#StopAbuseMen a movement intends to work for Men's welfare and strongly believe in replacing the word Men/Women by Person and Husband/Wife by Spouse in any Government law or policy.
#MenToo are Human, they also have Constitutional Right to Live & Liberty with Dignity (#Article21 ) .
#Unfairlaw or Policy can not bring Fairness in any Society, it only kills fairness in Justice System and harmony in Society. #SpeakUpMan.
Help Line for abused/distressed Men ( SIF - One): +91-8882498498.
I Proved My Innocence : It’s Not #News: My Live & Liberty with Dignity Denied!
Please share your Story , awareness is key to Stop Abuse Men.
We witness on mere allegation #MediaTrail start, but when the same Man proved his innocence in Court of Law, Main Stream #Media ignored.
#Article21 a constitutional Right of a person: Live and Liberty with Dignity snatched away but our Law Makers and Judiciary remain silent.
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Email: swarup1972@gmail.com
Help Line for Distressed and Abused Men : 8882498498
After 3 Yrs Girl Say I was not Raped, Court Directs to Return 10 L Compensation https://t.co/klWl6adxS8 via @law_trend@HMOIndia why girls family should not file #FakeCase to get such easy money on mere filling FIR? Who will return Live, liberty & Dignity of Men termed #Rapist?
#YellowJournalism at Best: There's a false narrative being created by so called women's rights activists in India which is also being supported by Media Houses.
The narrative is that Indian Husbands do forced sex with their wives without consent and go scot FREE. They never question when wife does forced sex with her husband against his will or consent, is wife termed as a Rapist?
The logic which is given is that in modern days marriage is based on equal partnership hence wife’s will or consent is to be respected like an unmarried woman irrespective . Further a married woman’s right to say No to sexual relationship is being compared to that of a Sex worker right to say No to customer.
Fact is that India has already criminalized forced sex (#MaritalRape) with wife by Husband and provided laws such as #IPC498A & #DVAct to protect wife and punish not only husband, his relatives too. But the same protection has not been accorded to any Indian Husband as the laws are gender specific.
Forget about Sex if any Husband even Kisses his wife without her consent Husband can be sent to jail on mere verbal allegation by wife & no evidence required in #IPC498A for an FIR against family.
In #DVAct, husband can be thrown out from his Home on mere allegation by wife that husband had forced Sex with her and husband’s family is collateral damage. She gets protection order & on her single testimony husband can be sent to jail in the name of breach of protection order.
In #CrPC125, a Husband is asked to beg, brow or steal but he even has to pay his divorced wife or working wife till she's alive or she gets remarried as per recent precedents, irrespective if the breakdown of marriage is due to his or her fault.
As per #NCRB-2020 Suicide data, Husband suicide is 73093 whereas Wives suicide is 28085.
Have Judiciary or Law makers made any effort or action plan how to reduce Husband Suicide in Last 75 years?
Just a group of elite Men & Women are desperate to term Husband a Rapist for their own self-interest, nothing else !
When a wife does forced sex with her Husband without his will or consent, they will never term the wife a #Rapist. Why the will or consent of Husband should not respected by law makers/society should also be the question?
No one will understand the violation of Men's Constitutional rights under Article14, Equality before law & equal protection by law to all citizens irrespective of gender and Article 21, Life, Liberty & Dignity of a person.
The burning question is that why Man should marry at all with Indian woman when he knows marriage would give wife a #RedCard, which she can use any time and term him a #Rapist and he does not even have a #YellowCard in marriage.
As a result #MarriageStrike is the only option for common man in India till the law makers, judiciary and society do not take corrective action to make modern day marriage in India too as equal partnership in true sense and replace the word husband/wife to spouse in every law related to marriage relationship.
शौक़ नहीं मज़बूरी है #MarriageStrike ज़रूरी है !
STOP ABUSE of MEN : MEN ARE HUMAN TOO !
None will understand violation of Men's Constutional right. Must watch below to educate your self. Forget about forced sex with wife without consent, even Husband can't kiss a wife without her consent. He termed criminal via #IPC498A#DVAct do u know?https://t.co/iOtZQEW41v
"My clients r certainly not against recognising spousal sexual violence. They r sayıng it merits a separate & slightly special treatment which legislature has already done. In addition special treatment has been accorded to it in other jurisdictions also" https://t.co/RqzqX4E3Hh
#MaritalRape Exception Based On Intelligible Differentia Of Marriage: #MenWelfare Trust Argues Before Delhi HC https://t.co/LWhvQiNuzw Deepak concluded by referring to Parliamentary Committee Report which dealt with sec. 375 of IPC & international position, specifically UK law .
