Tuesday 12 March 2013

Election 2014: Vote for any party, but not to Anti-Men MP.



Dear Citizens of India, especially husbands and their family members, I urge you to vote for any party, but NOT to vote any politician who is against men. 





Today we have more than 6 crore families suffering due to misuse of 498a that came into existence in 1983. Hon’ble Supreme Court labelled this law as ‘Legal Terrorism’ in 2005; however government has done nothing to stop this misuse. The recent Law Minister has stated that he cannot do anything to stop the misuse of 498A. His lame excuse is that any steps to curb this menace will generate ire from Women’s organisations. I ask the learned Law Minister: Is the country governed by Women Organisations? So he believes that votes of men have no value at all?

Statistics from NCRB (National Crime Records Bureau) clearly show that more than 64,000 Indian husbands end their lives every year. These are due to lack of support and due to government's anti-male, anti-family, anti-child, biased and lopsided LAWS like 498A, Domestic Violence act, CRPC125, Adultery LAW and 4 other maintenance laws. The entire Husbands’ family is deemed as a Free ATM machine and they get worse treatment than animals in India. These are due to Congress’s gender biased and one-sided gender laws and policies.

Although Supreme Court of India termed Misuse of 498A as “Unleash Legal Terrorism” and Domestic Violence act as the “most clumsily drafted LAW”. In India, as per the Domestic Violence law, irrespective of the truth, an allegation by the wife can get you, your mother, your father, sister thrown out of your own house. All it requires is a single complaint by wife. This is applicable even if any women shows apprehension “I anticipate Domestic violence against me”. It does not matter if you are a husband or a boyfriend, you will be thrown out from the house where you co-habit. Your bank accounts will be frozen. It will be upto you then to prove your innocence. She would not be expected to prove anything; a woman’s words are taken as gospel truth in India. Congress government considers all wives and daughter-in-laws to be born in Raja Harish Chandra’s family. Although lakhs of families have suffered, Congress government had not taken any corrective action and hence husbands and their families continue to suffer on a daily basis.

•Do you know who have given the wholesale free license to your wife to commit adultery and still not be classed as a crime? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know who have given the whole sale free license to your wife to abuse your old age parents and sisters and still not be classed as crime? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know who have given the whole sale free license to your wife to throw you and your elderly, frail parents from your own home? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know who have given the whole sale free license to your wife to kill your Unborn child and still not be classed as crime? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know who have given the whole sale free license to your wife to stop you from seeing your own child? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know that even a terrorist has the right to stay in his own home, but an Indian husband does not have any right to stay in his own home, if his wife demands the same under DV act; and who have made this law? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know who gave whole sale free license to your wife to beat, abuse, refuse food to your child, while you cant even question this, since questioning her will be classed as abuse? Anti-Men MPs.
•Do you know if your wife demands Rs10,000 for her kitty party and you give Rs8000, you have committed a crime by giving her less. And who drafted this law? Anti-Men MPs.

•A man or child cannot file a case of rape against a woman. However she can continue to rape you every day or cut your body into a dozen pieces. Who has drafted laws to protect such women? Anti-Men MPs.

This is the sad state of affairs in the current Legal system in India, a system created by Anti-Men Congress government.

Adultery for a wife is not a criminal offence. If anything, it is a rewarding option that generates free money for the rest of her life. However for a man, even questioning her intentions is labelled “Name calling” and is a crime as per Indian law. In such instances, the husband, his sister, his elderly mother and father can also be put behind bars under the DV act.

We have researched court records and identified that women who rush to courts to extort money from innocent husbands are often well educated, working, physically able to earn. They not only file one, but many cases such as 498A, mentioning that they were ill-treated by their husbands’ for money. However they shamelessly ask for money openly in front of Police, media and courts. Supreme court recognised these patterns and hence labelled ‘Legal terrorism’. It is also worth noting that if a wife earns money and a husband is unable to earn due to any physical disability, husband is not eligible for maintenance from the working woman. It does not matter if he had previously earned lakhs/crores and given it all to his wife.


