Friday, 1 May 2015

First make #RefusalofSex a Criminal offence then talk about Marital rape

Lie , lie and Lie , that’s how radical Feminist group and media fool the Indian by Playing the Victim-hood Card smartly.

They say in India Husband have right to have forced or violent sex with wife and there is no relief to wives. This is a Blind lie. The truth is in India a Women or wife when rape a Men or Husband the same not termed as crime in Indian LAW.

Would request all read the law Like Dv Act ( Domestic Violence act) , where it had clearly mentioned in case of any sexual assault or Violence even a Name calling is offence . The women can get relief under DV act as protection order, compensations, and residence right. If the Men violate the protection order, he will be jailed immediately.

In addition to that, if women face sexual violence, she can seek relief under CRPC125; she can seek Divorce and alimony.
In addition under 498A also the men is Punished for doing such act.

So, there are 4 special laws exclusive for Women as a relief in case they face any sexual violence or assaults in marriage.

On the other hand , When a woman rapes (sex without mutual consent) our Indian society and law colors the act with terms like loving or affectionate. Sadly some women consider such acts as their birth right over men. If a man tries to fight back or resist or even dreams of speaking the truth, he himself is labeled as rapist instead of being considered a Victim of rape.

So the bottom line is in India , a Women have right to rape not only her Husband to any Men and the same is not crime as per LAW.

Another lie spared in NDTV show by a Feminist that Law commission had recommended to make #MaritalRape is a criminal offense.

But she had not mentioned that:
"The Law Commission in one of its Report dated March, 2000 had recommended that laws relating to rape (Sec 375 IPC) be made gender neutral.

But the recommendation was not accepted.  Why?
Will our Lawmaker ever take the moral responsibility and courage to replace the words “Men/women” by the word “Person” and replace words “husband/wife” by the word “Spouse”?

The Question asked why the #MaritalRape should not be termed as other Rape cases and the answer is:

1.     Where the women are not married with Men she had not given any consent to have sex as Legal Obligations.
2.     Other Women can’t seek relief under special 4 LAW which is available for a Wife.
3.     Other Women can’t restrict the man to have sex or re-marry to other women as per Constitutional Right 21 give Live and Liberty. 
4.     The present Rape Law are not gender Neutral, so every Possibility the Victim is not the women, the Victim is men.
5.     In married relation there are Consensual sex also , so you can’t determine the sex was consensual sex or forced sex by DNA or other forensic test.
6.     Most important the evidence act of present Rape law does not seek any medical exemption as prim face evidence. So , every Consual sex also can be termed as rape. 

7. Most important its not only in marriage relationship , any relationship you are in the form of marriage or love or live-in , terming your partner rapist is not only wrong, it is cheating and fraud.

Marriage LAW we have section 9 RCR - restitution of conjugal rights it is your obligations to have sex with your partner and it is the Legal right provided by Law in return it restrict your choice to have sex outside women. Even Supreme court of India mentioned in several Judgments #RefusalofSex without any medical reason is wrong and spouse have right to seek divorce.

As per our survey more than 98% cases Husband had been refused to have sex with their wife without any medical or Justified reason months after months , but feminist say , men have relief under such situation to seek for Divorce. 

Ohhh what logic, a wrong done by wife the solution is Divorce, then why same type relief a wife can’t seek like Divorce than crying foul I had been raped?
Also those feminist had not told you as soon as a Husband will seek Divorce on ground wife refuse to have sex, immediately he along with all his other family members will be termed as criminal under 498A, Dv act. Multiple litigation for maintenance will be filed as interim maintenance under CRP125, Section24 and section25.

So, a wrong done by wife but it is Husband have to pay the price and run from Pillar to Post to get Divorce ? 

So, if you really want to reduce the forced sex or violent sex the first step should be term #RefusalofSex as a Criminal offence, as during marriage it is your legal obligation and consent to have sex and you violate it. Then only there will be Domestic harmony.

