due to such Hate Speech by Women like Maneka Gandhi only. Earlier Gujarat Chief Minister Anandiben Patel also get away when she termed poor boys as  Rejected Maal ( Product).

Thanks to Maneka Gandhi , since morning I got at least 72 request from various men and women , let burn the effigy of Maneka Gandhi at Jantar Mantar.

You had already converted lacks of peaceful men to violent men by your hate speech which we term promotion of Misandry in society.

My mother not like you Maneka Gandhi nor I am Varun Gandhi !


Unfortunately my mother never teach me to support or get provoked by any Hate speech in the name of gender, religion or caste , so asked them to ignore such rubbish comments the way we done earlier  also when we witness your Son's or Husband's provocative comments.

Because we know very well who will be the maximum Victim of such Violence advocated by women like you.


Just check the number of men gets murdered or victim of attempt to murder it’s 3 times more than women as per NCRB reports.
There are number of international study reports where it had been conducted with both genders , it had found women are not less root cause of  Domestic Violence . But you even refused to conduct a simple gender neutral Study , which was promised by earlier WCD ministers. You know very well the day any gender neutral study reports will come out , your false claim will be vanished like bubbles, so you prefer to avoid it repeatedly.

One of such YouTube below shows the Violence against men by Women, but the same never recornised by Indian Government in their Domestic Violence act.





Since 2001 the number of women charged with Murder and attempt of murder also increased whipping 10% to 40% as per NCRB reports, but you keep proposing laws how to protect the criminal or rapist women of India .


We know none of sensible Leaders of BJP including Narender Modi have courage to tell that to Ms. Maneka Gandhi that such comments is nothing but pure Hate speech and root cause of all violence.

Since the start of world, it’s the women always get away with their all abuse and hate speech against men. In 21st century, it became fashion abuse men, blame men for any problem let it be shortage of Electricity or lack of Toilets in your home or in school, you became famous in social media.

No one is ready to understand the fact and truth due to their Misandric mindset.


Yes, Madam you have proved us how a women Like Maneka Gandhi can create disharmony and violence in society the way Supernakah done in Ramayana. There is no shortage of Pooja Mishra or Indrani type women in 21st century.


But don’t think we all Indian men are like your Husband Sanjay Gandhi or your Son like Varun Gandhi, so prefer to put your rubbish comments in Dustbin only.

As I always said , the day women like Maneka Gandhi will learn to respect other women, forget about men, 90% violence and crime in the society will be vanished. Time to men wake up and not get triggered their instant Protector hormones in provocation of women , learn from History and mythology.


Root cause of Disharmony in society and violence is not men, its hate speech by women like Maneka Gandhi only.

After effect of Ms. Maneka Gandhi Hate Speech :


Gang of women tries to set excise constables on fire
  MEERUT: Just days after union women and child development minister Maneka Gandhi claimed all violence is male-generated, here is a gang of women, which on Wednesday attempted to set two women constables of the excise department on fire, to prove her wrong.




Men Generate Violence? - NDTV.com

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Had A tough debate with at @AgendaonNDTV with @sunetrac , but Happy to Know that even many Young girls of IP Collage don't agree with @ManekagandhiBJP .

Crime Against Men by Violent Women You will never know the way even BJP Mp's like @ShainaNC failed to see,  as the same does not make a Breaking News in India, nor NCRB have any separate data collection for #CrimeAgainstMen