tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post4085675354808503070..comments2023-12-05T06:17:17.617-08:00Comments on STOP ABUSE OF MEN: Effect of Divorce on Indian Men !Stop Abuse Menhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05451011174620879006noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-72053064451543664692017-02-14T12:54:10.152-08:002017-02-14T12:54:10.152-08:00Thank you all. I gained a very good idea as how to...Thank you all. I gained a very good idea as how to move ahead with the similar challenge I too facing from my wife.<br />Me too was looking for some kind of campaign or "Raise the voice" against law that favor-ism towards Women only - the way above Anonymous said.<br />I married this girl in 2010; and she started showing her blundered nature from day-2 of our marriage. I tried for 4 years to save my marriage by being with her, supporting her, spending money to most of her needs to satisfy, higher studies, facilities, crying and finally even begging to her knee to make my family by being with me as a good wife - BUT NO GO till today.<br />Now we staying separately and I bearing all her monthly expense since last 2 years.<br />She enjoying taking money from me and spending life with her friends and circle.<br />She refuses to give me a divorce.<br />There were too much too talk about her including its me who approached the police and social organization talking harassment she gave me - But that turned back on me.<br />-BNAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-11443458500112142732016-08-20T01:24:40.871-07:002016-08-20T01:24:40.871-07:00Thanks for sharing Effect of Divorce on Indian Men...Thanks for sharing Effect of Divorce on Indian Men !, This blog is best for divorce persons.... I like your post. Thanks...Megastaghttp://www.megastag.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-46581286024457328972016-05-06T03:36:50.066-07:002016-05-06T03:36:50.066-07:00We had been married for a while and things were OK...We had been married for a while and things were OK, I was in love with her, she was crazy about me, but later on everything changed and by complicated exterior circumstances which did not have to do with us, we decided to pause for a while, but still remain friends. But in the end, she started getting cold: she treated me as if she did not know me, she acted too immature to the point where she did not even say hi to me when we bumped into each other (we had the same circle of friends). Of course, it hurt so badly, I wanted to kill her. Then out of nowhere she disappeared. I wrote her for her birthday and she replied little. Some of my “friends” saw she had left and started going cold with me too, as if it was my fault that she had left. The few that were still my close friends and still hers, told me she had moved on, that it was best not to make contact with her. Then out of the blue some months later she reappeared, but still acting like a douche. I was suffering emotionally of course, because we had never even had a divorce, it was just supposed to be a pause, so I did not know how to react, what to feel, what to do… anyway, she kept coming over and over on the weekends, and I had to deal with my “friends” who the moment they saw her, immediately left me and went over to her. Eventually, I decided to give up trying to restore anything with her as she was showing no signs of wanting me back, and started healing. Around four months after we had ended our relationship, I find out she is with another guy! That’s when I knew I had not gotten over her, because I cried, I was mad, it was just a feeling of “oh, poor me”. I could not stand losing her to some other guy, I decided to go diabolical (i.e. via spell). I got involved with a lot of fraudulent so-called spell casters on the internet who ripped me off my money without getting a result as to what I wanted. I almost lost my sanity. Just as I almost was giving up, one faithful morning, I received a mail from one of the spell castes I had applied for spell with but never got a reply all along. He made me to understand that he could not attend to all his costumers then because it was that time of the year for his annual fellowship with his ancestors for the renewal of his spiritual and supernatural gift. I told him not to worry about the spell anymore, that I was done with all of them fake spell casters. He assured me of his 100% genuine work of this gift which he possessed. I decided to give it a try. After spending about 2500 USD (which was due to my inability to provide a whole lot of materials which he needed for the spell process), I am happy to announce to the world that I have gotten back my wife and we are expecting our first baby. All thanks to Dr. Kene Dilli. All you out there tired of all these fraudsters that call themselves spell casters (seeking to rip were they have not sown) and you require legitimate spell for whatsoever purpose, contact Dr. Kene Dilli on his email address; kenedillitemples AT yahoo DOT comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02360961631252969122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-2226828511959010392016-04-11T19:42:50.304-07:002016-04-11T19:42:50.304-07:00My wife has been involved with 3 men since we'...My wife has been involved with 3 men since we've been married for 8 years, it was an intercaste love marriage. Recently I discovered that my also drinks n smoke, men used to come at my home while I used to work in office, one of them was my office colleague, I'm really hurt to the core, but at the same time I think of my daughter with whom I'll be separated if I file for divorce. I'm really confused at present. Because of my wife's adultery my work has taken a hit, my cibil has gone down, I'm heavily debtridden. Sometimes I also think to end my life but just because of my daughter I don't want to take that drastic step. I bought this flat with my wife being coapplicant. I've left no interest in paying home loan where my wife cheated on me. I feel caged in my own house. Sometimes I feel to hand over this house n go away. I need all your suggestions n guidance. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-36165939500741467822016-03-22T04:50:54.117-07:002016-03-22T04:50:54.117-07:00My advice to all men after reading this blog.
