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Thursday, 17 September 2015

Indian Women, you want to be treated as special or equal?



Just have a Look of this Man: Lord Ganesha , his head was Cut when he was Born, but today we all seek blessing from Him . Where there is a will there is a way, be honest yourself first what you want .

Ask any women activist or Feminist of the world the question: you want to be treated equal or to be treated as special ?


100% percent you will get answer; they want to be treated equally.

But in reality what they demanded and got till date just have a list:

1.      Special income tax slabs for women
2.      Special city buses for women
3.      Special autos/cabs only for women
4.      Special central ministry for women ( State as well as in center)
5.      Special Women commission ( State as well as in center)
6.      Special reservation for women in  admissions and employment
7.      Special compulsory seat for women in corporate boards of private company
8.      Special multiple laws for women ( at present more than 40+)
9.      Special police stations for women
10.  Special  Mahila ( Women) court
11.  Special Exemption for women in Domestic Violence accused
12.  Special  Exemption for women in Rape Law as rape accused
13.  Special interest rate (loans/deposits) for women
14.  Special helpline for women
15.  Special wing for women in all political parties
16.  Special reservation in Local/Ward/ Panchayat Election
17.  Special Army Law for Women
18.  Special NGOs for women across the Nation
19.  Special reservation and seats in  railways (ladies quota)and buses
20.  Special women wing even in Naxalites / terrorists organizations.
21. Special  Exemption for women in Adultery Law as accused
22. Special Exemption for Women to pay maint to handicapped, ill Husband under #CRPC125
23. Special Exemption for Women not to be punished for Killing Unborn Child in Abortion law
24. Special FREE use of Toilets of any Restaurant , Hotel including 5-Star Too  for Women
25. Special Allowance for Separated married Women by State 
26. Special protection to  Adult Women : She can Marry any Male Child No Punishment in Child Marriage act .
27. Husband have to pay to even a Women who Lived in #Adultery after Divorce, she alive or get remarried via #CRPC125.
28. No Punishment's for doing Domestic Violence on Men and Boys.
29. Still many are under Process and their never ending demand list….( You may mention in my comment list )

May be our Next step only left to have a special currency for Women .(#SpCurrency4Women)


It makes me really wonder, why no women organizations object so many special treatments to them, when they seek to be treated as equal.

We do not have any problem you had been treated as Special, you enjoy all your special privilege, but please be truth full to us when you say, and you want to be treated as equal.

Coming Soon #SpCurrency4Women


Many time we had tried our best to tell everyone start from Media, women organizations , Political Members , in the dictionary there is a word called Person vs Men/women and Spouse vs Husband/wife.

When a Child born, Child does not know He or She. It’s your Law and policy teaches him or her to be termed as He or she.

The biggest myth he or she learn women don’t get equal treatment in India. Any problem or issue converted to women issue and problem let it be murder, accident, suicide or even not having electricity in your home, not having toilet or water supply in your home.

Women had been always thinks or start believe as Victim in spite NCRB data shows the victim of Murder , accident , suicide or illness as a Men in India at least 2 to 3 times more compared to women. Still we believe due to our Misandrist mindset, it’s the women are always victim of all violence or crime, where is fact remains it’s not women, more men are victim of violence or heinous crime in our society.



When I tried to understand why such think happen from a well known child right activist, he explained, maximum men are very poor to represent lie and maximum women had mastery in it. History witness a women can lie and fool any men and never caught by men even in their whole life time also, where as if a men try to lie to women, he get caught in few seconds. So, men have no option but to prefer to stick with truth more specially in front of Women.

So, if you are not interested to be honest to others, at least be honest yourself and ask want to be treated as Special or want to be treated as equal ?

Equality comes when you yourself own both equal rights and responsibility as men own. Demanding equal rights but avoiding to take equal responsibility like men will never make you equal to men , be honest yourself.

God had given both men and women two leg, two hand and one brain , but as we grow it's men who take more responsibility as provider and protector, which you can also take and by default you will get all rights what a men have .

Those women really believe to be treated as equal , they got equal treatment , but those women believe to be treated as special they got special treatment and should not expect equal treatment .Men never asked for any special treatment , except the latest demand in West Bengal for “Pitribhuami “ train , a special Train for men, as you even refused to share two empty Coach with Men.

Would love to have your views which are listed Special treatment you Prefer to give up for equality or what are more special demand you have to get treated as Special.

History witness unfair, biased law or policy never brings fairness in any society.

Wish You all Happy Ganesh Puja !!











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Friday, 17 July 2015

Hidden Face of Indian Wives : True Love or Abuse ?

