Showing posts with label SFF. Show all posts
Showing posts with label SFF. Show all posts

Friday, 3 December 2021

National Family Health Survey | 1020 Females Per 1000 Males | Where Are The Missing Men?

Sunday, 28 November 2021

Jai Bhim TV 24x7 : Interview Swarup Sarkar क्या NFHS-5 के अनुसार सवा करोड़ से ज्यादा पुरुष लापता ?

PRESS RELEASE : By SFF & MWT NGO Working for Men

1.18 Crore Men Missing in India over past 4 years: NFHS-5






NFHS i.e. National Family Health Survey is conducted by IIPS along with other groups designated by Ministry of Health & Family Welfare (MoHFW) and is funded by USAID, UNICEF. Till date, 5 such surveys have been done and much of the reliance is placed by the Indian law makers on the NHFS data, when it comes to “assuming” about the ground realities.

 

The latest survey, NFHS-5 was done over 2019-2021 and recently some key highlights were published. The key findings are available on the NFHS website but we wish to draw the attention towards what was either ignored or celebrated big time to cover up the biggest “GENDER-SCAM” of India.

 

CRITICAL POINTERS:

Ø  Sex Ratio (Female to Male) in NFHS-5 has become 1020 women over 1000 Men. In NFHS-4 (2015-2016), the same ratio was 991. So there is an increase of almost 3% i.e. 29/1000.

This is the celebration that most Feminist theory appeasers are having.

Ø  Sex Ratio at birth increased 1% i.e. from 919 from 929 female over 1000 male from NFHS-4 to NFHS-5.

 

So, while there are only 10 additional births of females, but there are 29 lesser males from total population thus bringing the total differential of about 19 (i.e 1.9%) extra males less over past 4 years (gap between the NFHS4 & 5). Even if we assume the total population to be same as Census 2011 of 62, 37, 24,248 total males, what we have lost is minimum 1,18, 50,760 i.e. minimum 1.18 Crore.


 

  • Ø  Population below 15 Years has fallen from 28.6% in NFHS-4 to 26.5% in NFHS-5. Which means, that as a country, we are getting older.

 

  • This also implies another derivation that the MISSING MEN of INDIA are mostly adults. The derivation also looks true, looking at the increase of suicides amongst men (Adults) as per NCRB (National Crime Records Bureau, Ministry of Home Affairs) data.

 

  • Ø  Percentage of Women who did 10 Years schooling has increased by 5.3% while for Men, it has increased by 3.1% only between NFHS-4 to NFHS-5.

 

This also shows how the school dropout rate of Male gender is much higher than the Female Gender. Most boys are subjected to child labour and the number keeps growing. This is why, we see a lesser growth of 10Y schooling amongst boys/Men. But then, no one will ask this question to the Ministry of Women & CHILD development or Ministry of Education.

 

  • Ø  Diabetes amongst Men is 15.6% as against 13.5% amongst Women as per NFHS-5.
  • Ø  High Blood Pressure in Men also stands at 24% as against 21.3% amongst Women.

 

Thus, the biggest killers in India i.e. the Cardiac Issues and Diabetes killed more men, than women. But Ministry of Health and Family Welfare will continue to ignore this killer effect on men.

 

Ø  Last but not the least, look at the Questionnaire of NFHS-5, which was a 96 page one for Women but just 38 page one for Men. So more so, that the questions about being victim of say Domestic Violence were NOT EVEN ASKED from Male gender, when there are various known cases, court observations around Men being victims of Domestic Violence. JUST THINK WHY?

  • Ø  Earlier when we send our suggestion to NHFS-4 to include the same question to #MenToo for Domestic Violence on Men, in written reply to us they said: It can’t be included at this stage as data module capturing software already finalised and our suggestion will be considered next time. But it looks intentionally the same has been avoid to hide the actual data of Domestic Violence on Men.

