tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post3359810958175330486..comments2023-12-05T06:17:17.617-08:00Comments on STOP ABUSE OF MEN: 10 Step Planning by a 498A/DV Women!Stop Abuse Menhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05451011174620879006noreply@blogger.comBlogger74125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-59203188361152182052017-02-08T01:03:16.023-08:002017-02-08T01:03:16.023-08:00I am from Kerala, got married in 2008, we had a be...I am from Kerala, got married in 2008, we had a beautiful child in 2009. Soon she left my home taking our child, she wanted to leave my mother behind and take her parents with us to Bangalore where i am working. My mother is a widow and i am the only son. Divorce notice came to me within 4 months despite all attempts made through friends relatives and community members. I did not oblige for it, and in 2010 Aug she filed false 498A and got me arrested. Also framed charges against my mother. I decided to stand and fight, now after almost 7 long years the judgment came acquitting me and my mother just two days ago. i am yet to receive the actual copy of the judgement. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-64333687706203857252017-01-27T03:49:59.394-08:002017-01-27T03:49:59.394-08:00Go for the kill broGo for the kill broAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05138146889837119125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-38879833439641353032017-01-09T09:00:18.912-08:002017-01-09T09:00:18.912-08:00Brother move on , its good u get it too early , ma...Brother move on , its good u get it too early , many had got after long years and suffered like hell along with his age old parents.<br />In India if boy break relationship girl can file rape case, but if girl break up boy can;t file rape cases , so fight for gender neutral law first and join SIF movement.Stop Abuse Menhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05451011174620879006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-40581709132815665232017-01-09T05:31:46.902-08:002017-01-09T05:31:46.902-08:00I have been in relationship for the last 4 months....I have been in relationship for the last 4 months. Which girl ended saying her parents are not getting ready in Nov'16 .I tried to confront her. When she replied its of my smoking habbit for which she earlier said. She will deal with herself. Now she is. Not replying when I asked to let me have a talk with her parents directly. She has already selected someone else& not responding to my messages. This relationship started with her saying it first that she loves me on the basis of which I entered into this relationship.<br /><br />Can I register a case against the girl for giving me mental torture. When I got my parents. She moved back. I am sure she didn't even told her parents abt our relationship..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08185373844650339766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-9734262635925986692016-11-12T04:49:58.763-08:002016-11-12T04:49:58.763-08:00Excellent brother! This story of how to become a c...Excellent brother! This story of how to become a commando should be placed in each forum please write further story <a href="http://www.freelegaladvise.org/domestic_violation_lawyer_in_delhi.html" rel="nofollow">domestic violation lawyer in delhi </a>freelegaladvisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15939628877957337609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-92107816631163852262016-09-05T20:41:29.322-07:002016-09-05T20:41:29.322-07:00please see this blog http://survive498a.wordpress....please see this blog http://survive498a.wordpress.com.<br />It is similar.Survivorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14659678959322545907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-28743827702893449012016-08-07T19:29:55.368-07:002016-08-07T19:29:55.368-07:00I am sufferer too, but I am a brother and innocent...I am sufferer too, but I am a brother and innocent, illigelly girl has put my name on case 498a.She is from Ranchi.what should I do ?<br />my email is deepakbestpr@yahoo.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-47100880957423401452016-06-06T23:03:24.766-07:002016-06-06T23:03:24.766-07:00Anybody from Bangalore can we meet in person to di...Anybody from Bangalore can we meet in person to discuss...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-29108874935172115582016-05-18T02:52:57.414-07:002016-05-18T02:52:57.414-07:00Its very nice post this is informative article!!
