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Vimal brings Sheetal and her parents to justice
Telecast Date: 19 Mar 2013
Sheetal files a complaint against Vimal for harassing her, and gets him and his parents arrested. Later, Dev gets them released on bail. Vimal informs Dev that Sheetal used to spend money lavishly, steal money from him and torture him. Sheetal sends divorce papers to Vimal and demands an apartment, Rs. 80 lakh, and Rs. 40 thousand per month as alimony. Vimal finds out that she was married twice before marrying him. He brings Sheetal and her parents to justice for cheating him.

Men’s Rights Activists are dismayed at lack of political will to protect men or Boys.

Men are Victim of Work Place Sexual Harassment

Activists fighting for men’s rights have expressed extreme amount of displeasure and dismay at the Cabinet’s decision on the rape law.

Background:

The discussion around the rape law gained ground after all media channels unanimously hyped a single case of Delhi gang-rape (December 16, 2012) and made it a national issue inciting public emotions against the male gender and accusing the Government not doing enough to protect women. This was despite the already existing toughly anti-male rape laws and 15 other laws targeted specifically against men which were draconian, barbaric and unconstitutional in nature.

Bowing down to the pressure from the feminist dominated media, the Govt. formed a committee under retired judge Justice Verma whose recommendations sought to convert every intra-gender (male-female) transaction into a non-bailable offense, punishable at the whim and fancy of the woman. All this was done under cute names like stalking, voyeurism, eve-teasing etc. Every definition of crime was not only vague but one-sided. None of the definitions included abuse of men by women.

However, on 3^rd February 2013, the Government passed an Ordinance called the Rape Ordinance which identified a wide variety of sexual assaults affecting both the genders and passed a gender neutral ordinance which covered male victims of sexual assault as well. This was a historic move wherein, for the first time in the history of India, a gender neutral law was passed which recognized the abuse of men as well and sought to protect them.

The Shocker:

However, the feminist and the feminist dominated media were extremely unhappy about men being protected and created a lot of hue and cry over the Ordinance being gender neutral and sought to nullify it calling it anti-women.

And the shocker came on the 11^th of March 2013, whence the Government actually did a U-Turn, reverting back the bill being gender biased and anti-male, renaming it as the “Anti-Rape Law” instead of erstwhile “Sexual Assault Bill”, leaving male victims of such offenses high and dry.

The consequences:

While, as we all know, it won’t be the case that with the passage of this yet another anti-male law, which does not cater to the problems of the male world, the lives of men are suddenly going to become risky.

Lives of men have always been risky as primarily it is the men who undertake huge risks in order to ensure cultural, technological and societal progress and selflessly men have lost their lives for the same, be it war or adventure or scientific inventions.

Whether it is a case of 5 army-men losing their lives attempting to safeguard the borders of India or a couple of fishermen losing their lives accidentally as they undertake daily risk of fishing in troubled waters in order to eke out a livelihood.

It’s just that, with this law, the lives of men are going to become riskier as now the streets have become extremely dangerous for men as now,

1. Any man who gets entangled with a woman in any sort of argument, which can be due to the woman’s fault or provoked by her will be converted into a false case of stalking or voyeurism and the man would be immediately arrested. For no fault of his, the man would be fighting a frivolous criminal battle.
2. Male victims of feminine sexual aggression, female sex offenders and female rapists would be embroiled in false rape cases wherein the perpetrator of the crime and the victim of the crime would just swap roles.
3. Boys facing sexual assault, inappropriate touch, and sexual oppression from girls and adult female relatives including Ayaahs would continue to face the horror and grow up with an impaired psychology which will affect their quality of life at every stage. It may potentially increase criminal bent of mind in such boys as they grow up to become men and this could rather increase the crime in the society than decreasing it.
4. Small political parties like Maharastra Navnirman Sena, Samajawadi Party, Bahujan Samajwadi Party will face greater risks as their male political cadre could be trapped in false cases of stalking and eve-teasing by opposite parties, especially big and powerful political parties, and this could be a serious blow to the political roadmap of these small parties, who now have no option but to listen to UPA 2.
5. Increase of false cases of rape, molestation, stalking, voyeurism, etc. and the subsequent jailing and harassment of innocent men would contribute towards the growing element of Gynophobia (fear of women). This would result in men shying away from women and mingling with them. In fact, already the helplines of men’s rights activists have started ringing with queries like, “Is it OK to refuse to escort a woman at night?”, “Is it OK to refuse to a movie with a woman at night?”, etc.
6. This will also affect the voting pattern as men’s rights activists have vowed not to vote and to discourage others from voting for either anti-male MPs or for those political parties who did not support the gender neutrality of the bill. They’d rather people to vote for independents or for parties like SP, BSP and the Trinamool Congress.
7. As per World News in UK along more than 64000 women had been convected for sexually abuse/rape the child . As India government failed to make the Rape law gender Neutral , will not massive women from such countries like UK will come to India and abuse the child , gang rape other women/men , as in India the same is not recornised as crime? Will not India became a safe heaven for such women as there is no punishment for rape the child, gang rape to other women and man by a women?

