#PurushPaksh : My discussion with NGO working for Men Daaman !

Men are Human Too ! Be #Misandry Free to Stop Abuse Of Men !

Celebrating International Men's Day 2016 - YouTube

Celebrating International Men's Day 2016 - YouTube

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Look around, everywhere, every time, every place, contributions of Men can’t be ignored.

From the most important to most difficult environments or to make it short, “TO MAKE EARTH A LIVABLE PLANET”, its men who have most ignored yet most important roles.

Let’s list few contributions in perspective of India and Indians:  Protectors for the World – Defence, Security, Every Father, Every Brother, Every Son  Providers for the World – Farmers, Drivers, Manufacturers, Every Father, Every Brother, Every Son  Catalysts for the World – Scientists, Researchers,

AND NOBODY CAN SAY NO TO MEN BEING EQUAL CONTRIBUTORS TO REPRODUCTIVE CYCLE OF HUMAN BEINGS

On this year's International Men's Day, SIFar presents a real life picture of men. 

See them toiling hard at work, see the hazards they face and help break stereotypes that our society suffers with.

Men's Rights, Save Indian Family, Save Family Foundation, International Men's Day, Men's Day, Save Indian Family, SIF, Respect, India, Activism, Social Justice, Men's Rights Movement.

#RIPManujGupta - We lost a brave MRA in Car accident Yesterday !

#RIPManujGupta - We Lost a Brave MRA in Car Accident !!

It is very painful to share that our greatest MRA, Manuj Gupta (Founder, DAMAN) and Ex-Moderator of SIF Yahoo Group left us Yesterday Night.

Anupam Dubey was also in same car which met with accident on Yamuna Express Way. Anupam is OK, but suffering in great Shock , under doctor observations ( Wish get well soon )

Manuj who coined the word via registering the NGO called DAMan (“The Man”), when come to our SIF group, was with full of fire, high passion and with Lot of dreams.

Within months taken responsibility of SIF moderator role and started weekly meeting in Kanpur, multiple events to create awareness in society. Some time he used to be very cute, some time with full of emotion!!

Many fear less activity he done, like Protest in front of Parliament without any fear, facing Biased Judges in Court, threat form Gonads and Police during his fake cases, but he prefer to fight back than surrender to Legal Terrorism and  won DV case, never got arrested in 498A and End MCD with Zero Money .

The one of biggest achievements in High court when his wife asked to transfer all cases to her home town, every one told it will be difficult to fight such cases as Judges transfer the cases to Wife city without seeing the merit, but he prefers to represent by self than hire advocate.

Judge asked where your advocate is and do you know law?

He replied: “My lord, to say truth there is no need to know law, to say lie one need to know law and advocate. Kill me here itself and hand over my body to my parents , but will not able go to  Home town of my wife  to fight case , as my BIL is a Gunda and he will kill me and throw my body in some un-known place , which even my parents will not be see my dead body . So better you kill than my BIL kill me, at least my Parents will not be deprived to see my Dead Body!”

He won the case on merit, but it shows the confidence and fearless he was.

Witness his many media activity social as well as print and electronic media and the Blast he given to Barkha Dutta NDTV Show (maximum portion was edited), when she ask audience to Poll by giving one sided story.

His word: “Mam here is a case where I had proved in Court it was wrong allegations, but you don’t brother to hear the same and without even hearing the same asking people to Vote based on a Story , which we do not know true or false ? So, an Allegations based story has more value to you than Court order based Fact to You? “  

Ms. Barkha Dutt openly say, yes she is taking side and she will keep doing that, because it’s her believe. One will wonder, if so why she claim a News anchor, if she wants to put her views is not fair to be a Panelist than misuse the Anchor Role of Program!

He dream many think but one I would like to put his  message in SIF Yahoo Group  appeal for creating 100NGo to  all over India  in every city to provide some helping hand to abused and distressed men .