So the question arises: Are Indian Husbands a Free ATM Machine for Indian wives? As per Anti-Male MPs and politicians, the answer is: Yes. 

In the current legal system, a wife can claim maintenance from 4 different laws, like Section24, Crpc125, section18 and Domestic Violence act. This leads to a horrifying abuse and mockery of the Indian Judiciary System. Such greedy wives file 3 to 4 different cases in different courts, in different states. I ask, is this not wastage of Judicial resources? Is this not a violation of Indian constitution, which clearly states that a person cannot be convicted for the same offence more than once? If so, why are 4 different maintenance cases allowed against a Husband, even if the husband has committed an offence?

Gender wise, Statistics of number of victims of Murders, Suicides and Accidents all over India, in Year 2009 (courtesy: Ministry of Home Affairs, Indian Government) to understand whose life in more danger: men or women?

Murder:
http://ncrb.nic.in/CII-2009-NEW/cii-2009/Table%203.3.pdf
Male Victims-24,441, Female Victims-8,718 Total Victims-33,159
Culpabale Homicide Not Amounting To Murder (Sec.304 and 308 IPC) During 2009
http://ncrb.nic.in/CII-2009-NEW/cii-2009/Table%203.4.pdf
Male Victims=3,529, Female Victims=753 Total Victims=4282
Dowry Death Convictions (75% dowry death cases are false and lead to no convictions)
http://ncrb.nic.in/CII-2009-NEW/cii-2009/Table%204.9.pdf
http://ncrb.nic.in/cii2008/cii-2008/Table%204.9.pdf
http://ncrb.nic.in/cii2007/cii-2007/Table%204.9.pdf
In 2009, 2008 and 2007 the dowry death convictions are 1882, 1948 and 1946 respectively.
These dowry deaths are too small a number for a country of 1.2 billion people.
Accidental Deaths:
http://ncrb.nic.in/CD-ADSI2009/table-1.4.pdf
Male Victims=276,333(77.4%) Female Victims=80,688 (22.6%) Total Victims=357021
Suicides:
http://ncrb.nic.in/CD-ADSI2009/table-2.5.pdf
Male Victims=81,471 Female victims=45,680 (Total Victims=127151)
(Male Victims=64.1%, female Victims=35.9%)
Total Victims of Suicide, Murder and Accidents:
Male Victims=361,333(73%) Female Victims=135,839 (27%)

Despite these statistical facts, there is no LAW to Protect Men- Why?

Will Our LAW Makers ever change the LAW 304B (dowry death) to 304C (Sowry Death) and 498A (Dowry harassment to wife) to 498B (Sowry harrasement by wife)?

Our Proposal :

If you really want the LAWS not to be misused left, right and center; if you want the laws 498A/DV act to change to prevent their misuse: "Vote for any Party but not to Anti-Men Politicians.

or

Be ready to watch Rape statistics doubling in next two years and becoming yet another extortion, blackmailing and easy money earning business for all Advocates, Policemen and greedy women.

Summary of our Recommendations:

We Request that you meet your MP/MLA/Ministers and demand:

1)    Make Rape Law/498A/DV act/CRPC125/Proposed IRBM- Gender Neutral as in other countries across the globe
2)    Relationship cheating/ending cases should not be allowed to be converted into rape cases which drain the scarce resources from genuine rape cases.
3)    Those filing/alleging false complaints of Rape cases should be severely punished, so that genuine cases like ‘Nirbhaya, get justice.
4)    Introduce the much required police reforms to increase conviction rates of rape cases
5)    Introduce the much required judicial reforms for speedier justice and to increase conviction rates of rape cases.

·        All references to “Man” or “Woman” must be replaced with the word “Person” or “Whosoever”
·        All references to the words “His” or “Her” to be must be replaced with the word “His or Her”
·        All references to the words “He” or “She” must be replaced with the word “He or She”
·        All references to the words ‘Husband” or “Wife” must be replaced with the word “Spouse”

Live-in-relationship or marriage disputes should not be included in the Sexual Assault as the same is already covered under Domestic Violence act.