The Problems:

It was extremely disheartening to see that the Government was bowing down before a few women organizations and backed out on its decision to provide the society with a gender neutral law. It is pertinent to mention here that the electorate of India has not voted for these women organizations, whosoever they may be.

The electorate of India has voted the UPA 2 Government to power and wrested the power of law-making in their hands and it becomes the duty of the UPA 2 Government to ensure a safe and free society for all citizens irrespective of caste, religions, sex and creed. Even the constitution of India, vide Article 14, guarantees the same. And hence, this regressive step of removing gender neutrality from the law is an unconstitutional step by UPA 2 in the event of its failure to contain the anti-male women organizations filled with male hatred.

Demands:

1. The Houses must not pass the gender-biased version of the bill and must send it back to the Standing Committee for further review.
2. As the Justice Verma Committee totally ignored the presentations sent by the various men’s rights groups, the said Standing Committee should invite these groups and take their views into consideration.
3. The bill must not be passed in the absence of a strong misuse clause to prevent false cases from becoming yet another industry of extortion and revenge.
4. Government must form National Commission for Men and Men Welfare Ministry in order to avoid such last minute hassles and rushes in law making.
5. Only Gender Neutral laws must be passed.
6. Women organizations with vested interests and partisan agenda must not be encouraged to such an extent that they can literally hijack the law-making process.

We end this press release with an end-note of caution that more and more anti-male laws will lead to rise in crime in the society, choice belies with the Government whether to heed to the warning or face the consequences.
Election 2014: Vote for any party, but not to Anti-Men MP.

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Election 2014: Vote for any party, but not to Anti-Men MP.

Dear Citizens of India, especially husbands and their family members, I urge you to vote for any party, but NOT to vote any politician who is against men. 

Today we have more than 6 crore families suffering due to misuse of 498a that came into existence in 1983. Hon’ble Supreme Court labelled this law as ‘Legal Terrorism’ in 2005; however government has done nothing to stop this misuse. The recent Law Minister has stated that he cannot do anything to stop the misuse of 498A. His lame excuse is that any steps to curb this menace will generate ire from Women’s organisations. I ask the learned Law Minister: Is the country governed by Women Organisations? So he believes that votes of men have no value at all?

Statistics from NCRB (National Crime Records Bureau) clearly show that more than 64,000 Indian husbands end their lives every year. These are due to lack of support and due to government's anti-male, anti-family, anti-child, biased and lopsided LAWS like 498A, Domestic Violence act, CRPC125, Adultery LAW and 4 other maintenance laws. The entire Husbands’ family is deemed as a Free ATM machine and they get worse treatment than animals in India. These are due to Congress’s gender biased and one-sided gender laws and policies.

Although Supreme Court of India termed Misuse of 498A as “Unleash Legal Terrorism” and Domestic Violence act as the “most clumsily drafted LAW”. In India, as per the Domestic Violence law, irrespective of the truth, an allegation by the wife can get you, your mother, your father, sister thrown out of your own house. All it requires is a single complaint by wife. This is applicable even if any women shows apprehension “I anticipate Domestic violence against me”. It does not matter if you are a husband or a boyfriend, you will be thrown out from the house where you co-habit. Your bank accounts will be frozen. It will be upto you then to prove your innocence. She would not be expected to prove anything; a woman’s words are taken as gospel truth in India. Congress government considers all wives and daughter-in-laws to be born in Raja Harish Chandra’s family. Although lakhs of families have suffered, Congress government had not taken any corrective action and hence husbands and their families continue to suffer on a daily basis.

•Do you know who have given the wholesale free license to your wife to commit adultery and still not be classed as a crime? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know who have given the whole sale free license to your wife to abuse your old age parents and sisters and still not be classed as crime? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know who have given the whole sale free license to your wife to throw you and your elderly, frail parents from your own home? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know who have given the whole sale free license to your wife to kill your Unborn child and still not be classed as crime? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know who have given the whole sale free license to your wife to stop you from seeing your own child? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know that even a terrorist has the right to stay in his own home, but an Indian husband does not have any right to stay in his own home, if his wife demands the same under DV act; and who have made this law? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know who gave whole sale free license to your wife to beat, abuse, refuse food to your child, while you cant even question this, since questioning her will be classed as abuse? Anti-Men MPs.