Like that many incidence in my memory, can't express in words, hope he will take rebirth soon in some here some form as DA-Man, as a MRA don't die, it’s a soul, which only change their form of body!!

He used to blog at :

ANTI MEN LAWS DEMOLISHING SOCIETY

(The Author is the founder of DAMAN (Dowry Act Misuse Abolition Network), an organization fighting against the Misuse of Dowry Laws, and protect Men and his family from False implications due to Laws pertaining to gender discrepancy.)

All his activity you can witnesses in his Blog , but a heart touching Post he written after got Divorce a must read for all Re-Birth of Manuj Gupta .

We know we can't get back to him or any condolence is enough to the loss of his family, but at least we can show some love and respect to one of our brave MRA by saying in #RIPManujGupta at twitter and Facebaook , as Main stream media will not going to recornise his effort and sacrifice he had done for Men rights movement.

The Last Message From Manuj Gupta - DaMan !!

Need for Men's Rights | Amit Deshpande | TEDxJuhu

Today morning got a News Cutting mentioned , two attempt of rape case filed in Delhi and such news are not uncommon and as a common Men , we believe the same as true and start imagine how unsafe women in our country .

Indian Wives file attempt to Rape case against each others Husband

The story mention it was fight between two women at Night with reference to Car parking Problem . Now to resolve the same one women file a attempt to rape case against other women's Husband and in return the other women also file a attempt to rape case against first women's husband. Though it was found the allegation are not correct Police failed to  imitate any IPC182 against them or can't refuse to register the FIR , as recently SC said , Police have no right to refuse the FIR on basis the case is fake or fabricated.

This is not the first cases , every day such cases getting registered in huge numbers, not only in Delhi ,witness even at small villages of UP, West Bengal also. Today Cry Rape and all your wrong doing get  justified , even crime like mob killing or Riots . Any disputes , term it Rape and get Scot free .

So , a wrong doer ( He or She) became victim without any difficulty, only think she have to cry for rape or he have to find a women who will cry for rape for him. That's the #UnfairLaw of India  which even United Nation ( @UN) also prefer to keep their blind eye , result #FeministWorld made India a Hub of Legal Terrorism of the World .

Now such cases will be also added in National Crime Bure Report ( NCRB) as Crime against women and women organizations will not miss any opportunity to use the same statistics to shame all men , some radical Feminist will not miss the opportunity to term Every men as Potential Rapist . They will even reach to United Nation ( @UN) to fool them how India is unsafe for women and @UN also will get fooled and will make more anti-men law or policy.

But UN will never try to find the truth , as the Law designed in such a way that if a women cry for rape , no one have rights to disbelieve . If you question the truthfulness of the allegations , not only you will be termed a "Misgoynest" , you may even loose your Job also, as media will not forget to term you a Prevert or a Potential Rapist . If you are a Political person , you will be termed as anti-men in Media debates , so maximum Political person prefer to keep silence.

So, neither LAW makers , United Nation ( @UN) or any Media will dare to discuss to find the solution of such Legal Terrorism and will prefer to hide behind the word "Every Law get misused" due to their Misandric (male-hater) Mindset .

Result India failed to make any strong provision to consider that filling fake cases like Rape, molestation , 498A is heinous crime as the actual crime .

They will keep you reminding it's #MensWorld , any suffering of men should not be need of discussion . The right of Men's provided under article 21 ( Live and Liberty) taken away by terming them as criminal in open day light , but none dare to speak up as it's not #MensWorld any more it's #FeministWorld .

But here is one of my SIF Brother , Amit Deshpandey, President of Vaastav Foundation ,  dare to Talks about 'Need for Men's Right in TEDxJuhu .

One must view, listen and understand , any Unfair policy or Law does not bring any fairness in Society. It only kills the Harmony in society which lead to more and more violence and crime.

Men like Amit I termed as my Brother , not that I have any Blood relation with them , but SIF a ray of Hope for many Men creates the Brother Hood network , which  many even had  failed to get from own Blood relations.

