Thursday, 25 October 2012

10 Step Planning by a 498A/DV Women!


10 Step Planning by a 498A/ DV Women!

Last week I meet one of my friend Samir , a smart , hard working guy , working in a reputed company and one year back I saw them in a TV show ( represented by Samir and his wife Sarikha ) , and they seems a made for each other . In show Shiraka told the whole nation that She is very proud to have a Husband like Samir . They know each other for more than 4 years before marriage and they able to convince both of their parents , that they are made for each other .

But last week when I saw him , sorry unable to belive they end up with a legal battle , and under the so called 498A ( anti dowry LAW ) had been fired to him , his mother , sister and AL other 7- relative , except their pet Dog name every one in FIR list. Along with that CRPC125, DV act, Section-24 also as a incentive.

I just asked how all this happened ??


1. During Honeymoon :- Sarikaha Says :-

"" Darling , I always wanted to stay in a Hotel , where all the waiters and manager would take my orders and i would not have to do anything except eat and sleep. Cannot we stay in hotel all our life ?? You can go out and work and I Spend all your money ""

2.In Telephone :- ( Cool and normal talk by Sarikha )

" You know , why I am not speaking to you . I told you I will never speak you again as you did not bother to call my sister yesterday as I told you . Now you expect me to talk to you . Go to hell ."

3.In Night when Samir ask for a child :-

" I have got married the biggest fool on this planet. You do not know how to keep me happy . You do not earn enough to keep a mid. I cannot do the household work and you have the guts to think of planning a family . I have committed the biggest blunder by marrying you . I had thought that you would be earning enough to keep me happy , but i did not know that you are a Bhikhari. Your bloody parents never made you understand that before marrying you should have thought of how are you going to satisfy all the demands of your wife and that you should kept one cook and one maid servant after your marriage because it is not possible for me to cook food and wash utensils .""

4. Sarikha go back to her parents house and Samir call for come back :-
"" Now I will meet you at court ""

5.Next step by Sarikah:-
"" If you will not leave Delhi and do as I tell you , then I have other means of making you follow me wherever I go . I will not take no for an answer. Don’t dare to tell me that you will not leave Delhi. I want you decide with in a week or else I will make sure that you regret your decision for the rest of your life .""

6. More pressure :-
"" You do not have money in your pocket to buy a flat. Now my parents are ready to live with you in Delhi , but are saying that you cannot buy a flat in my name in Delhi and you do not want to shift either in Kolkata or Bangalore . You are a self made man . Do as I tell you . I am telling you I have to look after my parents . We sister have to be near them. They are getting old . I will only allow you to stay in Delhi , if you buy a three bed room flat in my name or else you will have to shift to Bangalore or Kolkata . The choice is yours .""

7.Secend step by Sarikha :-

"" See you either accept my terms or you will have to pay trial. I will make sure that you go to jail and loose your job just the way i made you loose the previous job . I will never allow you live peacefully . I do not want to stay in Delhi .I have to be near my parents in Kolkata or In Bangalore with my sister .""

8.Samir call to your in laws to convince but shok to get the reply as under :-

"" You do not have standard to be the husband of our daughter . Do whatever she says , otherwise you don’t know one of my brother is advocate , he will make your life miserable , you don’t know the Indian LAW , your whole family be behind the bar , as soon as we decide .""

9.Now final step , call to Samir office land line :-

"' Shut up , you dam fool , why don’t you understand . I am asking you whether you have taken any decision , as i cannot wait till eternity. You have to take the decision with in 4 days or else mark my words , i will ruin your life ""


10 . Final Action by Sarikha :-

"" All right you will not understand like this . I think I will have to now teach you a lesson . You wait and see what i will do . I will lodge a police complaint against you and your family members and make all of you repent for the rest of your life . Be prepared , I will finish you off. The office in which you are standing would be compelled to through you out. You just wait and watch. Don’t forget , one of my mama is an Advocate and my another mama is MMBS Doctor in Peerless Hospital "".

Then next week , Samir got the notice from Women cell that a complain of 498A ( dowry harassment , mental cruelity ) had been loaded .

Now reconciliation process are going on !!!!

Samir in big question , what he should do ??

Police says , either you accept the terms of Sarikha demands or be prepare for going to jail along with your all parents . One more option is there , arrange 25 lacks rupees and go for a mutual Divorce .

Slowly , I request to Samir , better accept what Sarikha asked , after all money is not the all the thing , you will earn more than 25 lacks with in few years .

Samir shout back: " She gone to police and file the false complain under dowry harassment, her parents want to put me behind the bar, I will fight and if required will go to jail, but not going to suffer for the whole life."

"Whatever money I have will prefer to through in Garbage , but not a single penny to her under Blackmailing and extortion , let her fight at court and get whatever she can ."

End of a happy , lovely married life , with in 2 years !!

New Born of another SIF Commando , who refused to surrender in front of Legal Terrorist, instead prefer to take the bullet on Chest.

Great power given in 498A ,Legal Terrorist will not stop here , further Domestic Violence Act, CRPC125, Section 24 in all the LAW based on assumption all the wives born in Raja Harish Chandra Family ( never lie) and all men born in Criminal Family.