"in case of sexual abuse in a marriage, a "basket of remedies" is already available in law, which is different on account of difference in relationship & context, & their alleged "inadequacy" cannot be a ground to strike down the exception.#MaritalRapehttps://t.co/UQjdiBvZHD
Sexual relationships, whether marital or non-marital, stand on same footing-militates common sense & mere difference of opinion on this can't make #MaritalRape exception IPC375(2) unconstitutional. #DelhiHighCourt was told on Thursday by NGO @MenWelfarehttps://t.co/Iohmq7XtZp
Social aspects would have to be considered: #MenWelfareTrust@MenWelfare at #DelhiHighCourthttps://t.co/0GeVhwPVOo To say this has no social impact or it's not a social issue would be to truncate the entirety of particular position. Social aspects would have to be considered.
However reasonable, legally backed, research based balanced arguments we present but somebody working for th cause of men would always be portrayed as misogynist, unreasonable, patriarchal etc. This is th mind wash media has been doing to serve agendas of some foreign funded NGOs pic.twitter.com/yGxammBmJN
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A time will come in your life, when you will feel every thing has been lost. My friend that's the time Real Story of your life will start. Be #Misandry & #Mangina FREE ! Be a self-supported, self-volunteer commando of @SFFNGO@MenWelfare to Stop Abuse of Men. pic.twitter.com/EXWEZoWraZ
#लड़कीहूँलड़सकतीहूँ : सब के पता है। Boys be #Mangina FREE !
Abusing, Cheating, blackmailing, extortion of money from Men/Husband/BF they can do without any fear of Law in India. #NoVoteToMaleHaters who are silent #CrimeAgainstMen .
#MarriageAgeDebate: My Live discussion with @JM_NEWS_INDIA .
#MarriageAge increase is irrelevant. Without amend #ChildMarraigeAct it will lead to more sexual disease, unwanted Pregnancy, Abortion, Fake #RapeCase increase, Extortion from Boys family.
अन्य • पुरुषयुग • युवा शक्ति Purush Mange Insaaf part-02 19 hours ago by Anup Kumar Add Comment 1,022 Views Tweet Jai Hind Maithili News jmnews Purush ...
ARUP, WAS 14 the first time a women grabbed him inappropriately without permission. He was at a family functions and he can’t quite remember what he did to raise her ire, but he remember her grabbing him from behind.
Then she yelled something to her ladies group friends about Arup’s private parts was not fitting into her hands. All her friends enjoy the same and poor Arup run away from there with shame.
Take his age out of the equation and most people would be more surprised about believing that that’s a sexual harassment to boys, playing with their private parts when done by any women or girls.
Playing with boys private parts , kiss their private parts, forcefully remove their cloths , punish them in front of other kids as Naked is very common not only in Urban society , even I had witness in remote villages also. But if the victim is boy, none term it as sexual harassment.
Samir other 16 years guys, just got expelled notice from his school and got termed a molester, as his parents had a heated arguments with School Principal regarding excessive demand of Donation.
Now those boys became 18+ and gets termed as Men , but the sexual assault or abuse on them does not stop , it continue in various form , they even get raped by women/Girls but can’t even cry for get raped . The moment they will cry for rape, instead of treating him as victim, the law will term him a rapist.
As soon as a man tries to explain a problem that affects all men, like “some women can get very aggressive when they’re rejected, the hand-waving response is often just “not all women”. That is a comment that helps no one, clarifies nothing and only achieves the derailing of a conversation about an important problem. We know it’s not all women, but when the problems are experienced by pretty much all men, something has to change.
Being an ex-male feminist witness many brain wash advocacy that Feminism isn’t about hating men it’s about equality. But when it comes to the victim of sexual, physical, mental, economical abuse of men in the hand of women, feminist show their true picture. All the ideology of equality goes out and desperate attempt made to justify all wrong doing of women against men as exceptions.
A Live example:
Today morning when I was driving for office there was a program in FM Radio regarding recent reports of more than 93% Pick picketers in Delhi Metro found are women/girls, but a young girl made RJ Raunak clean bowled by logic that girls/women are not expert of theft , so they get caught , but boys are expert so they never get caught and run away.
So in spite of having evidence on record we will still term Boys/men is culprit on assumption based theory only. CCTV footage will show how some women is beating boys/men left, right or center, but no case will be filed against such women, whereas without any evidence the molestation case will be filed against the men/boys on mere verbal allegations.
There are enough bad girls/women out there but men had been never taught how to avoid being get raped, what to do when get abused by women/Girls, how to hold your nerve or protect yourself when any women/girls get violent.
In reply of #MansWorld Misandry Videos
Ask any men, all of us have at least one own story in their life about a girl or women they had witness, who got aggressive after being rejected to full fill their illogical demand.
Roughly one of every two men/boys will experience sexual assault once they’re over the age of 13. Most of those men/boys won’t report the incident because men/boys are raised to believe that they’re in some way responsible, so this mass outcry goes in deaf ears only.
What’s sadly not surprising is that even though (or perhaps because) it took a lot of courage for the men to speak about the things that had happened to them, there was still a big backlash against them.