It was Saturday morning 7.30AM in Delhi as I forget to disable to my daily alarm in mobile phone, started crying, wake up , wake up , good morning tune.


I have no other option but to wake up and have to touch the screen of my android mobile to confirm, yes I had wake up to make him silent.


Very surprised to see in my serious Whats-app group, a guy posted a Video in name: “True Love” – Murga by RJ Naved.


My first reaction was why the hell he had posted this in a serious whats-app group where strict instruction, no forward of Jokes and you will be banned.


Then I open the Video and understand its people termed as Joke , but the Hidden face of maximum Indian Wives , which we witness or experienced many times in our daily life .

My anger vanished in 3 minute, after all the person who send unfortunately belongs to worlds most hated community called as Indian Husbands . Even some  terrorist community of India also had not been hated so much .

A great thumps Up to RJ Naved , who bring this hidden Faces to our Notice , which every one know , but none dare to telecast.



P.S. Wives face have to be hidden as showing her face in public itself is a crime for Husband in India, as per unfair IPC354 and Domestic Violence act.


Yes you will also have a good laugh, like in this video back ground done along with mine also.



But if this had been done by any Husband to his wife, it had been a breaking News till now.


  •  Indian Husbands abuses their wives, many one-sided funded survey had been flashed. 





  • Twitter, face book had been filled up to make it viral and termed every Husband of India are wife abuser, right?



  • Many documentary film makers had been traveled from UK or USA to India to show the whole world, how sick our Indian mindset. There had been mass protest in India gate to force government make another new law and demand hang to such wife abusers, right? 

But when any women or wives abuse any men or Husband, its fun, joke, entertainment and enjoy the suffering of Men/Husband. Thanks to our MisandricMindset.

Verbal abuse , mental abuse , economical abuse , physical abuse and sexual abuse all over the world termed as Domestic Violence, but in India when a husband face such domestic Violence by wives , the same never considered as Domestic Violence.

Lacks of fund had been spend to make study, survey to prove how women are victim of Domestic Violence, but none had asked their male partner, what they face on their daily life. All the study basic foundation is Women Never Lie and Women Never Cheat assumptions.

There are some international studies there the researchers dare to ask the same question to both men and women and found more women doing domestic violence against men than men doing against women.

Every year more than 64000 married men ending their life which is almost double than married women in India, but National Health survey never feel to need of even to find the reason.



Married Men Suicide Increasing In India



When SFF Volunteers ask them in 2013and send the questioners to be asked to Indian men also and why the same should not be covered in their study very surprising answer received:


“At present the National Health Survey module does not have facility to capture the data for men, may review in future.” 



Two years had been passed, but still they have not able to find how to modify the data capturing module in their survey and our Prime minister dreaming of Digital India.

When it comes to look into the problem faced by men or husband , not only government , even well known media houses also try to ignore and prefer to use abuse to men or husband as matter of Joke and fun.

It had been reminded to every boy from their child hood, that boys should not cry , they can’t be victim.

Result when Men became victim of Domestic abuse, they never cry in front of Public or in front of friends.

Their crying place is Washrooms, bathrooms or dark bedrooms only.


They even refuse to accept that they are victim and such denial of victim-hood restricts them to seek any help or guidance from others and victimize themselves more and more.

When men themselves on denial mode, that they are victim of domestic abuse which is hard fact and truth, result their suffering, pain, agony continue to increase.


End result lead to suicide or spouse murder or self destruction mode.



So, time to first accept you are a Victim of Domestic abuse, then only you will look for come out from such victim hood, but if you are in denial mode, the problem is not going to resolve by some magic.

Domestic Violence against men are not Joke, it had its own repercussions , if you continue to ignore, as society everyone have to pay the price  which I had caution in 2006 itself in CNN-IBN debate show.


CNN-IBN Debate on Domestic Violence Act , 2005 Part-2 ...







When unfair, biased Domestic Violence act was passed in the name of big relief to women by ignoring suffering of Indian men/husband, I had clearly told , after 3 years  radical feminist groups will start cry violence against women is increasing and they will demand more anti-men laws , instead of correcting the unfair laws.

History witness the more you will destroy the harmony in society by multiple unfair law’s, crime in society is going to increase, it never decrease.

Just have a comparative looks of Spouse murder per lack population USA vs India, 4 times more spouse get murdered in USA than India.


Would love to see your comment, when next time you witness any news or video where Men or Husband had been abused by any women or Girls the same to be used as Fun/Joke or try to provide a helping hand to them.



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