Our great LAW maker forget that " To build a relationship we put a lot of pain , sacrifice , but to break a relationship required only two seconds !!!!! "
Supreme Court of India term the same as "Legal Terrorism" but our Government is sleeping since 1983 as NCW, WCD,CSR,AIWDA , Lawyers Collective and thier associates, keep on justifying all law get misused , so let such LAW also get missued, let two month old baby apply for bail, let 92 years old women go to jail, but such "Legal Terrorism " should not be stopped at all. 
They forget to relies history witness any terrorist activity can't give freedom, it only kills the innocent people.

As a , result more and more normal disputes converted to Criminal cases to show crime against women is increasing and make further new and new law. Our Constitution says , a person even in murder case can't be punished twice, but in India in case of marriage disputes a Husband is punished not once 5 to 6 times in different cases , let he is right or wrong.

Does the same not violation of Natural Justice and Indian constitution? 


For a same allegation( true or false) 5 to 6 cases field , like some one ordering a PIZZA in court and our Supreme court also unable to take any proactive action to punish such people who abuse the process of Law for their own benefit.




Join SIF Team to Stop this legal terrorism of India and demand to replace the word Husband/wife to Spouse to all marriage related LAW or policy like all over world follow instead of making assumption that all wives born in Raja Harish Chandra family ( never lie) and all husbands born in Criminal family.

(Crime Is Crime. Punishment should be irrespective of gender, religion and caste. Let us be honest and fight for truth)










76 comments:

Chetan S said...

Excellent brother! This story of how to become a commando should be placed in each forum. Its so simple that everybody can understand it. I have seen people get panicked and try to encourage legal extortion but when it fails he should become a real tiger to roar in false cases.

S.K. said...

There should not be any objection to the proposed latest methodology of the wives intention to stay in their parental home alongwith husband provided and provided all the Acts like DV, 498a, HMA etc should get replace the word wife with husband. Only and only the husband will have the right to file 498a, domestic violence. A complaint by the husband just on a plain paper. No body will be allowed to touch upon the salary of husband and it would be his desire to spend on whomsoever he may desire. He will have right to the property of his in-laws. So modify all the Acts by reversing the gender. Let it be on a trial basis for 5 years. Phir dekho enko kaisey naani yaad aati hai..

Masculist Mra said...

Good Article. We need more fighters and those willing to fight instead of giving in to the pressure of legal extortion. More Power to you - http://www.lifenstory.com/frmViewStory.aspx?C1=181

Manoj Relhan said...

Darna nahi. Peeth nahi dekhani, seene par khani hai.

Swarup Sarkar said...

Yes my dear, the more you fear , they will do more harassment.

PALL JAGADISH said...

hi i am jagadish naidu. my wife wanted my property .so she given i case on me 498a and my family .
1.she wanted to kill me she tread all so with hear family her father is a police/
2.i have given a police case all so but police is not help me.i have given fist to the police that the are kill me .
3.police is taken her case fist and 498a .

498a is a fails to me .what to do?

Swarup Sarkar said...

If police had not registered your Compliant the next option to move to court immediately and file criminal case petition under 156(3) under read 200 with mentioned the IPC as per your compliant . Join the SIF group and be a commando to stop this legal terrorism. Fight for the cause first , you will win your own battle also, meet more people like u suffering in your area.

Satish Patel said...

very well explained...even a dummy would understand...thank you...keep up the good work...

bhartiya ayurveda said...

thanks sawrup ..........for a new commando

Blogger said...

Hey Swaroop great blog.

In my case I recorded her threats and now awaiting for trial. I hope court would listen to that. In all of that after the 2 months of filing complaint I lost my father. I am not going to spare that bastard.

ajay pukale said...

hi
i am also person who suffer from 498a ips section so want some help from the group u can help me mail or by calling me my mail id is ajay7175@gmail.com & my cell no is 09823065204 i am from solapur (maharastra} waiting for u r support

Anonymous said...

hello sir im from punjab my brother & my family suffer from 406/498a .plz help me plz reply me on navi_saini@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Hi....I am also anticipating a threat from my in-laws under 498A for doing nothing. I need to safeguard myself before anything happens. Please write your suggestions at jaideep_roy1@rediffmail.com. Need your help....its urgent !!

Anonymous said...

hi
i am also person who suffer from 498a ips section so want some help from the group u can help me mail or by calling me my mail id is navinnishchay@gmail.com & my cell no is 09618352352 i am from mumbai (maharastra} waiting for u r support

Rohit Girdhar said...

Swarup da, what I feel is mostly meb surrender cuz of a fear or fobia of going to jail. If every man overcomes this fear and choose to fight, rather surrendering, this law misuse can b bought down.

Monawwar hussain said...

Hi....I am also anticipating a threat from my in-laws under 498A for doing nothing. I need to safeguard myself before anything happens. Please write your suggestions at mhkhussain005@gmail.com Need your help....its urgent !!

Anonymous said...

We need help of your group please revert me on ritu_rupesh@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Dear Sir, I & my whole family too are victims of this harsh law and are suffering. I too want to join your group, could you please write me at sinha.kishore2010@googlemail.com. Your urgent help would be really appreciated.

