Showing posts with label divorce advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label divorce advice. Show all posts

Wednesday, 31 July 2019

#TripleAttack on Muslim Men: 498A, CRPC125 & #TripleTalaq Now !




Many non-Muslim men in Twitter made fool that 498A, CRPC125, DVact does not apply on Muslim Men, those are in that dream world , we would request them one time visit to Indian Court and see by your own eyes! 

The provisions of the ban of #TripleTalaq Act passed by Indian Law makers, proves #Misandry at best, converting a Civil disputes to criminal offence. In the World no country have such provision, they regulate the Talaq via Civil law only and punishment after proved that you violated the law. But here as accused itself (not proved you are guilty), you have to go jail and get punishment, as its criminal law.

·         All declaration of instant triple talaq, including in written or electronic form, to be void (i.e. not enforceable in law) and illegal.
    • (Let you say 1000 times talaq, you do not get any relief).
·         Instant triple talaq remains cognisable offence with a maximum of three years imprisonment and a fine. The fine amount is decided by the magistrate.
·         The offence will be cognisable only if information relating to the offence is given by the wife or her blood relative.
    • (If there is no evidence of Triple Talaq or witness, then also she or her parents, brother, sister can very well say to police that you verbally given Triple Talaq and police is bound to register the FIR & can arrest without any warrant from court).
·         The offence is non-bailable. But there is a provision that the Magistrate may grant bail to the accused. The bail may be granted only after hearing the wife and if the Magistrate is satisfied with reasonable grounds for granting bail.
    • (After file case , if wife do not come to court , your bail at least one or two time will be rejected, as her advocate will make sure she does not come to court with some excuses and here judge is help less).
·         The wife is entitled to subsistence allowance. The amount is decided by the magistrate.
    • ( Irrespective she have 1ruppes or 1 billion rupees ).
·         The wife is entitled to seek custody of her minor children from the marriage. The manner of custody will be determined by the Magistrate.
    • ( Irrespective she is honest or criminal, having link to any anti-social element, child abuser, mental disease, druggist or adulterous)
·         The offence may be compounded (i.e. stop legal proceedings and settle the dispute) by the Magistrate upon the request of the woman (against whom talaq has been declared).
    • (Like ordering some Pizza or cup of tea, then she can cancel the same as per her wish or whims at any point of time).

Once again the same presumption made during formation this #Unfairlaw , A #WomenNeverLie , so her verbal word itself is sufficient to term a Man is criminal and send behind the Bar as accused . Our Law makers had not learnt any lesson from law like 498A, Dowry, DVact, CRPC125, Rape, Sexual harassment law.

#MiLord of Supreme Court of India already made #TripleTalaq as void. Means if any Husband let say 1000 times Talaq , he does not get any relief. But if his wife goes to police station and says her husband had given her #TripleTalaq and it became mandatory for Police to register FIR and arrest the Husband, as the same had been made Cognizable Offence.

So, another Legal toll of #LegalTerrosim provided to Muslim Women to do blackmail, extortion to their husband along with 498A, DVact , CRPC125 .

Two wrong can’t be a Right think. Such type of #UnfairLaw kill the Fairness in Justice System, it promotes dis-harmony with leads to increase in violence & crime in society, but who cares. We choose MP’s to Make law and they are successfully misusing/abusing the same in the name of Constitution article 15 (3) against men and our #MiLord refuse to act or put any break on that.

Already bad marriage for men is nightmare; suicide of Married Men is double than married Women, but law makers determined to make their life more miserable by adding multiple law and burden on them.



So, some precaution for Muslim Men in this world of technology and redefine their role for Society must:


  • 1     Mobile: Immediately put a password based screen Lock System. If your wife uses your phone and just sends some SMS or whatsapp message of #TripleTalaq to her phone, it became evidence and your 3-years convection is almost 100% grantee.
  • 2.       Email, Social Profile: Ensure double password Lock System, so that hacking became difficult.
  • 3.       Property & Assets: Review all your Property, assets, Bank saving, the more you have in your name, you are at more risk. Find some trust for Men well fare or create one and Gift them immediately.
  • 4.       Book Old age Home: Find some good Old age Home and immediately Book an accommodation there or if you are capable start making one as trust, shelter home for Men, as there is no grantee you will be able to be allowed to stay at your own home, if your wife does not want, irrespective the same home in your name or in her name.
  • 5.       Document your suffering: Till date you may have ignored many of your suffering due to your wife abusive, violent, cheating, adultery actions with hope that she will change. But now, please start documented the same, you do not know when it will be required.
  • 6.       Review your relationship: Like every year we file ITR at the end of financial year with the help of CA, its time of review your relationship status with some MRA community and start taking corrective, preventive action to reduce your losses and suffering.
  • 7.       Misandry Free : You can see when it comes to washing any man in Parliament or in office or in Road in spite of ideological difference Jay/Hema/May along with Ravi/Navi all get together to make life miserable of Men. As a man you too enjoy when you see some Men is suffering as entertainment, come out from Misandry or you can be next.
  • 8.       #FightWith Smile: You born in this country and unfortunately get married with Indian women. So you have no choice, but to accept all the injustice, as that’s law of land. But as accused, no one can snatch your right to stick with Truth. Truth can’t be sacrificed for any think and any think can be sacrificed for truth. Fight and if required learn to take the Bullet in Chest than in Back , never ever surrender run away from war field and show the back .