 


So, while NFHS has shown critical BIAS in its survey when done on either gender, the data shows very clear crimes that men are subjected to in the country by the society/laws/government. E.g.:

 

1.     There are more than 1.18 Crores of Men missing. These Missing men are combination of Male deaths in India, of which Suicides is a big component. As per NCRB, Family Issues are the biggest reason of Suicides. India forces over 1.08 lakh men to commit suicide every year & the number keeps growing (already 2.5 times to that of Women) but no effort made by Govt or Judiciary to reduce the same.

 

2.   Of these missing men, more are from ages of more than 15 years. But “11.8 MILLION INDIAN MEN MISSING” won’t be a campaign which will interest the world, as who cares about lives of Men?

 

3.    Boys School Dropout rate, Boys Child Labour Rate and Boys sexual assault rate doesn’t bother the society or the Government or the Law Makers. That’s why the Law Makers conveniently made Boys an easier target of sexual crimes by making changes to the Rape Law. Also, with stress on #Beti only, #Beta of India are bound to suffer.

 

4.       Men’s Health will continue to be ignored as probably Breast cancer has higher importance than Prostate cancer or Life of Women, Plants; Animals are of higher value of that of Men.

 

  Lastly, surveys like NFHS, which clearly scream of BIAS in their data selection and data collection will continue to be the basis of Law Making in India because CRIME AGAINST MEN will be ignored forever.

 

Hence, we strongly recommend following to the Government of India to:

 

  • 1.      Issue a National Helpline for Suicide Prevention only for Men & Boys
  • 2.      Form National Commission for Men to look into clear issues faced by Male gender
  • 3.      Separate Child ministry from WCD Ministry and make it as a separate Ministry
  • 4.   Boys Education, Boys Child Labour, Boys Sexual Assault, all need to get same priority as that for girls

 

NFHS must be directed to have a Gender Neutral survey questionnaire, process for data collection [there can always be sections which may not be applicable to the one being surveyed] 

 

Saturday, 27 November 2021

NHFS 5 | Why Men Are Vanishing In Govt. Data?

Friday, 26 November 2021

इंटरनेशनल मेन डे के अवसर पर श्री स्वरुप सरकार ने पुरुषो की आवाज उठाई

Tuesday, 16 November 2021

International Men's day come to Jantar Mantar & Speak Up Against Injustice to #MenToo

International Men's Day celebration at Jantar Mantar Delhi on 19th Nov

Interview with Shri Swarup Sarkar Men's Welfare Trust in New Delhi

पत्नियों से प्रताड़ित पति बच्चों से मिलने को तरसे, दर्द भरी गुहार देख आपका भी भर आएगा दिल India News

Thursday, 24 September 2015

Training Seminar: Remove Misandry & To be a Smart Litigant on 4th October,2015.

Save Family Foundation ( SFF) in association with Hydriya - A Nest of Family Harmony ( HNFS) supported by National Litigant Bench ( NLB) inviting all Men of Delhi / NCR who are victim of various false cases like :  498A , Domestic Violence,  Rape, Molestation and subject to extortion and blackmailing in the hand of Police as well as in Court in a unique Training program called " Remove Misandry & To be a Smart Litigant".



Honorable Supreme Court in a Judgement caution to government if the misuse of law like 498A does not controlled it will  unleash Legal Terrorism .

Till date no effective corrective action had been taken by Government , where as along with 498A now IPC376, IPC377 , IPC354 ,CRPC125, Domestic Violence Act, also became another toll of extortion , which various court judgments brought to our notice.

Today if you are facing such Legal Terrorism , that's because your earlier brothers also prefer to surrender than fight back. So , what you want to fight back or also do the same mistakes what your earlier brothers had done ?

Remove Misandry & To be a Smart Litigant




Date : 4th October ( Sunday) , 2015.
Time : 10AM to 4PM
Venue : Jawahar Lal Nehru Youth Center , Near Gandhi Peach Foundation, Deen Dayal Upadhyay Marg , New Delhi.
Help Line no : 8882-498-498

Register Now via Facebook Event Page . Maximum Seat 150 .