Anonymous said...

A SUCCESS STORY OVER FALSE, FABRICATED, BIASED, BLIND, PREPLANNED 498A AND 125 BY A SCHEMER MOTHER OF A BRIDE


Dear Sir,
I was married by 4th February, 2009 with such a lady who belongs to a business minded family. This family studied very well the misuse of 498A and consequence as Sec.125 to ransack money from bridegroom family. The mother of the lady is the main schemer and on her instruction the lady started so many restlessness activities from the very beginning of our marriage. For the entire year of 2009 I bear up with these devils.
On 29th December, 2009 on the instruction of their family lawyer she create a drama on PHENYL Swallowing-I admitted her in the Sub Divisional hospital and report her father. Her father who is a total henpecked came and bring his daughter back at their own paternal home on 31st December, 2009. Since then we are separated.
They with the aid of lame judicial system suit false and fabricated 498A, 307 and 120B against us on April 2010- after 4 months depart from our home. Sec. 125 runs at her own ground Farakka (Malda Jurisdiction,West Bengal) and 498A and others at Durgapur(Burdwan Jurisdiction,West Bengal).The distance between this two places is 370km.
I didn’t keep a single contact with her since our separation.
On 6th November, 2012- when the lady realised she had done a great mistake and there is no chance of recovery to settle her peaceful conjugal life again- she commit suicide at her own paternal home at Farakka. As result Sec 125 automatically disposed of by December 2012.

But 498A with 120B and 307 is still running at our Durgapur court. Our lawyer is not a steady person and don’t have adequate guts to suit counter cases against the cruel family of the bride.

I like to know from your kind perusal of my stated case that:

(1) Are 498A and other sections having valid merit to run further? (i.e. After the death of petitioner and the witnesses never came). Judge put date by date even after observe that no witness come on behalf of bride side?? Should we mentally harassed like this way by the court? Total 15 dates are over but no witness come on bride side.

(2) Do we suit any case against the parents of the bride especially for whom sake our conjugal life pathetically smashed?

(3) Is there any law or provisions in our Indian penal code to convict bride’s parents who most of the time destroying the peace of bridegroom family? PLEASE SUGGEST.


DEEP PAL
West Bengal
pal_deep21@rediffmail.com

Anonymous said...

Very well said Dear fighter

Deep Pal
Durgapur

Anonymous said...

My son got married in Feb 19th 2011,from Mumbai,son was working in Private company in Assam,since then only her mother shouting to buy a flat in Delhi & to come out of Assam,as it has been keen interest of her Daughter,my son tried also in the mean time in Feb2012 my wife expired with all those worries & stress.Failing to get flat arranged for her,her parents purchased a flat in Delhi (after her father retires) & now she has gone to her parents at Delhi for last three months and residing with hem ,changed her mobile number,her father does responding any call I M afraid what are they going to do.I have yet not move to police or any where,pl suggest what to do.vsrma_dib@yahoo.co.in

Malay Sinha MA, MSc in Yoga said...

I married 498a wife in 2003, March 7, but after one month she left my house and filled false dowry , DV etc case against me that also on Oct. 28, 2010
Trial is going on...

She is working in Bagalore since 2005....onwards... enjoying her life ... move freely ... sleep with multiple partners ....

Send some advice : contactmalaysinha@gmail.com

Swarup Sarkar said...

First of all you must know that adultery for Wife is not a crime. Now what she do is not in your control , think/make action plan what u can do and in your hand.
Join SIF Yahoo group and make network with people more than 6000 people are in group like you fighting against such injustice.
http://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/saveindianfamily/info

allauddin Lnyallu said...

I am a muslim my wife want to put me in to this case for muslim it is possible.

allauddin Lnyallu said...

I am a muslim nri I am in abrode my wife she is in india. If she can put a case 498a, police will harres me in abrode and my wife can make a problem to my family (india) also. Please let me know what protection I need to take.

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Badarinatha Bc said...

Hi sir my name is Badri i am also suffering from 498a false case registered by my wife , she registered case on my parents, my brother and me. we got bail, she applied for maintenance also now i lost job also what shell i do next, please i need help from u.
My email ID is Badarinathabc@gmail.com.

sharesolution said...

hi sir mera name kanhiya hai or mari shadi ko 4 year ho gaya hai mera i baby hai jo 15-4-2010 ko huwa tha un ka ghar per lakin tab say wo mara pass nahi hai or jab ma usay bulany jata hu to nahi ati or many panchyat ma usay 6-8-2013 ko talak da dieya ab wo mu per case kar diya hai 498a 307 or 2 case bhi hai or sab famliy ka name bhi us case ma dal diya hai mari wife na ab police bhi muja parshan kar rahi hai or date per bhi jana pad raha hai
plz help me my no 8802835121

sharesolution said...

hi sir mera name kanhiya hai or mari shadi ko 4 year ho gaya hai mera i baby hai jo 15-4-2010 ko huwa tha un ka ghar per lakin tab say wo mara pass nahi hai or jab ma usay bulany jata hu to nahi ati or many panchyat ma usay 6-8-2013 ko talak da dieya ab wo mu per case kar diya hai 498a 307 or 2 case bhi hai or sab famliy ka name bhi us case ma dal diya hai mari wife na ab police bhi muja parshan kar rahi hai or date per bhi jana pad raha hai
plz help me my no 8802835121

Anonymous said...

mujhe bhi aap logo ki jarurat hai please meri madad karo .
mujhe kuch samajh nahi aa raha ke me kiya karu.,hemant.only4u@yahoo.com
9268048431

Anonymous said...