n...Its very nice post this is informative article!!<br /><a href="http://www.spplimited.co.in/nebosh-igc-course-training-in-chennai/" rel="nofollow">nebosh course in Chennai</a>Safety Professionalshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03421459011831543979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-69148147321896945672016-05-15T07:35:33.291-07:002016-05-15T07:35:33.291-07:00My elder brother got engaged in such a false 498A ...My elder brother got engaged in such a false 498A case. He and my family are not educated enough and I am living out of my home town. After reading the whole article, I am feeling much better to give right answer to the wife of my brother.<br />If she wanna play with our reputation, I can say "Let's play !!".<br /><br />Thank you Mr. SwarupDeepakverma.hdfchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12461531494944840733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-58790464473578839272015-06-02T20:52:44.130-07:002015-06-02T20:52:44.130-07:00How to change property owebership of 498a victim ...How to change property owebership of 498a victim to protect his house when documents in bank loan.house is family house but son also invest money through loan so his mother keep property on son name before his marriage but after marriage his. Wife start to harassing family now she is ready to file 498AAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-90883436755069015612015-05-21T00:59:25.799-07:002015-05-21T00:59:25.799-07:00HI , I am also victim of false 498 and DV case .....HI , I am also victim of false 498 and DV case .. <br />The case is going on and now she has said to court that she want to comprise and want come back to my home which is most risky now and I don’t want to bring her at all.. <br />What is the best way to deal with this situation? <br />Please adviseAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-51073901993343685182015-04-26T12:08:18.017-07:002015-04-26T12:08:18.017-07:00Sir,we are a middle class family from Nellore Ap.I...Sir,we are a middle class family from Nellore Ap.I have married a girl who resides at Chennai TN. they are relatives but not close.I was working in Chennai on software firm.My wife is also working on the same firm.our married life was went on obstacles for 6 months.we have stayed on her mom's home a portion for rent after marriage.we have got married on August 2013 at Nellore. After Feb 2014 I had got a job which is 30 kms away from her mom's home.the day I got job far away from her mom's home,she was telling that Ican't leave my brother in law,mom and my sister.My wife's elder sister and her husband also living on the same home on an another portion from last 8 years from the marriage.they are not having children for six years.before my marriage her sister got pregnancy after 6 years of their marriage.after the marriage my wife is telling that I wouldn't like you and I would like to marry my brotherinlaw unfortunately I was married you.she was keep on giving me mentally irritating and behaves like very cruelly.she was telling that go out of my life and from my mom's home.I don't need you.I want to marry my brotherinlaw.we both are separated from a year.we are calling my wife with the mediators from both ends.now my co-brother was<br />telling that there is some astrological differences has been found from both of you and we cannot send your wife for next 10 months<br />.but she was refusing to coming with me.she was threatening me and my family that I will file 498 and dvc cases on you people if you have spoken it out anywhere on me and my brotherinlaw.<br />please help me out on this situation and how can I overcome this situation from my wife<br />And she was also always comparing me with her brother-in-law.he left his parents and asking me to do the same but iam refusing to do that.<br />How can we on safeguards while they had file false 498a,dvc and harrasement cases.I wouldn't not like to continue with this type of typical mindset wife.I want divorce from her<br />we both are separated from last 10 months and what are the possibilities for them to file any false cases on us and if they filed any false cases then how can we get out of those cases.please help me on this case. Recently some mediators are asked many days u will keep ur daughter in ur home marriage. She had replied that her daughter do not join and we need 15 lakhs for mutual concent divorce.<br />And is there any possibility to file any adultery case on my wife and her brother-in-law.<br />Please suggest<br /><br />Thanks<br />Sunil babu<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-61503428375098446552015-04-09T10:57:14.847-07:002015-04-09T10:57:14.847-07:00hi.. actually may cousin and his family are suffer...hi.. actually may cousin and his family are suffering from misuse of anty dowry 498a act. my cousin's in-laws doing blackmailing to my cousin and his parents for sign on papers of home property. they are blackmailing like if they will not sign then they will do FIR . my cousin completed 17 years of his marriage now problem created and his in-laws are not allowing my cousin to meet his wife and his children . they are in big trouble. plz guide me help me to make me help them. they are very kind people. please suggest me how can i help them. i will very greatfull to you. please contact or reply as soon as you can @ isha.lamba0809@gmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-8213354121691112912015-03-09T21:10:56.905-07:002015-03-09T21:10:56.905-07:00to all of my buddies..let me remind u..humne apni ...to all of my buddies..let me remind u..humne apni mehnat se or uparwale ki rahmat se sab banaya he..gir ke uthna jaante hein<br />शेर खुद अपनी ताकत<br />से राजा केहलाता है;<br />जंगल मे चुनाव नही होते.. ।..<br /><br />n now i blv kal kisne dekha he..<br />जिस दिन आपने अपनी जिन्दगी को खुलकर जी लिया,<br />वही दिन आपका है, बाकि तो सिर्फ केलेंडर की तारीखें हैं।..<br /><br />Moreover <br />Hum to doobenge sanam..tumko bhi le doobenge :-p<br />ab bas yhi khwahish he..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07133258409757131000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-84066081106737178382015-02-28T02:38:48.328-08:002015-02-28T02:38:48.328-08:00Hi
I need advice.