We had witness their earlier Training module like #Hope4Men for abused /distressed Men and Misandry for youth in College Campus , but this Training module is going to be something special as we witness from the question asked in the poster itself.
 

What do you think flows in our Body ?


Is it only Blood ? RBC? WBC?

No 


It's Feminism , Anti-Men virus called Misandry !!!


None had been spared from this Misandry virus , let you be a politician , Police , Judge, Engineers, Doctors or common Men of India.

Result when a men reach to Court  for any Legal Case , subject to extortion , blackmailing and prefer to surrender in front of Legal Terrorist .

So, if you or your family or friends are a victim of false, fabricated cases and want to fight back , must join this  Training module .

There is a famous words by some army Commandos :

When you are suppose to die by a Bullet attack , learn to  take it at Chest than at Back .







Wednesday, 9 July 2014

SC:No abuse of arrests under anti-dowry law, time to make 498A bailable


The Committee fears that failure to do so might leave no option except to dilute the law by making the same non-cognizable and bailable. In this context, the Committee recommends certain additional measures as contained in the succeeding paragraphs.




No Dowry arrests till magistrate's nod: SC , why such order made ? Look at the Graph , one hand the arrest of people is increasing in 498a , but after long trail Court found more than 85% people are not guilty. 




From the supreme court July,2014 judgment , it had proved beyond reasonable dought the government and police had failed to check the misuse of 498a and so the time had came to make the same bailable , demand Save Family Foundation and their associated organizations , as from the past experience , we witness such Judgments never followed by Police or by Government.
If we go through the NCRB data of 2013 recently released , the arrest had further incresed from 1.97L to 2.2 L , where as it was expected the same will be reduced as per new provision of CRPC41.

This is the 5th time Supreme Court had highlighted the need of stop the misuse of Dowry law like #IPC498a , but Government or Police had never taken any corrective actions.
In the last Parliament committee report by Rajya Sabah , it was clearly mentioned if the misuse of 498A does not reduced they have no option but to make it bailable.
NEW DELHI: The Supreme Court on Wednesday said women were increasingly using the anti-dowry law to harass in-laws and restrained police from mechanically arresting the husband and his relatives on mere lodging of a complaint under Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code.
Citing very low conviction rate in such cases, it directed the state governments to instruct police "not to automatically arrest when a case under Section 498A of IPC is registered but to satisfy themselves about the necessity for arrest under the parameters (check list) provided under Section 41 of criminal procedure code".
Section 41 lays down a 9-point check list police to weigh the need to arrest after examining the conduct of the accused, including possibility of his absconding.
Expressing exasperation over rampant misuse of Section 498A, a bench of Justices C K Prasad and P C Ghose said if police arrested the accused, the magistrate should weigh the preliminary evidence against the Section 41 checklist before allowing further detention.
"The magistrate, while authorising detention of the accused shall peruse the report furnished by the police officer in terms of Section 41 and only after recording its satisfaction, the magistrate will authorize detention," the bench said.
It also said that this check-list for arrest and detention would apply to all offences, which are punished with a prison term less than 7 years. Punishment under Section 498A is a maximum of three years but it had been made a cognizable and non-bailable offence, which made grant of bail to the accused a rarity in courts.
But the court singled out the dowry harassment cases as the most abused and misused provision, though the legislature had enacted it with the laudable object to prevent harassment of women in matrimonial homes.