Isnt it strange that Indian GOVT, speaks and offers a hand of friendship, but by imposing such cruel laws, gives power to women to end relationship and make her husband suffer, loosing job, dignity and most important thing confidence level that goes so down, that he will never be able to overcome from it, he feels defeated and lost, even after being innocent, he needs fold his hands and bow his head down in the court. even when the wife enjoys when the husband is suffering in jail.

Sohail Shaikh said...

want help, as we are also a victim of 498(a) in Pune Maharashtra please contact at my email asamadandsons197@gmail.com, staying at Camp, Pune, M.G. Road

love by chance said...

Hi I need urgent help. My brother has been booked with false charges of 498a. How can i connect with you can i have your phone number...need urgent help

Samar said...

Hi all....I got married in Feb-2013. My wife filed a false complaint in police station and also in woman cell in May-2013. They both called me and I visited both the places, but no effect. She has claimed that I am trying to kill her so police asked me to stay away from her, so we are staying separate for the last 7 months. When I visited police station and woman cell in May-2013, my wife threatened me saying she is going to file 498a, DV case against me and my parents.
What I came to know till now is she had tried doing this but case is not yet registered. Now she wants me to compromise with her.
Following are my questions:
1. What is the exact procedure for filing 498a?
2. Is there a way by which I can safeguard myself and my family from her (incase she come back and stays with us), as I am fearing she might be having some long term plan to make us suffer under multiple cases in future?
3. Can I stop her from getting back her in home by any chance?
4. Can I use her written statement which says she wants mutual divorce in woman cell as a evidence to suggest that it is she who does not want our marriage to save in court if in case 498a case stands?
5. What are the chances I will get divorce on the basis of above point?
My email id is: needy498a@gmail.com
Need your help....its urgent !!

Anonymous said...

Hello Swarup,

I am elder, unmarried sister of my brother. I, my brother and our parents are facing this same trauma since the day my brother got married in March 2013. My brother got married on 13th March 2013. Our parents are very old and mother is paralysed as well. His wife hardly lived with our family for only a month. In January 2014, their marriage would be 9 months old.

We could not realize that this is a conspiracy against our family. By the time, we realized, we were trapped. We had been giving this relationship chances so that this girl does not have to suffer after divorce as she is not that much educated. During this period of 9 months, as I said that she lived with our family, in total, only for 1 month. She used to go to her parental home in every 10-15 days. Every time, she went to her parental home, her parents turn all this into a complaint. Out of the many complaints, one of the them is that she called my brother impotent. This was shared with us within 10 days of marriage. We supported her, got my brother checked up, and got the reports. Shared these reports with her family, once they felt satisfied, with the reports, we asked them to send their daughter back to our home. She came back. Again, when she went to her parental home, she raised an issue that my brother is not competent enough to satisfy her physical needs. Her father came to talk to my brother on this. Considering that it is something that the couple must discuss among themselves only, I, being an elder sister to my brother, called her up for meeting with my brother. She met, discussed, and after being satisfied with conversation with my brother, she came back. Next time, when she went to her home, she had a quarrel with my mother. After all this, we had a meeting with their family and we settled that my brother and his wife should be sent to a rented room. She went their along with my brother on August 15 and with the first day, she started saying to my brother that she had come their only for 2 months. On Oct 16, she created a drama as if she would slit her wrist. When my brother called up her mother and stated the incident, his mother in law stated that "teri biwi hai, tu sambhal". On October 17, her mother and brother came to the rented room and took away their daughter with them. The daughter is living with them since then and we did not have any communication with them. In between, we had a small meeting to have this settled out of court, wherein, they demanded 22 lakhs. Now, that we have denied this demand, they have lodged a complaint at CWA stating that we misbehaved with their daughter. My brother used to beat her up. My father and my mother used to beat her up. We were doing all this for dowry. All these complaints against all of our family members are completely fake.

Being a girl, myself, all these incidents have made me more vigilant about my rights; however, our thought is to save a relationship rather than raising false litigations/complaints against someone. We do not know how we are going to deal with all these situations, in the coming time as we are not so well off. With aged and ill parents, the fear of losing them due to all these troubles, is adding to our mental tension. My younger brother is going through an altogether pressurizing mental trauma.

Please let us know if there is any way out we can come out of these false complaints.

Thanks,
A person in need.

Chandra said...

There are always evil people with destructive mentality and instead of commenting about their mala fide intentions, think of protecting yourself and your family members first. Anytime you hear threats of 498A, make sure you obtain anticipatory bails first. Getting bails ahead of time is 80% battle won. Protect your properties by putting renters or just selling them away. If you have joint accounts, close them. Such women become 498A women and will never be married, ever! What goes around, comes around. Don't waste your energy in trying to 'fix' them. Universal laws will take care of them and they will pay heavily for the mischief.

