#StopAbuseMen a movement intends to work for Men's welfare and strongly believe in replacing the word Men/Women by Person and Husband/Wife by Spouse in any Government law or policy.
#MenToo are Human, they also have Constitutional Right to Live & Liberty with Dignity (#Article21 ) .
#Unfairlaw or Policy can not bring Fairness in any Society, it only kills fairness in Justice System and harmony in Society. #SpeakUpMan.
Help Line for abused/distressed Men ( SIF - One): +91-8882498498.
#लड़कीहूँलड़सकतीहूँ : सब के पता है। Boys be #Mangina FREE !
Abusing, Cheating, blackmailing, extortion of money from Men/Husband/BF they can do without any fear of Law in India. #NoVoteToMaleHaters who are silent #CrimeAgainstMen .
#MarriageAgeDebate: My Live discussion with @JM_NEWS_INDIA .
#MarriageAge increase is irrelevant. Without amend #ChildMarraigeAct it will lead to more sexual disease, unwanted Pregnancy, Abortion, Fake #RapeCase increase, Extortion from Boys family.
1.18 Crore Men Missing in India over past 4 years: NFHS-5
NFHS i.e. National Family Health Survey is conducted by IIPS along
with other groups designated by Ministry of Health & Family Welfare (MoHFW)
and is funded by USAID, UNICEF. Till date, 5 such surveys have been done and
much of the reliance is placed by the Indian law makers on the NHFS data, when
it comes to “assuming” about the ground realities.
The latest survey, NFHS-5 was done over 2019-2021 and recently
some key highlights were published. The key findings are available on the NFHS
website but we wish to draw the attention towards what was either ignored or
celebrated big time to cover up the biggest “GENDER-SCAM”
of India.
CRITICAL POINTERS:
ØSex Ratio (Female to Male) in NFHS-5 has become 1020 women over
1000 Men. In NFHS-4 (2015-2016), the same ratio was 991. So there is an
increase of almost 3% i.e. 29/1000.
This is the
celebration that most Feminist theory appeasers are having.
ØSex Ratio at birth increased 1% i.e. from 919 from 929 female over
1000 male from NFHS-4 to NFHS-5.
So,
while there are only 10 additional births of females, but there are 29 lesser
males from total population thus bringing the total differential of about 19
(i.e 1.9%) extra males less over past 4 years (gap between the NFHS4 & 5).
Even if we assume the total population to be same as Census 2011 of 62, 37,
24,248 total males, what we have lost is minimum 1,18, 50,760 i.e. minimum 1.18
Crore.
ØPopulation below 15 Years has fallen from 28.6% in NFHS-4 to 26.5%
in NFHS-5. Which means, that as a country, we are getting older.
This
also implies another derivation that the MISSING MEN of INDIA are mostly
adults. The derivation also looks true, looking at the increase of suicides
amongst men (Adults) as per NCRB (National Crime Records Bureau, Ministry of
Home Affairs) data.
ØPercentage of Women who did 10 Years schooling has increased by
5.3% while for Men, it has increased by 3.1% only between NFHS-4 to NFHS-5.
This
also shows how the school dropout rate of Male gender is much higher than the
Female Gender. Most boys are subjected to child labour and the number keeps
growing. This is why, we see a lesser growth of 10Y schooling amongst boys/Men.
But then, no one will ask this question to the Ministry of Women & CHILD
development or Ministry of Education.
ØDiabetes amongst Men is 15.6% as against 13.5% amongst Women as
per NFHS-5.
ØHigh Blood Pressure in Men also stands at 24% as against 21.3%
amongst Women.
Thus,
the biggest killers in India i.e. the Cardiac Issues and Diabetes killed more
men, than women. But Ministry of Health and Family Welfare will continue to
ignore this killer effect on men.
ØLast but not the least, look at the Questionnaire of NFHS-5, which
was a 96 page one for Women but just 38 page one for Men. So more so, that the
questions about being victim of say Domestic Violence were NOT EVEN ASKED from
Male gender, when there are various known cases, court observations around Men
being victims of Domestic Violence. JUST THINK WHY?
ØEarlier when we send our suggestion to NHFS-4 to include the same
question to #MenToo for Domestic Violence on Men, in written reply to us they said:
It can’t be included at this stage as data module capturing software already finalised
and our suggestion will be considered next time. But it looks intentionally the
same has been avoid to hide the actual data of Domestic Violence on Men.
So, while NFHS has shown critical BIAS in its survey when done on either gender, the data shows very clear crimes that men are subjected to in the country by the society/laws/government. E.g.:
1.There are more than 1.18 Crores of Men missing. These Missing men
are combination of Male deaths in India, of which Suicides is a big component.
As per NCRB, Family Issues are the biggest reason of Suicides. India forces
over 1.08 lakh men to commit suicide every year & the number keeps growing
(already 2.5 times to that of Women) but no effort made by Govt or Judiciary to
reduce the same.
2.Of these missing men, more are from ages of more than 15 years.
But “11.8 MILLION INDIAN MEN MISSING” won’t be a campaign which will interest
the world, as who cares about lives of Men?