Writing the judgment for the bench, Justice Prasad said there had been a phenomenal increase in dowry harassment cases in India in the last few years. "The fact that Section 498A is a cognizable and non-bailable offence has lent it a dubious place of pride amongst the provisions that are used as weapons rather than shield by disgruntled wives," he said.
"The simplest way to harass is to get the husband and his relatives arrested under this provision. In a quite number of cases, bed-ridden grand-fathers and grand-mothers of the husbands, their sisters living abroad for decades are arrested," he said.
The bench quoted "Crime in India 2012 Statistics" published by National Crime Records Bureau to say that nearly 2 lakh people were arrested in India in 2012 under Section 498-A, which was 9.4% more than in 2011.
"Nearly a quarter of those arrested under this provision in 2012 were women i.e. 47,951 which depicts that others and sisters of the husbands were liberally included in their arrest net. Its share is 6% out of the total persons arrested under the crimes committed under Indian Penal Code. It accounts for 4.5% of total crimes committed under different sections of penal code, more than any other crimes excepting theft and hurt," it said.
"The rate of charge-sheeting in cases under Section 498A is as high as 93.6%, while the conviction rate is only 15%, which is lowest across all heads. As many as 3,72,706 cases are pending trial of which on current estimate, nearly 3,17,000 are likely to result in acquittal," the bench said illustrating the misuse of Section 498A as a tool to harass husband and his relatives.
Describing arrest as a humiliating experience apart from curtailing the freedom, the bench said police have not shed their colonial hangover despite six decades of independence and were still considered "as a tool of harassment, oppression, and surely not considered a friend of public".
The need for caution in exercising the drastic power of arrest had been emphasized time and again by courts but has not yielded results, the court said and tasked the magistrates to check illegal arrests.
CRIMINAL APPEAL NO. 1277 OF 2014
date of order: 2 July 2014
LANDMARK JUDGEMENT OF J. CHANDRAMOULI KR. PRASAD ISSUED TODAY
DIRECTION TO POLICE....DON'T JUMP AND ARREST AT DROP OF A HAT....SERVE NOTICE UNDER 41A
Our endeavour in this judgment is to ensure that police  officers do not arrest accused unnecessarily and Magistrate do not authorize detention  casually and mechanically. In order to ensure what we have observed above, we give the following direction:

 (1) All the State Governments to instruct its police officers not to automatically arrest when a case under Section 498-A of the IPC is registered but to satisfy themselves
 about the necessity for arrest under the parameters laid down above flowing from  Section 41, Cr.PC;
(2) All police officers be provided with a check list containing specified sub-clauses
 under Section 41(1)(b)(ii);
(3) The police officer shall forward the check list duly filed and furnish the reasons and materials which necessitated the arrest, while forwarding/producing the accused before the Magistrate for further detention;
(4) The Magistrate while authorising detention of the accused shall peruse the report
 furnished by the police officer in terms aforesaid and only after recording its satisfaction, the Magistrate will authorize detention;
(6) Notice of appearance in terms of Section 41A of Cr.PC be served on the accused  within two weeks from the date of institution of the case, which may be extended by the Superintendent of Police of the District for the reasons to be recorded in writing;
(7) Failure to comply with the directions aforesaid shall apart from rendering the police officers concerned liable for departmental action, they shall also be liable to be punished for contempt of court to be instituted before High Court having territorial jurisdiction.
(8) Authorising detention without recording reasons as aforesaid by the judicial Magistrate concerned shall be liable for departmental action by the appropriate High Court.
We hasten to add that the directions aforesaid shall not only apply to the cases under Section 498-A of the I.P.C. or Section 4 of the Dowry Prohibition Act, the case in hand, but also such cases where offence is punishable with imprisonment for a term which may be less than seven years or which may extend to seven years; whether with or without fine.

We direct that a copy of this judgment be forwarded to the Chief Secretaries as also the Director Generals of Police of all the State Governments and the Union Territories and the Registrar General of all the High Courts for onward transmission and ensuring its compliance.


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Wednesday, 11 June 2014

#HugYourDad & take Vow to Stop Fatherless Child society in India on #FathersDay.

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“This father’s day, I am expressing my love towards my dad by participating in the #HugYourDad activity at BlogAdda in association with Vicks.”
 