  • Question Of Law for SC : This #TripleTalaq law is a criminal Law or Civil Law ? Its linked with Maintenance & child custody also. If Criminal Law an accused can be arrest then final order can be punishment of Jail & Fine if found guilty. But if Civil Law the punishment of Jail & Fine should be if person violate the court order. 


#WhyForceMen to stay with abusive, violent, cheater, adulterous women and still pay her for rest of the life in name maint ? Can anyone #ForceWomen to do the same?


#Misandry at best exhibited in Indian #Parliament.

#NaturalJustice and common sense says : Men or Women, if he/she feel unhappy with any relationship, institution or organizations, must have right to exit without putting Burden on others.
In India in case of women walk out from relationship not only well appreciated considered as Liberal women, but for Men? Every man's nightmare is bad marriage and endless #LegalTerrorism on them continues…. to force them stick in their abusive relationship !

Every Men in India are under high risk of #Fakecases at Home, Office, Road due to multiple anti-Men #Unfairlaw - which became Blackmailing/Extortion Tool. To survive or #FightBack knowledge is Key. Law is not any rocket Science. Buy & start Read Law Books Now!




Wednesday, 17 July 2019

#AskMWT #AskSFF - A #Hope4Men Legal Awareness Seminar at Delhi

#Hope4Men Legal Awareness Seminar ; #AskMWT #AskSFF



#Hope4Men is a series of legal awareness seminars organised by Men Welfare Trust in Delhi- NCR and even in other cities to help the victims of the misuse of gender-based laws to understand their basic rights as a citizen and also as accused in-case of a false- case coming on to their way. Starting with the frequently asked questions, the Volunteers carefully listen to the queries of the attendees and advise them on the way to go.

In continuation with providing legal awareness to people, Men Welfare Trust & Save Family Foundation under the aegis of Save Indian Family Movement organizing Legal Awareness Seminar on fighting with gender biased laws on Saturday 3 Aug 2019. This will be a full day FREE Seminar where everyone is invited however the seats will be provided as first come first serve basis.

Venue :The Indian Society Of International LawBhagwan Das Road V.K. Krishna Menon Bhawan, New Delhi
Starting at 9:00 AM till 5:00 PMDate: 3-Aug-2019, Saturday

#AskMWT & we will take top 25 max asked in Seminar. Ask about Misandry, 498A, 376, 354, DV, Divorce, Maintenance, Custody, POSH, #MenToo.



Fear of arrest, fear of losing Job, fear of losing social reputation, fear of to be termed criminal for a crime which they had never do became a nightmare for every day. Their all knowledge, training program go in vain to find any logical solution. Because this is called Legal Terrorism and there is no logic, how to find the solution. The fast you try to resolve the puzzle, you end up in more big trouble.


#SpeakUpMan to #StopAbuseMen , as Men are Human Too. 













Wednesday, 24 July 2013

Effect of Divorce on Indian Men !



The effects of divorce differ by situation and personal circumstance and may be different for men and women.

Most dangerous stage for men is, waiting for divorce (maximum crime of spouse murder/suicide occurred) than after divorce. as marriage disputes in India, irrespective the man is right or wrong ,they had been abused, blackmailed, treated as Free ATM machine in front of society/police/court every where. In India marriage disputes had been termed as crime for men, not for women. Recently one Great Anchor of NDTV argued as 60% Divorce filed by women means women are harrased, but same anchor do not forget to term any Men as Wife beater/dowry seeker when 40% Men file for Divorce.

Awaiting for divorce and the suicide statistics of crime bure report reflects the same.


• Crime Bure data 2012 : Married Men Sucide : 63343 vs Married Women Sucide 32000.Still there is no LAW to Protect Men why?


After divorce the men’s life became more comfortable or worse, it depends purely on how troublesome was his marriage, what type of Divorce litigation he faced.