3.Boys School Dropout rate, Boys Child Labour Rate and Boys sexual
assault rate doesn’t bother the society or the Government or the Law Makers.
That’s why the Law Makers conveniently made Boys an easier target of sexual
crimes by making changes to the Rape Law. Also, with stress on #Beti only,
#Beta of India are bound to suffer.
4.Men’s Health will continue to be ignored as probably Breast cancer
has higher importance than Prostate cancer or Life of Women, Plants; Animals
are of higher value of that of Men.
Lastly, surveys like NFHS, which clearly scream of BIAS in their
data selection and data collection will continue to be the basis of Law Making
in India because CRIME AGAINST MEN will be ignored forever.
Hence, we strongly recommend following to the
Government of India to:
1.Issue a National Helpline for Suicide Prevention
only for Men & Boys
2.Form National Commission for Men to look into clear
issues faced by Male gender
3.Separate Child ministry from WCD Ministry and make
it as a separate Ministry
4.Boys Education, Boys Child Labour, Boys Sexual
Assault, all need to get same priority as that for girls
NFHS must be directed to have a Gender Neutral
survey questionnaire, process for data collection [there can always be sections
which may not be applicable to the one being surveyed]
#NFHS5 data shows our Law & policy makers @HMOIndia@MinistryWCD@PMOIndia killed more than 1crs Men/Boys killed more to increase women numbers. This is real fact-rest all Bakwas ! Do any one care to question Govt for such mass killing of Men/Boys? @ZeeNews@ndtv@DDNewsHindi
"Guzara Bhatta" - MWT talks to Honey Chourasia https://t.co/a3l2KoxYa3 via @YouTube MWT chats with the Director, Singer, Honey Chourasia @honey_chaurasia about his journey for new song, "Guzara Bhatta". Must watch & Share for awareness #GuzaraBhattaSong !!
Men and Boys get Raped by women and Girls are Harsh Reality !
But unfortunately our Law Makers , Judiciary, Media and Feminist Gang never consider the same as Crime.
Hence all the #RapistWomen moving free in our Society and Men/boys suffer in Silence.
#SpeakUpMen & rise your voice to amend the #RapleLaw gender Natural .
#Article21 : Live &Liberty with Dignity-a constitutional Right of Men had been snatched away by Indian Law makers, Judiciary, Police & Media.
#Hope4DignifiedLife for Men had been totally destroyed.
Lucknow Girl slapping poor Taxi Driver in open road : It's not the first case or will be last case , where girls/women beating Men/boys without any fear of law or police, as they know even if they kill men/boy, she will get scot free just by simple cry of molestation or rape.
Now if any such act like Men/boys beating Women/Girls , not only he , all men community had been held accountable by #Feminsit gang . All political party had been taken protest march , rise issue at parliament , asked resign of Chief Minister , but when the victim is Men all became silent . Men/Boys vote had been taken as granted in India.
लड़की करे तो अवार्ड , और लड़का करे तो गाली ? चुप मत रहो , बोलो लड़कों, अब और चुप मत रहो .
पुरुषों की 4 कहानियां, जिन्हें जेल जाना पड़ा, मुकदमेबाजी में लुटे, करियर तबाह हो गया; एक स्टूडेंट ने तो जान दे दी https://t.co/NtxxNPUiGh#Feminist will keep killing men/boys-they have whole sale free license to do crime & get scot free via victim card #SpeakUpMen@HMOIndia
थप्पड़ खाओ, क्यूकी आप पुरुष हो : Women beat Car driver at Panipat . Open #GundaGiri by girls/women against Men/Boys increasing as Police & Law makers does not consider #CrimeByWomen against Men serious offence. @PANIPAT_POLICE@cmohry if this done by any Men-have been u silent? https://t.co/nZifOkzefu
#SwatiMaliwal yesterday you were asking : किसने अधिकार दिया इस लड़की को मारपीट करने का? Just see below it's from Delhi by our Government appointed women how beating Poor Bus Driver .https://t.co/9vk9cYaUo4 Now would you please answer who had given such right to beat Driver?
ग्रेटर नोएडा बीच सड़क पर लड़की लड़के को मारती हुई नजर आई वीडियो तेजी से हो रहा है वायरल जेवर कस्बे का बताया जा रहा है वीडियो लड़की लड़के को मोबाइल की दुकान के पास जबरन पीटती नजर आई वीडियो तेजी से हो रहा है वायरल जेवर थाना क्षेत्र का मामला #lucknowgirlarrested#viral@Uppolicepic.twitter.com/nK9brzDynm
Viral video: Two women allegedly assaulted officials issuing challan in Delhi, arrested https://t.co/jhQSq49kox थप्पड़ खाओ, क्यूकी आप पुरुष हो ? There is absolutely no fear of law. Such women's does not deserve to stay in civilized society. #HangThem till death @HMOIndia
A Nurse abused n slapped a Doctor in the presence of Police at Rampur Civil Hospital. Now neither the age matters nor post nor seniority bt what matters is who is woman and who is a man. Every time a woman abuses nd slaps a man she escapes without any punishment@myogiadityanathpic.twitter.com/ma7kkCq1ga
— National Commission For Men (@NCMIndiaa) April 30, 2021
A woman can thrash a man, leave him black & blue, just say "बत्तमीजी कर रहा था" & she can get away. People will make videos but no one will come forward & rescue the man or ask what did he do that justify this mob (in-) justice which is happening.