Danger for Future Children & Men:

Justice Verma Committee had seen only one side of the coin with biased view. The committee give a big lecture of International law and Justice system, but failed to identify the real problem and totally remained blind to the suffering Men and children face at the hands of a "Rapist women". They also completely ignored to take into account cases of "False/Fabricated Rape".

The final punch:

Indian Women say: Murder any man and demand immunity under IPC 100 saying “He was trying to rape me”. When they do they thank #justiceverma

We had repeatedly requested and given all the examples suffering of Indian husbands and demanded all Gender Biased LAWS should immediately to be made gender neutral rather than assuming that women never lie and all men are born Criminals. "MAN/WOMAN" word to be replaced by word "PERSON" and word wife/husband to be replaced with the word "SPOUSE".

Despite our efforts, it fell on deaf ears of Government. In return the Ex-WCD minister shamelessly said: It’s the turn of Indian men to suffer, as women have suffered for long”. This is like saying Muslim Kings had destroyed lots of temple, so let demolish all Mosques in India.

·         Don’t trust Your Men, trust Condom, and this statement is given to reduce the incidence of AIDS. How can people ignore the fact that AIDS spreads by having sex with multiple partners and condoms can be used for multiple sex partners. We term married couples as single partners and encourage trust in them. 

·         A Diwali Gift to Indian women. (Within two weeks, four women were send behind bars under first DV act case in Pune and one elderly woman had to leave her own house since her daughter-in-law walked into her house with her all friends and parents.

There is another option: Vote for congress and ensure more and more suffering takes place. Not only congress, all other political parties will consider increasing the suffering of Husbands and their family members. Such husbands and their families cannot ensure defeat or reduction in vote share of such parties, so let them create more and more anti-husband, anti-family, anti-child and anti-men biased and lopsided laws in this country.


Choice is yours; you must remember “The crying baby gets the milk”. 

Anti-Men government has converted the Indian Criminal Justice system as a whole sale, free money earning business though Legal Extortion from Husbands and their families.

Vote for any party, but not to Anti-Men Politicians/MPs. By doing this you will give a clear message that anti-husband, anti-men, anti-family and anti-child laws and policies will no more be tolerated by Indian citizens.


Save Family Foundation, Men Right Associations along with more than 40 NGOs all over India request you to Send the "Anti-Men-MP" Name in Comment section with reason. We will publish the final list of all such MPs after review with all 40 NGO heads.

If any MP feels he/she is not Anti-Men they can give their justification and explain what they have done with our Proposals.


Election 2014: Vote for any party, but not to Anti-Men MP.




13 comments:

Anonymous said...

Anti-Men M.P. did not supported 498a proposed amendment of SC.

1. Shri Bhagat Singh Koshyari – Chairman
2. Shri Ram Vilas Paswan
3. Shri Nandi Yellaiah**
4. Shri Rajeev Shukla
5. Shri Avinash Pande
6. Shri Balavant alias Bal Apte
*7. Shri P. Rajeeve
8. Shri Veer Pal Singh Yadav
9. Shri Paul Manoj Pandian
10. Shri Rajaram

Stop Abuse Men said...

Thanks : Will review with all NGO head and will make final list for every constituency.

Anonymous said...

