As a Volunteer and Moderator of SIF ( Save Indian Family ) , every day I used to habituated to hear the Same Cry , Pain , Frustration of thousands Age Old parents , Pregent Sister , handicapped Husbands , when this “ Legal Terrorism “ in India will Stop??
Recently though the Supreme Court of India Cautioned to take the necessary precaution and seal the hope hole in 498A and anti-dowry LAW to stop such “ Legal terrorism” , our LAW maker does not brother to respect the same , where as they are ready with another tools in the Name of Domestic Violence Act instead of a Domestic harmony Act , where a Husband and there all family members will be thrown out of House in the name of so called Verbal abuse , mental harassment , economical abuse and adulterate relationship ( no need any evidence , only her or her family members own statement is sufficient ) , where as for the same offence from the wife and their family members side , forget any punishment , there is no provision of a small warning for them , they have given them a whole sale free license for “Verbal abuse , mental harassment , economical abuse and adulterate relationship .”
Now the question is are we ready to avoid a Terrorist attack in the form of 498A or DV Act??
Last one year my experience is a Big “No”.
Because the Indian Husband still in leaving in the 16th Century as says by Ms. Shobha De in her famous Book. Where as the Wives are taking the lead as a result you can see more than 55% divorce case are filed by them followed by 498A for getting a huge money , the way a terrorist does with common innocent people in the name of Welfare .
Recently when I meat a Commando who had on field experience 6 years in Punjab and presently last 5 years posted in Kashmir to fight against Terrorism, who share his experience with me, Which leads me to say all the nation how you can take a preventive action to avoid a terrorist attack, instead of crying after the terrorist completed their Job and killing a lot of Innocent People. It is up to you to decided, want to take preventive action or Cry after a terrorist attack.
1.Make Public Awareness for the Terrorist Activity, there is no logic, there is no aim, only aim to earn the money in dishonest way.
- Same way , make the Public awareness about Misuse of 498A and DV Act , where irrespective of you have done anything wrong or right , you along with your family members can be put behind the Bar with out any Investigation . ( Same way like TADA/POTA )
2. Whenever you find Some Strange Attitude by some one, immediately inform to Police or necessary authority.
- Whenever you find any small trouble and strange attitude from you dishonest wife or her family members, like she left the house without any Justifiable reason, immediately complain to Your Nearest Police Station and file a RCR in Court under Section 9 . Take the certified copy of the same and send to her Police Station and request for necessary action.
- If you have any strong evidence and witness, immediately file a Criminal case against them like under IPC section 384, 406, 506.. Etc. Otherwise, when your dishonest wife and their family members will say that you have thrown her from your house at Mid Night and she have to leave the house empty handed and you have asked 20 Lacks, you will not have any defense during your bail application.
3. Save guard your valuable Items and family members in some Safe places to reduce the damage in a Terrorist attack.
- Same is applicable in case of 498A and DV act Also. First you have to leave your parents house and find a separate rented house, and if any valuable items are there to be sold immediately, otherwise the Police will come and take all your Valuable Items irrespective of the Items belongs to your mother, sister or purchased by your won hard-earned money.
4. “ When a Terrorist really attack , do not afraid , face them bravely and say ok , “ You may seceded to kill me , but I will not allow to Kill you further Innocent by you or your associates ”
- Same thing when finally the 498A or DV Act attack you , say the same and make a action Plan and prepare your self for a Long battle . Never allow them to take any undue advantages as a cake way. If you are innocent, No one will punish you. Make a bail application and fight the same on merit and say to judge that you will prove your Innocent in trial, that’s all, no other words. Same thing in Women cell or in Police station, do not waste your valuable time, just relax and give all the Court Certified Copy and request them to do their duty.
Now you will be in two situations, the terrorist may say good bye to you and leave your Place or will Say sorry, I have changed and want to live with you as a Honest Citizen.
Ball is in your Court, if the terrorist say Good Bye, say them Good Bye as per your terms and condition (with mentioned that the settlement done and in future there should not any claim towards any StreeDhan , as per Hindu marriage Act 24 , 25 and Criminal Procedure 125 , all the case against each other will be withdrawn by some specified time frame and if any amount involved the same will be deposited at court and they will be entitled the same after completing all the Job )
to make them a Honest Citizen , ask them to accept the crime in front of Judge and make all the legal Documents and unconditional commitment that they will not do such type of Legal Terrorism in future irrespective of any situation .
“Remember that what you believe will depend very much on what you are” – Says Noah Porter.
MEET YOUR MP AND DEMAND:
1. The word Men/women to be replaced by person and Husband/wife to be replaced by Spouse in all LAW and policy.
2. No direct money should be given to the person who complaint, all
fine should be go to some government welfare fund. The same fund to be used for the real empowerment of women and child.
3. If found the cases filed false/fabricated or to get some personnel benefit, the person should be fined and jailed the same terms under which IPC they filed the complint.
4. Stop duplication of law , at present total 5 different maintenance law a person have to fight. Remove all duplication of law and make a single law under "Family disputes" act to resolve all disputes in one single law, instead of making more and more duplication of law as Indian constitution article 21 clearly says, a person can't be punished more than once for the same offense.
STOP MAKING GENDER BIASED LAW AND POLICY , OTHERWISE TOMORROW WCD/NCW MAY START DEMANDING MAKE SEPARATE LAW FOR MURDER OR DRINK AND DRIVE LAW, WHERE A WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE PUNISHED WITH THE SAME LOGIC MEN DO MORE CRIME THAN WOMEN or women suffered since long so let them do the drink and drive or kill some men, what is the problem?
(Crime Is Crime. Punishment should be irrespective of gender, religion and caste. Let us be honest and fight for truth)