Anonymous said...

Hi All,

I am also victim of 498a and 307. I think we should never be ready for separation instead request to judiciary to bring your wife back. In that case she can not claim for maintenance. I dont know what will happen with me but i am ready to fight. Please share your views if we have ways to prove them wrong in court.

Swarup Sarkar said...

Do not worry ,make a Google search SIF Yahoo group and join , you will find fighting like you. We advice to take a simple stand : First I will prove my innocence then will think about divorce or compromise . Keep patience !

Mohit Kumar said...

Sir,
My name is mohit kumar and i am from Jind (Haryana).

Sir, Mere marriage ko 3 (three) yeear ho gya h or mere wife muze chod k do tin bar ja chuki h or jane k baad muze se paisa ki demand krti h or muze jail jane ki baat krti h or muze ab 5 feb 2014 ko uski mother or mera yha se le gyi h or dhamki bhi de k gyi h ki muze or mere ghar walo ko jail me krwa dungi to ma is dhamki se preshan hu or muze pura yaqin h ab wo mere or mere pariwaar ke khilaaf dowery ka case ker dega or hum bahut sadharan se log h is court cathery ka naam sun ke to muze neend bhi nhi aati or aatam hatiya krna ka man hota. too kirpya kr k muze ya to koi upai btaya jai ki mere pariwaar par koi preshanni na aai chahe muze kuch bhi ho jay. abhi tak unhone koi complaint nhi ki h par wo kr skta h

Swarup Sarkar said...

Bro would request you must search googel SIF Yahoo group and join also as u are in pre 498a stage , please start reading 498a survival kit. It is 90% mental game and 10% legal game.

Jay Pal said...

You can apply to HC for speedy trial giving certified copy of order sheet showing 15 dates.

Santoshkumar Potdar said...

Swaroop sir,

Please call me or give your number to me i will call to you. i need to speak with you immediately.

Dr. Santoshkumar, MSW PhD. Karnataka. Cell: 0 98808 28331.

carol babu said...

Hi All,
I am also a victim of this section 498. There are lots of organisations and movements for the problems faced by women whether the complaint is genuine or not. But girls make use of this advantage and misuse this section of law. Please plan something to make an organisation or movement against girls like this.
Someone else also initiate this fight against girls.

Anonymous said...

dear sir.

I am also suffering the same case of 498a. sir I am requesting you to please do some strong action against these laws which are made in fever of girls only. my suggestion to all 498a victims that's lets come out on the road and fight together strongly against these laws of 498a/DV. I am strongly prepare for this.

amit gupta
9990200444

kundan said...

Dear Sir,
My elder brother got married 2 years before. But his life has been a mess then after just because of the malicious intentions of his wife & his in laws. His wife & In-laws always insisted him to separate from family & take away his part from the property that is solely earned by my Father. They have been continuously torturing my brother since he got married. Eventually, my brother passed away due to brain tumor on 14 April 2012. His wife has lodged a case of 498a against the whole family. Four members of my family (My old Mother(60+) & Father(70+) elder sister in law & one of my brother who don't even live with us have been booked in jail. Rest four of us are temporarily out just for the sake of death rituals. Any time we can also be booked. I am an IT professional. Even i don't live with my family as my brother that has been booked do. But that lady has charged us also for harassing her. Not only this, she has accused my 70+ years old father for having a bad eye on her. Please help me. My whole family is going to be destroyed. Please revert back on jkundan.jyoti@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Hi All,

There are number of cases which we are seeing on daily basis regarding the misuse of the law. A number men committing suicides after being harassed by these cases. Then also why INDIA law is not modifying these laws. I myself an being tortured by my in laws since after 1 month of marriage. They were earlier just threatening me. Now they have given a complaint against me in the Women cell. I was feeling that I and my family have not done anything wrong to her neither have been pushed her even in dreams. But to our surprise She had given a complaint of 80 pages and put all standard allegations that in laws and husband beats me and ask for dowry.

So if such things keep going on INDIA then no one will like to be a part of INDIA as the laws are biased here.

Can anyone suggest what we can do against them since they are putting all false allegations. Can't we men live a happy tension free live? Can't the parents of men live happily if their son is married ? In the older age when they need to visit temples and other places of worship they are forced to go to police stations and jails.

Anonymous said...

Hi All,

There are number of cases which we are seeing on daily basis regarding the misuse of the law. A number men committing suicides after being harassed by these cases. Then also why INDIA law is not modifying these laws. I myself an being tortured by my in laws since after 1 month of marriage. They were earlier just threatening me. Now they have given a complaint against me in the Women cell. I was feeling that I and my family have not done anything wrong to her neither have been pushed her even in dreams. But to our surprise She had given a complaint of 80 pages and put all standard allegations that in laws and husband beats me and ask for dowry.

So if such things keep going on INDIA then no one will like to be a part of INDIA as the laws are biased here.

Can anyone suggest what we can do against them since they are putting all false allegations. Can't we men live a happy tension free live? Can't the parents of men live happily if their son is married ? In the older age when they need to visit temples and other places of worship they are forced to go to police stations and jails..