No, No, now Feminist will come out with logic it is my body my Choice, I had get married to you does not mean you have right to use my body as Commodity.
100% agree with you all male hatred, but you will you buy the same logic if given by Men? If he refused to have sex with wife, will not you term him Impotent, he had done fraud, Cheating, have relationship to other women and drag him in multiple criminal cases?

Most important , if you buy any costly Diamond set or Beauty Parlor Cost by his hard earned money , why She also should not be send behind the bar under as crime under extortion or Robbery?


  • So, next time before fall under feminist lie, must understand:


1.     In India if a Women face #MaritalRape she can seek relief under DV Act/CRPC125/Divorce/Section24/Section25/498A. But if she raped her Husband her Husband can’t seek any relief or Protection from her.

2. Refuse to have sex by Husband to wife without any justified reason is a offense in India as per Domestic Violence act , but the same not considered as any offense when does by wife.

3.     In India men does not have right to rape wife , if he does have to pay heavy price, but Women have all right to rape any men or her own Husband the same not crime.

3.     During marriage You have given consent to have sex with your spouse and it is your Legal Obligations as in returned you had ended his/her Choice of to have sex with other men/women outside wedlock.

5.     Terming forced Sex or violent sex as per with stranger Sex is nothing but unfair and cheating. 

6. If you are in any relationship in the name of marriage or live-in or love affairs, you can't term your partner a Rapist, first end it than cry foul rape , rape. 

7.     If you believe it is my body my Choice, then stays away from marriage and do not give false promise and obligation of marriage law. No one had put a Gun on your head to get married.

8.     If you use his money without her consent, be ready to go to Jail under extortion and Robbery cases also.

9.     A Husband can't be file rape case against Wife, let she rape you every day and then cut your body in 11 or 17 pieces.

10. A wrong done by wives refuse to have sex without any justified reason and blackmailing Husbands , radical feminist groups termed as marital rape to hide their own wrong doing.



  • So, what is Solution?


Read the other LAW of other Country as Whole before compare a appeal to orange,

1.     Rape or Sexual assaults LAW should be Gender Neutral first. There should not be any excuses to support #RapistWomen of India.

2.     The Present relief given under Domestic Violence Law as protection first to be utilized and then see how many cases found true . Let first get the data from Court than depend on per-determined one sided biased study by funded organizations.

3.     To maintain Domestic Harmony the DV act to be made Gender Neutral like other country have.

4.     Abolish special law like 498A, 304B as no other country of the world have such decoration law.


The most important before believe unfair demand of #MaritalRape first make #RefusalofSex as criminal offense than only  giving a Lollypop solution to Men of Divorce , which never come without paying heavy price.


Related News : 

Making marital rape an offence will lead to false complaints - Deccan Herald

'Making marital rape an offence will lead to false complaints ... Business Standard



Anonymous said...

498A cases give us a clew to what could be a possible solution to issues between men and women. Most 498A cases are settled for money in the end.

Its possible to have economic solutions to all DV and other issues between men and women. At the time of divorce there should be equal division of marital assets and then adjustments and payments made on top to compensate the victim spouse by the other spouse. This should include rejection, cheating, deception, betrayal, domestic violence, marital rape, and any other such issues. This would be completely gender neutral. And would address a wide range of issues between men and women.

ab said...

marriage is a consent GIVEN by a woman to man with life long validity. Erection is not volitional-- no man can have erection at his will. So a wife must be duty bound to have sex with husband when he is having erection. What will happen when the wife wants to give consent but husband because many factors like fatigue, stress etc can not have erection.
Further any wife having sex with any man other than the husband without his knowledge and consent should be termed as 'rape of the husband"
A man toils day and night to earn money. Any demand of money by wife should also be made punishable as it is man's physical, financial, mental emotional and social abuse.
A wife should be entitled for maintenance only if she is giving any positive contribution to the husband's earning. Because it is man's parents and he himself who have worked hard to make him capable of earning. No body gives a salary to any man for sitting idle after being employed once. Then why a wife is entitled for any maintenance without contributing even an iota to husband?