The list those M.P. who made Anti-Men IrBM LAW.
Shrimati Jayanthi Natarajan –– Chairperson
RAJYA SABHA
2. Shri Shantaram Laxman Naik
3. Dr. Abhishek Manu Singhvi
4. Shri Balavant alias Bal Apte
Shri Ram Jethmalani
6. Shri Parimal Nathwani
7. Shri Amar Singh
8. Shri Ram Vilas Paswan
Shri O. T. Lepcha

LOK SABHA
11. Shri N.S.V. Chitthan
12. Shrimati Deepa Dasmunsi
. Shrimati Jyoti Dhurve
14. Shri D.B. Chandre Gowda
15. Dr. Monazir Hassan
16. Shri Arjun Munda
17. Shri Shailendra Kumar
18. Shrimati Chandresh Kumari
9. Shri Bhajan Lal
20. Dr. Kirodi Lal Meena
21. Ms. Meenakshi Natarajan
22. Shri Devji M. Patel
23. Shri Harin Pathak
24. Shri Lalu Prasad
25. Shri S. Semmalai
26. Shri Vijay Bahadur Singh
27. Dr. Prabha Kishor Taviad
28. Shri Manish Tewari
29. Shri R. Thamaraiselvan
30. Adv. P.T. Thomas (Idukki)

Stop Abuse Men said...

Thanks will review .

Anonymous said...

Arun Jetheli : Made crpc125 unlimited and in IRBM desperate to rob the husbands money or property

Anonymous said...

Mass hysteria created against men...these biased law like 125,DV,498a has killed indian society where a bad women misuse it and whole India knew about it but they do not attempt to amend it...god save indian,men.

Atit Rajpara said...

high time that men should understand who works for their rights and who don't.. Boycotting such MPs is only option..

CSK said...

It is really shameful for our country that for one rape case in delhi, such a barbaric law is passed in parliament which is a death trap for 70 crore men living in this country including the future generation. This rape case had been so much highlighted by media morons and feminist that we had forgotten all the scam and brutality of this government. Lakhs of false cases of 498a, DV, 125crpc, rape is being filed by fraud women without any fear and punishment for falsely accusing the men and no punishment is given by our courts. Govt is silently enjoying with all these brutality against men and doing scam.I sense a big conspiracy of this govt by implementing these biased laws in our country which are being imported from 3rd world without understanding our culture and traditions.
THESE BIASED LAWS ARE AN OPEN RAPE OF MEN.
WE CONDEMN THIS> WE DEMAND SEPARATE MINISTRY FOR MEN WELFARE.

susinjan bhattcharya said...

it is shameful to be an Indian, where gender biased laws prevail over national development and politics. Supreme court knwos that these is legal terrorism, but nver says it is unconstitutional, and govt. uses female organizations to promote their vote banks. and these people get elected every time, its time to change this equation, boycott all these who are supporting and spreading legal terrorism. put the country under president's rule.

Stop Abuse Men said...

It is time to get together and give message to all Mp that if they do not act we will campaign against them. Can u mention any MP name who as per you are anit-men in yr area with examples?

Stop Abuse Men said...

Good that is the reason he advocate minim 50% property in IRBM in rajyasabha irrespective the same earned by husband before marriage or wife have 100 crs with her.

Stop Abuse Men said...

Very good example, his musk exposed, need more such examples to expose their mask, when they come to beg vote will ask them why they are anti-men?

Stop Abuse Men said...

Many of u might of seen Yesterday debate in LokSabha. Many MP had raised their concern for Misuse of law , but as per me is best was SP head Muluam Singh and TMC Kalan Bannerjee.

As decided we will not support any individual party , it will be candidate based, but from the debate it looks our Political campaign had made some difference that some MP shown courage openly raised the Law-Misuse issue in parliament. Need more effort to recronise Misuse of law is also a crime and it is legal terrorism. All law misuse excuses is not acceptable as there is difference between normal misuse and Gross Misuse. Criminal Justice System can't be converted to money extortion or Property grabing Tools.

So let all make your own action plan and execute it.

Yesterday "Life OK" also telecast a program where mentioned as group "Save indian family" working for abused men.
Awareness is key to success to "STOP ABUSE OF MEN".
Put your review of Mp name here IN comment section:

Send this link to maximum people through mail, Fb,
Twitters and also put your comment , so that we can summarize and issue the final list before elections.
Only Crying is not going to solve yr problem, this is a long fight , fight for the cause , you will win personnel battle also AS WE WITNESS IN MAXIMUM CASES.