Only a Father can put his life at risk knowingly or unknowingly for his Child. Many of you would have heard this popular story: 

Once a fatherand his 8 years old daughter was to cross a river. There was only one small damaged bamboo bridge to cross the river. The chances of bridge breaking down were very high if one was to walk through the bridge.

The father asked his daughter to hold his hand tightly, so that she would not fall down.

But the daughter said, “NO”, you hold my hand instead of me holding your hand.

The father was surprised and asked his daughter the reason?

The daughter replied, “I may leave your hand by mistake, but I know you will never leave my hand in any condition”.

That is the trust and confidence a Father gives to his Child.


Recently I witnessed an Advertisement of Gillette Role Model camping, where a 9 year old boy named Rudra, fights with his friend Kush, as Kush was hitting a sixer on every ball Rudra bowled to him. Rudra started using abusive words and they both end up fighting.

When his father questions him, from where he had learned such abusive words, he innocently replied “On TV bowlers use such words for Batsmen”.  

His father then tells him to go and apologise to his friend and congratulate his friends for his success.  

The boy asks his father “Why to congratulate?”

The father asks back, “Who hit the Six?”

The boy replies, “Kush”.

Father asks again “So, should Kush not be congratulated?”

Rudra understands what his father was trying to teach him. He rushes to Kush and apologises and congratulates him. His father later approaches Rudra and tells him that he will teach Rudra new bowling technique, so that he can bowl Kush out in the first ball the next time.

Father is the first teacher any child witnesses from their childhood. 

These all are happy stories that we all remember. But there are hidden truths in Indian society and courts of LAW, where more than 95% fathers are denied the custody of a child although comparatively they are more capable of taking care of their child’s welfare. Their paternal emotions for their own children get smashed day after day in the courtrooms, but Judges continue to use fathers as FREE ATM machines.


With time more and more anti-men, anti-father laws like 498A, DV, CRPC125, adultery laws etc, family harmony is being destroyed and the couple are fighting in court across 6 to 8 cases against each other. Such fathers and husband are treated as guilty till proven innocent.

The verbal statements of a wife are considered as gospel truth, irrespective of the audio/video evidence husbands and fathers provide, irrespective of their heart wrenching distress that is evident to all present in the courtrooms. Everyone, but the judges can see that he is not at fault, and label him a criminal, a worthless, incapable father unless higher courts state otherwise.

On average it takes between 5 to 7 years to prove a man his innocence. Historically and statistically, in more than 90% cases courts eventually find Husbands and fathers not at fault. However by this time he has lost 5 to 7 years of his golden years that he would have lived and shared with his loved child. No court, no society, no sympathy, nobody, not even Almighty God can give back those precious years to a husband, a father. While a father lives in pain during these years, a child misses out on all the love, affection, care, guidance that the child would have received from his father.

The most unbearable pain such fathers get is the pain of being deprived to meet and share moments with their own child or children. Many a times, when such pain crosses a certain threshold, fathers see no choice but to end their lives to stop living with such unbearable pain. In SIF, we have witnessed numerous cases where men have ended their lives silently, but at the same time being apologetic to their children for not having suffered ongoing pain. On various video sharing websites like Youtube, one can find many videos like that of Syed Makhdoom who have left final messages for their children and the world.

As a SIF moderator, in last 10 years, I have seen more than 7000+ cases, where a husband has been treated just like a free ATM machine. To get a basic visiting right for his child, court keeps giving dates after date. After many years of a long painful fight against the rotten, corrupt system, when he does eventually get a legal right, the wife does not obey the court order and poisons the child’s mind against his own father, labelling him as the worst person in the world; as ifDawood Ibrahim would be a better person than his own father.  

Anish Aggarwal, a 38 years old bright Software engineer, has been paying Rs 6000 per month for the past 2 years as maintenance to his child; however he continues to wait to meet his child. He continues to endure this pain in hope. Hope that one day he will be able to meet his child, give him a hug and shower his blessings upon the child. His child and he continue to miss those precious moments that they both deserve and need as humans.