Perception shift:


Till 1990 or up to 2000, the basic perceptions were, a divorced woman is means she is a liberated women and a divorced men means he is a wife beater/abuser, thanks to special law 498A in 1983.

But 2000 onwards the same got changed and the society slowly accepted that A divorced men also can be victims of Domestic violence in terms of financial abuse, mental abuse, sexual abuse , physical abuse and the same reflects in the Suicide statistics of Men vs Women. As the divorce rate will increase more and more the same perception change will increase more, some one like it or hate it that is the fact of irony.

Going through a divorce is never easy for anybody; however, there are certain effects of a failed marriage that occurs more often with men, than with women. When a marriage is about to be dissolved, emotions often runs high, and a lot of important financial decisions have to be made.

This is almost always a recipe for disaster. As a general rule: Never mix emotions and finances, or emotions and legal matters.

Effect of Divorce on Indian Men:

1. Financial effect: Huge loss irrespective the men is right or wrong.
2. Government support: Due to no men welfare ministry and no shelter homes, no one cares for men.
3. Emotional effect: Depend on type of trouble he faced, type of marriage they have, time spend together, child involved or not and the last think the type of divorce man got.
4. Loss of child access: Major problem and maximum divorced men suicide related to that.
5. Social effect: It is not exactly loss, his the social and networking circle got changed, attract towards more unclear family instead of joint family.


Personnel life:

1. Try to Enjoy their work place much better than previous.
2. Spend more money for their self use/fun/enjoy/travel/satisfactions of life.
3. Get less angry for small issue.
4. Became less expected in life.


With the present set up , when the country like USA , who had more than 50% divorce, their child taken the initiative for marriage more workable and the divorce rate is reducing, the country like India and Asian country divorce is increasing and that is the hard reality, as we always think the rivers other side is better than our side.

Situation in USA:

Fifty percent of all children are children of divorce. Twenty-eight percent of all children are born of never married parents. Divorce is expensive. Aid for Dependent Children (AFDC) resources are drained by the needs of divorced and single parent families; including the cost of collecting child support.

For men:

1. Men are usually confronted with greater emotional adjustment problems than women. The reasons for this are related to the loss of intimacy, the loss of social connection, reduced finances, and the common interruption of the parental role.
2. Men get remarry Proposal more quickly than women but prefer to refuse more often.
3. As compared to “deadbeat dads,” men who have shared parenting (joint legal custody), ample time with their children, and an understanding of and direct responsibility for activities and expenses of children stay involved in their children’s lives and are in greater compliance with child support obligations. There is also a greater satisfaction with child support amount when negotiated in mediation. Budgets are prepared, and responsibility divided in a way that parents understand.
4. Men are initially more negative about divorce than women and devote more energy in attempting to salvage the marriage.

With the learning from USA social impact, our aim and action as a commando of SIF movement should be to avoid the nasty divorce and promote more shared parenting, as though the society had more or less accepted the divorced men and women in open heart, but still there is some discrimination towards the divorced child.

If divorce is unavoidable, try to make the legal and financial matters strictly apart from the emotional matters, even if it tears you up inside, the alternative is a prolonged, expensive battle, that in many cases will make long lasting emotional scars on both sides, and prevent chances of a future reconciliation.

Statistically up to 15% of all divorcees end up reconciling with their former spouses, this figure could be higher if the divorce was handled in a friendly or even in a business-like manner.

Most important think is need to make the Divorce related law, less personal money earning business and less attractive and gender neutral policy/law, or be ready to increase the divorce rate and it is good or bad only future child will give the answers.

“Divorce is not the solution to a troubled marriage; but Indian men have very less choice, as there is no men well fare ministry who can think about them.

Thanks to India’s more than half dozens anti-male law and multiple litigation like 498A, DV act,CRPC125,Section24, Section18, biased adultery LAW and lot more are on the way very soon in the form of IRBM where a men may even loose 50 to 80% of his saving for " No FAULT" !!! ”

This is called the present Justice system in India and equal right in India, made by India Government.

Every Men in India are under high risk of #Fakecases at Home, Office, Road due to multiple anti-Men #Unfairlaw - which became Blackmailing/Extortion Tool. To survive or #FightBack knowledge is Key. Law is not any rocket Science. Buy & start Read Law Books Now!




For a wife even adultery also is not a crime (it is a rewarding option and free money earning business for the whole life), but for a man even an allegation of “Name-calling” is crime and not only the man, his mother/sister/age-old father also can be put behind the bar under 498A or DV act.
 So for men filling Divorce in India means moving From Frying Pan to Fire