Though #FeministWorld had killed or destroyed many of mine or your own Brother, Son , Father, Grand fathers , but SIF gives us many more brother like Amit whose basic ideology , to stop the injustice against men , if one have to end his life by Bullet shoot out on them , let take it on Chest than at back. 

Let Join hands and try to Stop Abuse of men too , as men are also Human too.


 

First make #RefusalofSex a Criminal offence then talk about #MaritalRape

Lie , lie and Lie , that’s how radical Feminist group and media fool the Indian by Playing the Victim-hood Card smartly.

• A wrong done by wives refuse to have sex without any justified reason and blackmailing Husbands , radical feminist groups termed as marital rape to hide their own wrong doing.

#RefusalofSex and #MaritalRape ( Forced Sex) both had been considered as Mental harrasement by #MiLord of SC and is an Ground for Divorce.

But radical activists want to make criminal offence only #MaritalRape but not the #RefusalofSex in marriage, which is totally #Unfair.

They say in India Husband have right to have forced or violent sex with wife and there is no relief to wives. This is a Blind lie. The truth is in India a Women or wife when rape a Men or Husband the same not termed as crime in Indian LAW.

Would request all read the law Like Dv Act ( Domestic Violence act) , where it had clearly mentioned in case of any sexual assault or Violence even a Name calling is offence . The women can get relief under DV act as protection order, compensations, and residence right. If the Men violate the protection order, he will be jailed immediately.

In addition to that, if women face sexual violence, she can seek relief under CRPC125; she can seek Divorce and alimony.

In addition under 498A also the men is Punished for doing such act.

So, there are 4 special laws exclusive for Women as a relief in case they face any sexual violence or assaults in marriage.

On the other hand , When a woman rapes (sex without mutual consent) our Indian society and law colors the act with terms like loving or affectionate. Sadly some women consider such acts as their birth right over men. If a man tries to fight back or resist or even dreams of speaking the truth, he himself is labeled as rapist instead of being considered a Victim of rape.

So the bottom line is in India , a Women have right to rape not only her Husband to any Men and the same is not crime as per LAW.

Another lie spared in NDTV show by a Feminist that Law commission had recommended to make #MaritalRape is a criminal offense.

But she had not mentioned that:

"The Law Commission in one of its Report dated March, 2000 had recommended that laws relating to rape (Sec 375 IPC) be made gender neutral.

But the recommendation was not accepted.  Why?
 

Will our Lawmaker ever take the moral responsibility and courage to replace the words “Men/women” by the word “Person” and replace words “husband/wife” by the word “Spouse”?

The Question asked why the #MaritalRape should not be termed as other Rape cases and the answer is:

1.     Where the women are not married with Men she had not given any consent to have sex as Legal Obligations.

2.     Other Women can’t seek relief under special 4 LAW which is available for a Wife.

3.     Other Women can’t restrict the man to have sex or re-marry to other women as per Constitutional Right 21 give Live and Liberty. 

4.     The present Rape Law are not gender Neutral, so every Possibility the Victim is not the women, the Victim is men.

5.     In married relation there are Consensual sex also , so you can’t determine the sex was consensual sex or forced sex by DNA or other forensic test.

6.     Most important the evidence act of present Rape law does not seek any medical exemption as prim face evidence. So , every Consual sex also can be termed as rape. 

7. Most important its not only in marriage relationship , any relationship you are in the form of marriage or love or live-in , terming your partner rapist is not only wrong, it is cheating and fraud.

Marriage LAW we have section 9 RCR - restitution of conjugal rights it is your obligations to have sex with your partner and it is the Legal right provided by Law in return it restrict your choice to have sex outside women. Even Supreme court of India mentioned in several Judgments #RefusalofSex without any medical reason is wrong and spouse have right to seek divorce.

As per our survey more than 98% cases Husband had been refused to have sex with their wife without any medical or Justified reason months after months , but feminist say , men have relief under such situation to seek for Divorce. 