Mr. ShymalVikram, 39 years old, HR manager in a MNC, managed to see his child in the 8th year after paying Rs 8000 per month for 7 years. He was over the moon when he met his child. However who will return those precious 7 years of love and affection that he wanted to give and his child had right to receive? 


Mr. KunalMitra, had child visiting order in hand for 3 year, but failed to meet his child. When he reached in front of his wife’s home to meet his child, she filed more cases like Domestic violence to threaten him. Why has society given such ludicrous powers to wives that they continue to misuse and destroy a father and his love for his child?

Mr. Ashish Sarkar, 38 years old works in a media house. For the last 2 years he has been fighting in a court to find out if his child is a son or a daughter, let alone see the child. His wife on the other hand seeks maintenance for the child! Where is humanity heading, where is our Indian society moving towards with so much greed and selfishness?  

Mr. Ashish Sarkar, had a judgment, where the judge clearly mentioned in maintenance cases order, that it is totally unfair on part of wife to hide the child’s sex. Unfortunately due to rampant gender bias and blindness towards men and fathers, he cant do anything against such injustice even in a court. Why do we have a judicial system that is so diseased and disabled? 

Similar to such real life situations, such injustice to Indian fathers is rampant. India is heading speedily towards a fatherless society.  

In a recent letter, a Delhi based NGO Save Family Foundation questioned WCD (Women and child Ministry) on Father’s Day - Can a Child get Divorced?( Link )

They also cited statistics on how a Fatherless society is dangerous:

As we know fathers play a vital role in the development of a child. In United States of America, reported statistics inform us that Children from fatherless homes are:
1. 5 times more likely to commit suicide
2. 32 times more likely to run away from home.
3. 20 times more likely to have behavioural disorders
4. 9 times more likely to drop out of high school.
5. 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances (become drug addicts)


In India, if you were to go through the crime data on Children and Adolescents, you will notice that more than 70 percent are fatherless children while more than 90 percent of call girls under prostitution net, confirm that they don’t have a father.



But will our LAW makers, WCD and Court Judges ever understand this and should they continue to use fathers as Free ATM machine only? If only money were able to provide a good welfare fora child, then all children from rich homes would have good moral characters and would never have any criminal records.
A child needs a teacher, a trusting relationship, a guiding friend, a loving father and a figure who has a God-like nature for blessings. Only a father can provide these as a single entity on this planet. These cannot be bought by money and no other human can give these to a child the way a Father does.

Now a days we witness Supreme Court, LAW makers and radical feminist groups advocating mediation/counselling from women’s cells all across the country. However these women cells have become cells of legal extortion and blackmailing cells for desperate, distressed fathers.

In my opinion as an advocate for Family harmony and child benefit, I suggest that children should have access to both parents irrespective of whether couple are able to reunite or separate amicably. That should be a standard process if we are to keep the child’s welfare at the forefront. Clearly a child cannot express such common-sense desire in women’s cell or Police stations or the NGO heads who are too often blinded in the name of women empowerment.

Please don’t kill the emotion of a Father for his child, an emotion that cannot be created or duplicated by force, law or threats. Biased practices in the courtrooms and society also kill the emotions of a child that are created by nature. Such emotional bonds are needed for a normal development of a child physically, emotionally, morally, spiritually and socially.

Very sadly, many lawyers, judges and others with blinded vision feel proud when a wife gets complete child custody or receives a big fat amount of money in the name of child care. Commonly we hear “A child has been united by his mother”. Nobody says “A child has been separated from his Father”. Such children become and remain fatherless forever.



As responsible adults, we must encourage children to meet separated Father’s home every weekend and whenever there is an opportunity, instead of supervised visitations or meetings limited to family court premises or within a park etc.


We must seek Law makers and Politicians to Grant immediate and equal (child) access to both parents, to legislate laws and make co-parenting mandatory to prevent expanding a fatherless society.