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Anonymous said...

Hello sir,

My name is Poshendra Khute, I am from CG.
I got married on 28/04/2013 and i have a baby girl (3 months old). Around 1 month back my wife went back with her father and they are threatening us to file a fraud case on my whole family. I tried for settlement two times but there is no replay from her side. I have photographs and videos of my wife when she was with me living happily. But now i want divorce. what are the options for me.
Please replay me sir.
My id khute86@gmail.com

rajareddynag said...

Hi Friends,
I married a bad girl(age:28) on 26-12-2013. I am working in Bangalore in a MNC Software company.I am from poor formers family from kadapa dist,Andhra pradesh. She was with me for only one month. She dont have parents and she was staying with sister and brother-illaw. I thought she dont have parents and dont have studies also(10th pass), so she love my family. But she already having illegal relationship with her sisters husband.Just for society and for property she married me and spoiled my good life. She came back to their their sisters house on 30-03-2014 from Bangalore. She didt come to Bangalore.

She and their sisters family is a jungle persons. They done baanamati and chetabadi against me. I went to that bad girls house to bring back that bad girl. That stupid girl already removed "TAALI BOTTU" and "LEG METTIES" and not like to come with me. She and their sisters family demanding 5 lakhs.

In that situation i depressed a lot and i committed suicide in front of that bad girl house. In stomach in with knife i cut 12 times, She and her sisters family dont help me to hospital also, and they filled false cases against me 307,309,324,326A,498A.

I was in jail for 17 days. She demanding 5 lakhs to divorce and 5 lakhs for case compromise.

All my dear frends what should i do, shall i pay 10 lakhs.

But 5 cases filled na, how many days it will take to clsoe all cases and taking the divorce also. Please frends and layers help me to come out from these big problem.

Anonymous said...

plz dont misuse 498a .

deepak Sharma said...

my name is deepak and my elder brother is suffer form case 498 form up and we live in delhi and my bhabhi lives in up my whole family suffer form this case and case started 2007 and still not finished we are suffering my whole family i have two brother me and my younger brother unmarred and my two elder sister marred tell me what should i do

Anonymous said...

Prevention is better than cure. Start a campaign to educate young men who are still single. Maybe, men should do a favor to themselves and India by not getting married. India's population is already excessive and they will save themselves from possible pain of false legal cases. 95% of those married men who are not subjected such false legal cases always look harassed some ways and when they are candid, they share that they would have been much better if they had not married.

Anonymous said...

I am the mother of a son it was just he and me living in our house then I got my son married on 13th of July 2013, to a girl in Chennai we live in Bangalore. This was an arranged marriage. I have 3 married daughters who are independent and live their own lives with their husbands and children.
Soon after the honeymoon in Spain which was a gift from one of my daughters. This girl my daughter-in-law started speaking badly to me.A simple sentence would be replied very rudely. My friends had told me that I could win her over by my love, which I showered on her in plenty. Even when she was nasty to me I would say, No Baba not like that I did not mean this, you are so important to me but her behaviour continued. Whatever good things I did for her were never taken into consideration.
She has a habit of screaming and shouting and she starts a fight for no reason with my son.
With me she does not talk properly 50% of the time.
What do we do? my son has been sweet to her I have been very sweet to her but her bad behaviour is on the increase..

Anonymous said...

What will happen if husband accepts all demands of wife in CAW cell ?

Anonymous said...

Sir,

My son happen to have a girl friend. My son informed me both of them wanted to marry. First I told them remain friends/colleagues only don't think of marriage for the time being (since as per Kundli my son is cannot marry before completing 27 years of age), secondly, I told the girl to tell her parents to speak to us in this matter when the time comes.
The girl always prohibited us to see her parents with following reasons at different times and they do not agree for this marriage ie.( i) We have different title than that of girl's (we are Bhardwaj and they are Chopra ) (ii) we do not have own house at Delhi (iii) If they marry her, they will need to give her property (logic is not understood) (iv) Her elder sister want to marry her brother-in-law and she is creating all misunderstanding between parents and she. (v) Her father is very dangerous, it is not safe to see them (vi) (a) mother hates her, she (mother) did not see her even when she had met with a very serious accident (b) she was expecting a male child instead she born (vii) during schooling her friend's mother used to attend PTM instead of her own mother (viii) As per her statement father is very loving and agrees with her each and every decision but even he is not bothered as on date. I questioned her whether they her biological/real parents. She said she herself is in doubt but as per Hospital records they are her real parents. Her parents still do not agree for this marriage. Around 13 months ago, she forced my son to run away from home and live along with her. It is learnt they have married in a Arya Samaj Mandir in first week of April 2014. We are still ready to accept her as per Hindu customs and rites provided her parents also shower their blessings and see her off from their home in front of relatives/society. She has always been making excuses for last two years. I spoke twice to her father (who never wants me to see in person) on telephone on a number provided by her i.e. in First week of June, 2014 and fourth week of Sep 2014. His reply was, they will accept their daughter as it is but don't want to marry her to our son in any case. I even requested him, if we can sit together and finalize something. If still don't want, take care of their daughter, take her home and marry to a boy of their choice. We will take care of our son. As per her statement she visited her house on 25.10.14 (on the occasion of Bhai Dooj) but she was not allowed to stay there but her younger brother made her to stay at her friend's house. We fear from her thinking as to why she does not want to involve her parents? Do they exist or otherwise? What is her motive behind ? She even enquired through my son as to how much amount of money was brought by me at the time of retirement ? She is very lavish and as on date the boy is buried under around rupees 7 - 8 lacs loan. Moreover, she is not letting our son to live happily, causing mental agony by threatening to put him behind bar and our family in any blame. Calls different friends at home to pressurize our son. Her parents are least worried perhaps a planned story. I am a retired Junior Commissioned Officer from the Indian Army. Being a disciplined person I respect the law. I have tried my best directly, through my friends, through friends of my son to make her understand. To my mind a detailed verification (about her character, antecedents and relatives including her so called parents, brothers & sister) can bring the true picture in front as many people on listening my grievances have told that the girl appears to be 420/fraud. But never listens, she says everyone is wrong and liar and whatever she utters is always right and true. It is humbly requested that kindly have this sorted out and help our son and we to get out of this. We parents of boy shall be ever grateful for this sympathetic action.