Ohhh what logic, a wrong done by wife the solution is Divorce, then why same type relief a wife can’t seek like Divorce than crying foul I had been raped?

Also those feminist had not told you as soon as a Husband will seek Divorce on ground wife refuse to have sex, immediately he along with all his other family members will be termed as criminal under 498A, Dv act. Multiple litigation for maintenance will be filed as interim maintenance under CRP125, Section24 and section25.

So, a wrong done by wife but it is Husband have to pay the price and run from Pillar to Post to get Divorce ? 

So, if you really want to reduce the forced sex or violent sex the first step should be term #RefusalofSex as a Criminal offence, as during marriage it is your legal obligation and consent to have sex and you violate it. Then only there will be Domestic harmony.

No, No, now Feminist will come out with logic it is my body my Choice, I had get married to you does not mean you have right to use my body as Commodity.

100% agree with you all male hatred, but you will you buy the same logic if given by Men? If he refused to have sex with wife, will not you term him Impotent, he had done fraud, Cheating, have relationship to other women and drag him in multiple criminal cases?

Most important , if you buy any costly Diamond set or Beauty Parlor Cost by his hard earned money , why She also should not be send behind the bar under as crime under extortion or Robbery?

 

• So, next time before fall under feminist lie, must understand:

 

1.     In India if a Women face #MaritalRape she can seek relief under DV Act/CRPC125/Divorce/Section24/Section25/498A. But if she raped her Husband her Husband can’t seek any relief or Protection from her.

2. Refuse to have sex by Husband to wife without any justified reason is a offense in India as per Domestic Violence act , but the same not considered as any offense when does by wife.

3.     In India men does not have right to rape wife , if he does have to pay heavy price, but Women have all right to rape any men or her own Husband the same not crime.

3.     During marriage You have given consent to have sex with your spouse and it is your Legal Obligations as in returned you had ended his/her Choice of to have sex with other men/women outside wedlock.

5.     Terming forced Sex or violent sex as per with stranger Sex is nothing but unfair and cheating. 

6. If you are in any relationship in the name of marriage or live-in or love affairs, you can't term your partner a Rapist, first end it than cry foul rape , rape. 

7.     If you believe it is my body my Choice, then stays away from marriage and do not give false promise and obligation of marriage law. No one had put a Gun on your head to get married.

8.     If you use his money without her consent, be ready to go to Jail under extortion and Robbery cases also.

9.     A Husband can't be file rape case against Wife, let she rape you every day and then cut your body in 11 or 17 pieces.

10. A wrong done by wives refuse to have sex without any justified reason and blackmailing Husbands , radical feminist groups termed as marital rape to hide their own wrong doing.

 

 

• So, what is Solution?

 

Read the other LAW of other Country as Whole before compare a appeal to orange,

1.     Rape or Sexual assaults LAW should be Gender Neutral first. There should not be any excuses to support #RapistWomen of India.

2.     The Present relief given under Domestic Violence Law as protection first to be utilized and then see how many cases found true . Let first get the data from Court than depend on per-determined one sided biased study by funded organizations.

3.     To maintain Domestic Harmony the DV act to be made Gender Neutral like other country have.

4.     Abolish special law like 498A, 304B as no other country of the world have such decoration law.

 

The most important before believe unfair demand of #MaritalRape first make #RefusalofSex as criminal offense than only  giving a Lollypop solution to Men of Divorce , which never come without paying heavy price.

 

Related News : 

Making marital rape an offence will lead to false complaints - Deccan Herald

'Making marital rape an offence will lead to false complaints ... Business Standard

 

Refusal of Sex in Marriage : How Many time as Husband You had been refused to have Sex by Your wives without any Justified/Medical reason or in failure 2 purchase of Valuable items 4 her?
P.S. Marriage = Man forced to give up his choice 2 sex with other women Legally, #SpeakUpMan

— SwarupSarkar (@swarup1972) April 10, 2019