1....<br />My advice to all men after reading this blog. <br /><br />1. Man is made of steel. Man is powerful. Man is a tiger. Man cannot be cowed down by his wife or police or the law.<br /><br />2. There is nothing wrong if a man goes to jail for the right cause including fighting false 498A filed by his wife. If you haven't done anything wrong, you won't be punished. Post aquittal, a man will ensure he files harassment cases against his wife, her family members and the police officers who harassed him and his family. A man never forgives his enemies. Remember that police fears backlash too. They would never arrest a person if they realize that the person has a vindictive nature and will get back at them strongly. They fear to lose their jobs if they are found guilty of torturing a person without reason.<br /><br />3. A real man loves his wife and so will never divorce her. He will never beat his wife but is powerful enough to defend himself as well as intimidate his wife and her family members. After all, a sheep's family cannot harm a tiger.<br /><br />4. A man will make his wife mend her ways and fall in line whether she likes it or not. There are many ways to do that like showing love, being stern, public humiliation, financial and social isolation, mental torture etc.<br /><br />5. If 1000 men in this country take a stand to repair their existing wives rather than getting a new one, it will send a strong message to the whole country and even lawmakers will be forced to amend the law.<br /><br />6. A wife is not bad. She is just misled by her perception that her husband is weak. The moment she realizes that her husband is strong and even the police and the court cannot cow him down, she will immediately fall in line. It is a man's duty to make his wife realize that he is too powerful and all her struggles against him are futile. Over a period of time (maybe after 30-40 years) she will eventually give in and fall in love with her man.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-56945652417740731292016-03-17T22:55:01.507-07:002016-03-17T22:55:01.507-07:00Your summaries are always top-notch. Thanks for ke...Your summaries are always top-notch. Thanks for keeping us apprised. I’m reading every word here<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://www.arnolddgoldstein.com" rel="nofollow">Divorce</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11852553070210878328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-56345834791395361412016-02-15T21:28:18.209-08:002016-02-15T21:28:18.209-08:00Really a great blog with a best thoughts and ideas...Really a great blog with a best thoughts and ideas are shared thanks for sharing..<br />for more related information visit:: <a href="http://www.sbfamilylawyers.com.au/articles/property-settlements-divorce-lawyers-common-myths/" rel="nofollow">Divorce Lawyers Sydney</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00534670985883471950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-84032866583170864212016-01-05T00:50:38.553-08:002016-01-05T00:50:38.553-08:00men should become bolder. there is no point in lam...men should become bolder. there is no point in lamenting. i have been fighting a divorce and 498 since last 6 yrs. Unable to see my son for years. i dont want to give the bitch a simple divorce. i want to teach her a lesson that she will get more than what she asked for. in the process i may get affected in my career and the position in the so called white collar society. Fxxx with that.<br />i realized how a common man is living peacefully without any white collar. <br />i too had cried and thought of suicide in the beginning. but 498a made me stronger. One day in lockup... that changed the total outlook. Dont be afraid of being in jail.. that is a place where u will learn many survival skills.<br /><br />Somebody pointed out majority of the 498a cases are arising in middle class white collar families. We are brought up to fear everything. There is nothing to be afraid of in this world, if you think yourselves that you are not an "in-expendable" commodity. Actually u are not!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-28601529096350129722015-12-23T21:51:27.799-08:002015-12-23T21:51:27.799-08:00You are right sir. It is true that we men stood n ...You are right sir. It is true that we men stood n fought against any sort of injustice in the world, including injustice against women. It's high time that we must stand united once again and fight against this fraudulent women who destroy innocent men. Let's develop a forum, law, agency n awareness among men to fight hard n win against odds. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-1339640969597119372015-07-23T05:14:18.943-07:002015-07-23T05:14:18.943-07:00HiiiHiiiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-69811632942344209472015-05-27T03:32:00.055-07:002015-05-27T03:32:00.055-07:00Rightly said.. Woman have all the rights and sympa...Rightly said.. Woman have all the rights and sympathy..society is with her, law is with her.. All a man can do is sit back and gobble all the pain and tension in the marriage, but don't say a word..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-6557670813748159122015-04-20T19:41:26.009-07:002015-04-20T19:41:26.009-07:00Solution: Do not marry, just live in relation. Or,...Solution: Do not marry, just live in relation. Or, get a pre-nupital agreement where eitger party gives up right on before marriage property. Third, if wife try to take advantage and misuse the kaw then dont goto court. Just take care of the siruation. May be at a far kesser cist :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-59865170086967931292015-04-09T11:10:13.672-07:002015-04-09T11:10:13.672-07:00Facing the same problem... This women has made my ...Facing the same problem... This women has made my life hell.rajhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08196331657500278046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-24752771042360463562015-03-10T02:38:10.155-07:002015-03-10T02:38:10.155-07:00Great blog........Thanks for sharing info.Divorce ...Great blog........Thanks for sharing info.Divorce grounds vary significantly from country to country. Marriage is (particularly in the West) seen as a contract, as such, the refusal or inability of one spouse to perform the obligations stipulated in the contract may constitute a ground for divorce for the other spouse.<a href="http://www.sydneywillslawyer.com.au/" rel="nofollow">Probate Lawyers Sydney</a>fitzjames41@gmail.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00909179365697884199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-11704445995184706982015-02-12T08:59:42.377-08:002015-02-12T08:59:42.377-08:00Divorce Evidence kit and facts for parents in divo...<a href="http://www.bestinterestofchildren.org/" rel="nofollow"> Divorce </a>Evidence kit and facts for parents in divorce on what is best for children to obtain equal custody in family court.sandeshsainihttp://bestinterestofchildren.org/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-57309951035898267292014-12-10T22:59:32.048-08:002014-12-10T22:59:32.048-08:00mr sarkar sir !