Kindly also let me know as to how to join SIF.

Thanking you,


Surender
A grieved soldier & father

Anonymous said...

Sir,

My son happen to have a girl friend. My son informed me both of them wanted to marry. First I told them remain friends/colleagues only don't think of marriage for the time being (since as per Kundli my son is cannot marry before completing 27 years of age), secondly, I told the girl to tell her parents to speak to us in this matter when the time comes.
The girl always prohibited us to see her parents with following reasons at different times and they do not agree for this marriage ie.( i) We have different title than that of girl's (we are Bhardwaj and they are Chopra ) (ii) we do not have own house at Delhi (iii) If they marry her, they will need to give her property (logic is not understood) (iv) Her elder sister want to marry her brother-in-law and she is creating all misunderstanding between parents and she. (v) Her father is very dangerous, it is not safe to see them (vi) (a) mother hates her, she (mother) did not see her even when she had met with a very serious accident (b) she was expecting a male child instead she born (vii) during schooling her friend's mother used to attend PTM instead of her own mother (viii) As per her statement father is very loving and agrees with her each and every decision but even he is not bothered as on date. I questioned her whether they her biological/real parents. She said she herself is in doubt but as per Hospital records they are her real parents. Her parents still do not agree for this marriage. Around 13 months ago, she forced my son to run away from home and live along with her. It is learnt they have married in a Arya Samaj Mandir in first week of April 2014. We are still ready to accept her as per Hindu customs and rites provided her parents also shower their blessings and see her off from their home in front of relatives/society. She has always been making excuses for last two years. I spoke twice to her father (who never wants me to see in person) on telephone on a number provided by her i.e. in First week of June, 2014 and fourth week of Sep 2014. His reply was, they will accept their daughter as it is but don't want to marry her to our son in any case. I even requested him, if we can sit together and finalize something. If still don't want, take care of their daughter, take her home and marry to a boy of their choice. We will take care of our son. As per her statement she visited her house on 25.10.14 (on the occasion of Bhai Dooj) but she was not allowed to stay there but her younger brother made her to stay at her friend's house. We fear from her thinking as to why she does not want to involve her parents? Do they exist or otherwise? What is her motive behind ? She even enquired through my son as to how much amount of money was brought by me at the time of retirement ? She is very lavish and as on date the boy is buried under around rupees 7 - 8 lacs loan. Moreover, she is not letting our son to live happily, causing mental agony by threatening to put him behind bar and our family in any blame. Calls different friends at home to pressurize our son. Her parents are least worried perhaps a planned story. I am a retired Junior Commissioned Officer from the Indian Army. Being a disciplined person I respect the law. I have tried my best directly, through my friends, through friends of my son to make her understand. To my mind a detailed verification (about her character, antecedents and relatives including her so called parents, brothers & sister) can bring the true picture in front as many people on listening my grievances have told that the girl appears to be 420/fraud. But never listens, she says everyone is wrong and liar and whatever she utters is always right and true. It is humbly requested that kindly have this sorted out and help our son and we to get out of this. We parents of boy shall be ever grateful for this sympathetic action.

Kindly also let me know as to how to join SIF.

Thanking you,


Surender
A grieved soldier & father

Anonymous said...

Sir we would also like to join ur ngo plz give contact no

Swarup Sarkar said...

Would request to join SIF yahoogroup and seek your clarification. Many people are like you there fighting against this legal terrorism and share each others success and failure.
https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/saveindianfamily/info
Please read our websites articles/Judgements/contents/498a survival Kit, that is
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Need help said...

Hi
I need advice.
My NRI brother is also victim of this legal terrorism. Please give me your contact information.

Aditya Sharma said...

to all of my buddies..let me remind u..humne apni mehnat se or uparwale ki rahmat se sab banaya he..gir ke uthna jaante hein
शेर खुद अपनी ताकत
से राजा केहलाता है;
जंगल मे चुनाव नही होते.. ।..

n now i blv kal kisne dekha he..
जिस दिन आपने अपनी जिन्दगी को खुलकर जी लिया,
वही दिन आपका है, बाकि तो सिर्फ केलेंडर की तारीखें हैं।..