My NRI brother is also victim o...Hi<br />I need advice. <br />My NRI brother is also victim of this legal terrorism. Please give me your contact information. Need helphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11746024032126699588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-23273166509634913382014-12-24T03:16:29.653-08:002014-12-24T03:16:29.653-08:00Would request to join SIF yahoogroup and seek your...Would request to join SIF yahoogroup and seek your clarification. Many people are like you there fighting against this legal terrorism and share each others success and failure.<br />https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/saveindianfamily/info<br />Please read our websites articles/Judgements/contents/498a survival Kit, that is <br />www.saveindianfamily.in or www.savefamily.in<br />Also join us through Face book, Twitter, the Icon provided Top of the website.<br />Attachments area<br />Preview YouTube video SIF Appeal<br />Want to #StopAbuseofMen by #Fakecases ? Call 0-8882-498-498 to Join # SaveIndianFamily Movement.<br /> <br /> <br /><br />Stop Abuse Menhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05451011174620879006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-12378720299665315032014-12-09T22:14:20.617-08:002014-12-09T22:14:20.617-08:00Sir we would also like to join ur ngo plz give con...Sir we would also like to join ur ngo plz give contact noAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-29089725229353944432014-11-17T10:57:25.735-08:002014-11-17T10:57:25.735-08:00Sir,
My son happen to have a girl friend. My so...Sir,<br /><br />My son happen to have a girl friend. My son informed me both of them wanted to marry. First I told them remain friends/colleagues only don't think of marriage for the time being (since as per Kundli my son is cannot marry before completing 27 years of age), secondly, I told the girl to tell her parents to speak to us in this matter when the time comes. <br />The girl always prohibited us to see her parents with following reasons at different times and they do not agree for this marriage ie.( i) We have different title than that of girl's (we are Bhardwaj and they are Chopra ) (ii) we do not have own house at Delhi (iii) If they marry her, they will need to give her property (logic is not understood) (iv) Her elder sister want to marry her brother-in-law and she is creating all misunderstanding between parents and she. (v) Her father is very dangerous, it is not safe to see them (vi) (a) mother hates her, she (mother) did not see her even when she had met with a very serious accident (b) she was expecting a male child instead she born (vii) during schooling her friend's mother used to attend PTM instead of her own mother (viii) As per her statement father is very loving and agrees with her each and every decision but even he is not bothered as on date. I questioned her whether they her biological/real parents. She said she herself is in doubt but as per Hospital records they are her real parents. Her parents still do not agree for this marriage. Around 13 months ago, she forced my son to run away from home and live along with her. It is learnt they have married in a Arya Samaj Mandir in first week of April 2014. We are still ready to accept her as per Hindu customs and rites provided her parents also shower their blessings and see her off from their home in front of relatives/society. She has always been making excuses for last two years. I spoke twice to her father (who never wants me to see in person) on telephone on a number provided by her i.e. in First week of June, 2014 and fourth week of Sep 2014. His reply was, they will accept their daughter as it is but don't want to marry her to our son in any case. I even requested him, if we can sit together and finalize something. If still don't want, take care of their daughter, take her home and marry to a boy of their choice. We will take care of our son. As per her statement she visited her house on 25.10.14 (on the occasion of Bhai Dooj) but she was not allowed to stay there but her younger brother made her to stay at her friend's house. We fear from her thinking as to why she does not want to involve her parents? Do they exist or otherwise? What is her motive behind ? She even enquired through my son as to how much amount of money was brought by me at the time of retirement ? She is very lavish and as on date the boy is buried under around rupees 7 - 8 lacs loan. Moreover, she is not letting our son to live happily, causing mental agony by threatening to put him behind bar and our family in any blame. Calls different friends at home to pressurize our son. Her parents are least worried perhaps a planned story. I am a retired Junior Commissioned Officer from the Indian Army. Being a disciplined person I respect the law. I have tried my best directly, through my friends, through friends of my son to make her understand. To my mind a detailed verification (about her character, antecedents and relatives including her so called parents, brothers & sister) can bring the true picture in front as many people on listening my grievances have told that the girl appears to be 420/fraud. But never listens, she says everyone is wrong and liar and whatever she utters is always right and true. It is humbly requested that kindly have this sorted out and help our son and we to get out of this. We parents of boy shall be ever grateful for this sympathetic action.<br /><br />Kindly also let me know as to how to join SIF.<br /><br />Thanking you,<br /><br /><br />Surender<br />A grieved soldier & father<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-24634489210778851222014-11-17T10:56:15.505-08:002014-11-17T10:56:15.505-08:00Sir,