#LawMakers, Police, Judiciary, Media all silent as the suffer are men. @myogioffice u are very active to create anti-Remo squad, but the real need in UP state is anti-#बत्तमीजऔरत squad @BJP4UP .https://t.co/YmBzxZT7iE थप्पड़ खाओ, क्यूकी आप पुरुष हो ? Stop vote to anti-men party.
Rubaru with Mr. Suhaib Ilyasi
(Director & Producer - Hindi Movie, "Shaadi, Dahej & Gangster")
Synopsis: Jignesh Bhai Patel (Alok Nath) is a billionaire NRI businessman living in London with his wife Sudha (Reema Lagoo) and son Harsh. Their household is highly patriarchal and strictly follows Indian traditions. Harsh decides to marry a girl from India, unaware of the conspiracy set by his prospective in-laws, Deepak Tijori and Supriya Karnik. Will an entire gang in the guise of the ‘bride’ and her relatives bring his doom?
Starring: Harsh Nagar, Alok Nath, Farida Jalal, Reema Lagoo, Deepak Tijori, Deepraj Rana, Supriya Karnik
Directed By: Suhaib Ilyasi
Amit Lakhani, a well known Men's Rights Activist and President of Men Welfare Trust (Registered NGO), part of Save Indian Family (SIF) Movement, brings to you, this interview with the man behind this movie on the misuse of dowry harassment law.
Shaadi , Dahej and Gangster Movie Review : Rating 4.5 out of 5.
Shaadi , Dahej and Gangster released on OTT platform of
Shemaroo on 30th July ,2021.
The film is written and directed by none other than former
TV anchor Mr. Shuyabwho used to be a
House Hold name in India for his famous crime show "India’s Most Wanted”.
The film makes for a gripping watch with a crisp runtime
and top-notch performances by veteran actors like Farida Jalal , Deepak Tijori
, Alok Naath , Reema Lagoo , Supriya Karnik , Zarina Wahab , Anjan Srivastav ,
Deepraj Raana, Legendary Ghulam Ali khan along with young Harsh Nagar ,
Shrishti Gautam.
The film had wonder full melodious songs by Sonu Nigam ,
Sunidhi Chouhan , Shaan and Legendary Ghulam Ali Khan .
Surprise package Mr. Suhaibas actor too in the film, it seems he is Back in action once again after
almost a decade.
Start with a court room seen – where Public prosecutors
make wild allegation and emotional argument with full of Misandry in front of
lady Judge to convict a NRI husband family with IPC 498A, with commonly known
as anti-dowry law or Dahej in India.
Within few seconds the accused advocate exposes his open lie
in court with humor at best and viewers came to know a false dowry case had
been filed, but they don’t know how, why and when such cases had been filed.
Then the accused advocate present Husband side of story
with flash back from start.
A NRI family wants to get married their son with Indian
girl, start searching bride. Match makers bring a proposal for them and during
visit to the girl’s family home, the girl’s mother refused to allow meeting of
boy and girl before marriage as per their traditional values.
This impressed the NRI family. During conversation girl’s
mother asked about Dowry demand, on which the NRI family clearly said forget
about any dowry demand and even all marriage cost will be borne by groom’s
family.
They ignore many warning signs of girl’s family on blind
faith and go ahead for marriage. After marriage-once a child bore out of
wedlock- the girl’s mother along with an advocate cum property dealer gang up
with Police officer to snatch highly valued land worth of 200 crores of NRI family
which they bought for build up a Temple, Hospital, schools about 10 years back.
When NRI family refused to surrender on blackmailing and
extortion, girl’s mother plan to file IPC 498A cases, which commonly known as
Anti Dowry law or anti Dahej law in India.NRI family got arrested and sends to jail.
Media and court trails begin.
While packing in various standpoints to showcase the flash
back story, the screenplay also highlights how media and media trials take over
a criminal case of this nature.
During trail and before final order passed: Why bring tears
on the lady judge’s eyes?
Why lady judge have to say “Supreme court says there is no
Law which can allow commonsense to be kept at cold storage”?
Does law allowed to judge really to deliver the justice?
To find such un-answered question, you have to watch the
film.
Overall, Shaadi , Dahej and Gangstar is an audacious
effort. It is a relevant film that tackles a complex issue of grossly abused
Dowry Law in India which once supreme court of India also to be termed as
unleash legal Terrorism if such abuse of law not stopped. The final verdict of
the movie declares that will engage, inform and open up debates.
The most important part of the movie at end with the long
list of thanks and acknowledgement mentioned large number of NGO , Activist and
Helpline numbers for false accused victim to reach out for help , shows the
director and production team had spent enough time and research for the film to
create a much needed awareness to large public .
Our overall rating is 4.5 out of 5 and recommended to must
watch irrespective of your age, family back ground ,marital status and if you are a already
victim of false dowry cases, you will not be disappointed even to watch the
same 2 or 3 times too.