The laughably named “Women rights activists” always tried to turn the conversation back to how horrible men were responsible for rape of women and how dare men seek equality, taking “rights” to be victim away from women ?
This conversation is important to have because while not all women will go around abusing people, but a large number of women still think abuse any men is their birth right and any wrong they do against men is justified as Self-defense and will go Scot free .
More than that, all of these issues are the things that men need to speak up about, instead of just replying with “not all women” hate men and non-male hater women also need to learn listen and think about how they can be part of the solution, even if they’re not actively part of the problem.
We have witness many trending hash Tag in twitter supported by many men as well as women, like #StopMisuseofRapeLaw, #StopAbuseMen , #Scrap498A , #SaveMale , # StopMenSuicide , #StopElderAbuse , #MenAreHumantoo , #No2maintenance etc , but none of the Political Party had given any Place in their manifesto as concern.
The safety, suffering , crime against men and their other family members had been ignored by all most every Political Party, as they know we men are not united for our own Constitution right, result we had been taken as granted.
Now , if you really want to stop such misuse of Law or necessary correction to be done in Law’s , there is no other option but to Join hands together and give a clear message to all Political party that we men & their family members are not Free Vote Bank any more.
One may love it or hate it , but fact is it's Political party elected MP/MLA only can change any Unfair laws, and all MP/MLA does any activity on the hope to get increase in their vote share only .
Even 2 or 3% increase or decrees in their vote share makes huge difference in their number of seats won or lost.
One hand we witness some political Leaders out of country cry in the name of Mother, but does not provide any Protection such age old mothers when they get abused in their own home by Daughter-in-law.
Many political leaders talk about they want to remove the pain of women of this country, but got silent when we say , in this country every 6 min a mother or sister loss their own brother or son, does their pain is not considered as Pain of Women ?
In this Country every 8 min one women’s brother or son or husband had been termed as rapist or molester and subject to blackmailing or extortion via various Unfair Laws, does their pain is not a women’s pain?
Unfair Laws or policy can’t bring fairness in any society it only lead to hatred in Society and destroy the society harmony. When Society harmony get destroyed , it only increase violence , crime , extortion and it’s common men and women pay the price , history witness.
So, we appeal to all, if any party members call you or visit your Home for seeking Your Vote, give this below list ( must Print) and ask them to include their stand in their party manifesto first, and then only you will review to whom you should vote instead of your own Party "NOTA".
Your Party : NOTA
Please let us know:
·As per NCRB report the victims of Murder, accident, suicide of Men are 2 to 3 times than women. To address the crime against men and their day to day problem, do you agree to form a Men welfare ministry and Commission?
·Do you agree to replace the word Men/Women to person in all anti-men laws like, rape, molestation, Work Place harassment, Domestic Violence act, crpc125? The above mentioned laws are poorly drafted and heavily biased against the husbands/men and their families leading to Legal Terrorism and subject to Legal extortion?
·It was promised in Last Rajya Sabha Committee report, if arrest in most grossly abused IPC section like 498A does not get reduced, there is no option but to make 498A bailable . The NCRB data also shows there is no reduction of arrest even after crpc41A, so do you agree that such laws should be made bailable?
·What steps will your party take to stop heavy misuse of “Gender Biased” laws and consider the same heinous crime and strong Punishment followed, as present IPC182 and crpc340 had totally failed to control massive misuse of law on innocent men.
·Do you agree that the differences between husband and wife should be treated as a civil matter (and not Criminal) like all over developed country followed than creating multiple Laws in the name of seeking maintenance should be stopped?
·Do you agree to scrap the present unfair laws, which allow multiple maintenance and criminal litigation against Husband in multiple courts, when constitution said a person can’t be punished twice for same offense?
·Do you agree to form a single law with word “Spouse” by replacing the word Husband / wife in all marriage related laws start from dowry to Alimony?
·Why you support for giving maintenance to even educated, working, well bodied or adulterous wife, when they are not taking care any responsibility of Husband’s liabilities?
·What will your party do to ensure that no arrest is made before Final Judgment/ Order in case of a complaint only with verbal allegations under various assumption based law that a women never lie?
·What is your stand on equal rights on children’s (Shared Parenting) in case of separation of parents?
In case you do NOT receive any reply, tell them we will be forced to assume to that you too, like other Political parties consider Men as disposable gender.
So, better to #Vote4NOTA your own party, than voting to a party candidate, who does not consider men as human , who also victim of crime , Violence , sexual assault along with subject extortion and blackmailing via multiple #Fakecasesin home and workplaces .
The day your party NOTA will attract more than 10 to 15% vote then see , all political party will be forced to consider Men are Human too and they need a welfare ministry or commission too to address their problems.The NOTA (none of the above) symbol, being used for the first time in Bihar, came about after the designers had taken feedback from villagers below the poverty line and semi-literate voters found that they, too, related the cross sign with rejection.