My son happen to have a girl friend. My so...Sir,<br /><br />My son happen to have a girl friend. My son informed me both of them wanted to marry. First I told them remain friends/colleagues only don't think of marriage for the time being (since as per Kundli my son is cannot marry before completing 27 years of age), secondly, I told the girl to tell her parents to speak to us in this matter when the time comes. <br />The girl always prohibited us to see her parents with following reasons at different times and they do not agree for this marriage ie.( i) We have different title than that of girl's (we are Bhardwaj and they are Chopra ) (ii) we do not have own house at Delhi (iii) If they marry her, they will need to give her property (logic is not understood) (iv) Her elder sister want to marry her brother-in-law and she is creating all misunderstanding between parents and she. (v) Her father is very dangerous, it is not safe to see them (vi) (a) mother hates her, she (mother) did not see her even when she had met with a very serious accident (b) she was expecting a male child instead she born (vii) during schooling her friend's mother used to attend PTM instead of her own mother (viii) As per her statement father is very loving and agrees with her each and every decision but even he is not bothered as on date. I questioned her whether they her biological/real parents. She said she herself is in doubt but as per Hospital records they are her real parents. Her parents still do not agree for this marriage. Around 13 months ago, she forced my son to run away from home and live along with her. It is learnt they have married in a Arya Samaj Mandir in first week of April 2014. We are still ready to accept her as per Hindu customs and rites provided her parents also shower their blessings and see her off from their home in front of relatives/society. She has always been making excuses for last two years. I spoke twice to her father (who never wants me to see in person) on telephone on a number provided by her i.e. in First week of June, 2014 and fourth week of Sep 2014. His reply was, they will accept their daughter as it is but don't want to marry her to our son in any case. I even requested him, if we can sit together and finalize something. If still don't want, take care of their daughter, take her home and marry to a boy of their choice. We will take care of our son. As per her statement she visited her house on 25.10.14 (on the occasion of Bhai Dooj) but she was not allowed to stay there but her younger brother made her to stay at her friend's house. We fear from her thinking as to why she does not want to involve her parents? Do they exist or otherwise? What is her motive behind ? She even enquired through my son as to how much amount of money was brought by me at the time of retirement ? She is very lavish and as on date the boy is buried under around rupees 7 - 8 lacs loan. Moreover, she is not letting our son to live happily, causing mental agony by threatening to put him behind bar and our family in any blame. Calls different friends at home to pressurize our son. Her parents are least worried perhaps a planned story. I am a retired Junior Commissioned Officer from the Indian Army. Being a disciplined person I respect the law. I have tried my best directly, through my friends, through friends of my son to make her understand. To my mind a detailed verification (about her character, antecedents and relatives including her so called parents, brothers & sister) can bring the true picture in front as many people on listening my grievances have told that the girl appears to be 420/fraud. But never listens, she says everyone is wrong and liar and whatever she utters is always right and true. It is humbly requested that kindly have this sorted out and help our son and we to get out of this. We parents of boy shall be ever grateful for this sympathetic action.<br /><br />Kindly also let me know as to how to join SIF.<br /><br />Thanking you,<br /><br /><br />Surender<br />A grieved soldier & father<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-35398812059110869372014-11-16T09:46:06.271-08:002014-11-16T09:46:06.271-08:00What will happen if husband accepts all demands of...What will happen if husband accepts all demands of wife in CAW cell ?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-63522300724999284632014-11-14T03:02:14.910-08:002014-11-14T03:02:14.910-08:00I am the mother of a son it was just he and me liv...I am the mother of a son it was just he and me living in our house then I got my son married on 13th of July 2013, to a girl in Chennai we live in Bangalore. This was an arranged marriage. I have 3 married daughters who are independent and live their own lives with their husbands and children.<br />Soon after the honeymoon in Spain which was a gift from one of my daughters. This girl my daughter-in-law started speaking badly to me.A simple sentence would be replied very rudely. My friends had told me that I could win her over by my love, which I showered on her in plenty. Even when she was nasty to me I would say, No Baba not like that I did not mean this, you are so important to me but her behaviour continued. Whatever good things I did for her were never taken into consideration.<br /> She has a habit of screaming and shouting and she starts a fight for no reason with my son.<br />With me she does not talk properly 50% of the time. <br />What do we do? my son has been sweet to her I have been very sweet to her but her bad behaviour is on the increase.. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-56003307356893428822014-10-16T11:58:32.963-07:002014-10-16T11:58:32.963-07:00Prevention is better than cure. Start a campaign t...Prevention is better than cure. Start a campaign to educate young men who are still single. Maybe, men should do a favor to themselves and India by not getting married. India's population is already excessive and they will save themselves from possible pain of false legal cases. 95% of those married men who are not subjected such false legal cases always look harassed some ways and when they are candid, they share that they would have been much better if they had not married.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-48152262510784090382014-10-08T14:22:25.225-07:002014-10-08T14:22:25.225-07:00my name is deepak and my elder brother is suffer f...my name is deepak and my elder brother is suffer form case 498 form up and we live in delhi and my bhabhi lives in up my whole family suffer form this case and case started 2007 and still not finished we are suffering my whole family i have two brother me and my younger brother unmarred and my two elder sister marred tell me what should i do Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11347403651280631632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-83850857572359602972014-10-04T04:06:47.355-07:002014-10-04T04:06:47.355-07:00plz dont misuse 498a .plz dont misuse 498a .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com