Moreover
Hum to doobenge sanam..tumko bhi le doobenge :-p
ab bas yhi khwahish he..

Anonymous said...

hi.. actually may cousin and his family are suffering from misuse of anty dowry 498a act. my cousin's in-laws doing blackmailing to my cousin and his parents for sign on papers of home property. they are blackmailing like if they will not sign then they will do FIR . my cousin completed 17 years of his marriage now problem created and his in-laws are not allowing my cousin to meet his wife and his children . they are in big trouble. plz guide me help me to make me help them. they are very kind people. please suggest me how can i help them. i will very greatfull to you. please contact or reply as soon as you can @ isha.lamba0809@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Sir,we are a middle class family from Nellore Ap.I have married a girl who resides at Chennai TN. they are relatives but not close.I was working in Chennai on software firm.My wife is also working on the same firm.our married life was went on obstacles for 6 months.we have stayed on her mom's home a portion for rent after marriage.we have got married on August 2013 at Nellore. After Feb 2014 I had got a job which is 30 kms away from her mom's home.the day I got job far away from her mom's home,she was telling that Ican't leave my brother in law,mom and my sister.My wife's elder sister and her husband also living on the same home on an another portion from last 8 years from the marriage.they are not having children for six years.before my marriage her sister got pregnancy after 6 years of their marriage.after the marriage my wife is telling that I wouldn't like you and I would like to marry my brotherinlaw unfortunately I was married you.she was keep on giving me mentally irritating and behaves like very cruelly.she was telling that go out of my life and from my mom's home.I don't need you.I want to marry my brotherinlaw.we both are separated from a year.we are calling my wife with the mediators from both ends.now my co-brother was
telling that there is some astrological differences has been found from both of you and we cannot send your wife for next 10 months
.but she was refusing to coming with me.she was threatening me and my family that I will file 498 and dvc cases on you people if you have spoken it out anywhere on me and my brotherinlaw.
please help me out on this situation and how can I overcome this situation from my wife
And she was also always comparing me with her brother-in-law.he left his parents and asking me to do the same but iam refusing to do that.
How can we on safeguards while they had file false 498a,dvc and harrasement cases.I wouldn't not like to continue with this type of typical mindset wife.I want divorce from her
we both are separated from last 10 months and what are the possibilities for them to file any false cases on us and if they filed any false cases then how can we get out of those cases.please help me on this case. Recently some mediators are asked many days u will keep ur daughter in ur home marriage. She had replied that her daughter do not join and we need 15 lakhs for mutual concent divorce.
And is there any possibility to file any adultery case on my wife and her brother-in-law.
Please suggest

Thanks
Sunil babu

Anonymous said...

HI , I am also victim of false 498 and DV case ..
The case is going on and now she has said to court that she want to comprise and want come back to my home which is most risky now and I don’t want to bring her at all..
What is the best way to deal with this situation?
Please advise

Anonymous said...

How to change property owebership of 498a victim to protect his house when documents in bank loan.house is family house but son also invest money through loan so his mother keep property on son name before his marriage but after marriage his. Wife start to harassing family now she is ready to file 498A

Deepakverma.hdfc said...

My elder brother got engaged in such a false 498A case. He and my family are not educated enough and I am living out of my home town. After reading the whole article, I am feeling much better to give right answer to the wife of my brother.
If she wanna play with our reputation, I can say "Let's play !!".

Thank you Mr. Swarup

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Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

I am sufferer too, but I am a brother and innocent, illigelly girl has put my name on case 498a.She is from Ranchi.what should I do ?
my email is deepakbestpr@yahoo.com

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Nikhil Prashar said...

I have been in relationship for the last 4 months. Which girl ended saying her parents are not getting ready in Nov'16 .I tried to confront her. When she replied its of my smoking habbit for which she earlier said. She will deal with herself. Now she is. Not replying when I asked to let me have a talk with her parents directly. She has already selected someone else& not responding to my messages. This relationship started with her saying it first that she loves me on the basis of which I entered into this relationship.

Can I register a case against the girl for giving me mental torture. When I got my parents. She moved back. I am sure she didn't even told her parents abt our relationship..

Swarup Sarkar said...

Brother move on , its good u get it too early , many had got after long years and suffered like hell along with his age old parents.
In India if boy break relationship girl can file rape case, but if girl break up boy can;t file rape cases , so fight for gender neutral law first and join SIF movement.

Rahil syed ahmed said...

Go for the kill bro

Anonymous said...

I am from Kerala, got married in 2008, we had a beautiful child in 2009. Soon she left my home taking our child, she wanted to leave my mother behind and take her parents with us to Bangalore where i am working. My mother is a widow and i am the only son. Divorce notice came to me within 4 months despite all attempts made through friends relatives and community members. I did not oblige for it, and in 2010 Aug she filed false 498A and got me arrested. Also framed charges against my mother. I decided to stand and fight, now after almost 7 long years the judgment came acquitting me and my mother just two days ago. i am yet to receive the actual copy of the judgement.