your work is great.
be care f...mr sarkar sir !<br /><br /> your work is great.<br /><br />be care full with the male feminists they will come and join your organaisation they will dilute mens organaisatiaons .principles.<br /><br />they are double gamers.<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05575793422303996878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-24093918207211051632014-12-10T22:56:29.818-08:002014-12-10T22:56:29.818-08:00
a man is sent o jail if he ask money from his ...<br /><br /> a man is sent o jail if he ask money from his wife.<br /><br />but a girl and girls father asking a bridegroom what is the salary.when the time before marriage it self.<br /><br />at the time a girls family asking a bridegroom what is the salary ? they should be arrested.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05575793422303996878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-89287765559003815302014-12-10T22:55:41.432-08:002014-12-10T22:55:41.432-08:00friend. i am feeling for you.
a man is sent o j...friend. i am feeling for you.<br /><br /> a man is sent o jail if he ask money from his wife.<br /><br />but a girl and girls father asking a bridegroom what is the salary.when the time before marriage it self.<br /><br />at the time a girls family asking a bridegroom what is the salary ? they should be arrested.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05575793422303996878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-79323301390590806202014-12-10T22:45:15.153-08:002014-12-10T22:45:15.153-08:00a man is send to jail if he ask money from his wif...a man is send to jail if he ask money from his wife.<br /><br />the same man should give money to his wife. as compensation.<br /><br />this is cruel to menAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05575793422303996878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-66712119397861916832014-07-24T11:07:39.440-07:002014-07-24T11:07:39.440-07:00Hi Bro...I am also facing the same problem as your...Hi Bro...I am also facing the same problem as yours...your problem almost 95% matches with mine..Plz don't do suicide for the sake of ur wicked wife and in-laws...wait for time...time will only teach lesson to all...put all your burden on God and make yourself comfortable and stable and fight till you win ...All the best....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-71077000168774859812014-07-22T04:31:08.706-07:002014-07-22T04:31:08.706-07:00Bro awareness is key the way earlier u fooled by m...Bro awareness is key the way earlier u fooled by media and radical women orginasation many still in that phase and getting fooled join www.savefamily.in twitter team at leastStop Abuse Menhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05451011174620879006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-61939917360449302132014-07-21T22:36:06.534-07:002014-07-21T22:36:06.534-07:00It is men who are to blame for their misfortune.Yo...It is men who are to blame for their misfortune.You see when a rape occurs thousands of them come out on the street and create a scene and our ever clever politicians who are always on the prowl for giving advantages to women,minorities not because they are concerned but for votes take the advantage of the situation in bringing downright unjust,biased and discriminatory laws.Nowhere in the world are domestic violence,sexual harassment laws gender specific.How unfair it is to think that a man is ruined for life for an offence which if committed by a woman would not even be considered an offence.I initially supported women's cause but now after being enlightened by the horrendous actual misuse of laws by women and their apathy for injustice on men I urge all to stop protesting rapes,molestations and pass by without raising a voice since this is the same response from women on unfairness towards men.Even domestic violence is of varying degrees,should a simple argument between a husband and wife lead to jail for men and severe mental torture by wives as already portrayed above not be recognised as a wrongdoing?<br />NO MAN SHOULD SUPPORT WOMEN'S CAUSE,THIS IS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN PROTEST IN INDIA.<br />OH! HOW CAN YOUNG MEN LIKE ME LOVE SUCH AN UNFAIR COUNTRY,RESPECT SUCH UNFAIR LAWS?Men like me are being driven towards misogyny.Is there no solution?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-63135667763363463182014-07-18T13:03:18.243-07:002014-07-18T13:03:18.243-07:00Marriage is most hazardous if it does not work. Wo...Marriage is most hazardous if it does not work. Women, being educated, quickly learn the tactics to find a fault in men and implement their rules, thereby suppressing them, and once you have kids, you are doomed for the next 15 years easily, as kids are the weak point and they know this pretty well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-19456170427622312942014-07-13T00:22:36.444-07:002014-07-13T00:22:36.444-07:00Yes at least join FB Twitter team of www.savefamil...Yes at least join FB Twitter team of www.savefamily.inStop Abuse Menhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05451011174620879006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493375697867937053.post-10547797395329973912014-07-12T12:40:55.430-07:002014-07-12T12:40:55.430-07:00Since years men are fighting for their safety and ...Since years men are fighting for their safety and security however there hasnt been much improvrment/corrections in law. There has to be an impact, severe impact on indian government, law and order so that they are forced to make necessary ammendments in law to ensure both men and women are protected. <br />Everybody can post their suggestions for hugh impact...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com