•Do you know if your wife demands Rs10,000 for her kitty party and you give Rs8000, you have committed a crime by giving her less. And who drafted this law? Anti-Men MPs.

•A man or child cannot file a case of rape against a woman. However she can continue to rape you every day or cut your body into a dozen pieces. Who has drafted laws to protect such women? Anti-Men MPs.

This is the sad state of affairs in the current Legal system in India, a system created by Anti-Men Congress government.

Adultery for a wife is not a criminal offence. If anything, it is a rewarding option that generates free money for the rest of her life. However for a man, even questioning her intentions is labelled “Name calling” and is a crime as per Indian law. In such instances, the husband, his sister, his elderly mother and father can also be put behind bars under the DV act.

We have researched court records and identified that women who rush to courts to extort money from innocent husbands are often well educated, working, physically able to earn. They not only file one, but many cases such as 498A, mentioning that they were ill-treated by their husbands’ for money. However they shamelessly ask for money openly in front of Police, media and courts. Supreme court recognised these patterns and hence labelled ‘Legal terrorism’. It is also worth noting that if a wife earns money and a husband is unable to earn due to any physical disability, husband is not eligible for maintenance from the working woman. It does not matter if he had previously earned lakhs/crores and given it all to his wife.

So the question arises: Are Indian Husbands a Free ATM Machine for Indian wives? As per Anti-Male MPs and politicians, the answer is: Yes. 

In the current legal system, a wife can claim maintenance from 4 different laws, like Section24, Crpc125, section18 and Domestic Violence act. This leads to a horrifying abuse and mockery of the Indian Judiciary System. Such greedy wives file 3 to 4 different cases in different courts, in different states. I ask, is this not wastage of Judicial resources? Is this not a violation of Indian constitution, which clearly states that a person cannot be convicted for the same offence more than once? If so, why are 4 different maintenance cases allowed against a Husband, even if the husband has committed an offence?

Gender wise, Statistics of number of victims of Murders, Suicides and Accidents all over India, in Year 2009 (courtesy: Ministry of Home Affairs, Indian Government) to understand whose life in more danger: men or women?

Murder:

http://ncrb.nic.in/CII-2009-NEW/cii-2009/Table%203.3.pdf

Male Victims-24,441, Female Victims-8,718 Total Victims-33,159

Culpabale Homicide Not Amounting To Murder (Sec.304 and 308 IPC) During 2009

http://ncrb.nic.in/CII-2009-NEW/cii-2009/Table%203.4.pdf

Male Victims=3,529, Female Victims=753 Total Victims=4282

Dowry Death Convictions (75% dowry death cases are false and lead to no convictions)

http://ncrb.nic.in/CII-2009-NEW/cii-2009/Table%204.9.pdf

http://ncrb.nic.in/cii2008/cii-2008/Table%204.9.pdf

http://ncrb.nic.in/cii2007/cii-2007/Table%204.9.pdf

In 2009, 2008 and 2007 the dowry death convictions are 1882, 1948 and 1946 respectively.

These dowry deaths are too small a number for a country of 1.2 billion people.

Accidental Deaths:

http://ncrb.nic.in/CD-ADSI2009/table-1.4.pdf

Male Victims=276,333(77.4%) Female Victims=80,688 (22.6%) Total Victims=357021

Suicides:

http://ncrb.nic.in/CD-ADSI2009/table-2.5.pdf

Male Victims=81,471 Female victims=45,680 (Total Victims=127151)

(Male Victims=64.1%, female Victims=35.9%)

Total Victims of Suicide, Murder and Accidents:

Male Victims=361,333(73%) Female Victims=135,839 (27%)

Despite these statistical facts, there is no LAW to Protect Men- Why?

Will Our LAW Makers ever change the LAW 304B (dowry death) to 304C (Sowry Death) and 498A (Dowry harassment to wife) to 498B (Sowry harrasement by wife)?

Our Proposal :

If you really want the LAWS not to be misused left, right and center; if you want the laws 498A/DV act to change to prevent their misuse: "Vote for any Party but not to Anti-Men Politicians.

or

Be ready to watch Rape statistics doubling in next two years and becoming yet another extortion, blackmailing and easy money earning business for all Advocates, Policemen and greedy women.

Summary of our Recommendations:

We Request that you meet your MP/MLA/Ministers and demand:

1)    Make Rape Law/498A/DV act/CRPC125/Proposed IRBM- Gender Neutral as in other countries across the globe

2)    Relationship cheating/ending cases should not be allowed to be converted into rape cases which drain the scarce resources from genuine rape cases.

3)    Those filing/alleging false complaints of Rape cases should be severely punished, so that genuine cases like ‘Nirbhaya, get justice.

4)    Introduce the much required police reforms to increase conviction rates of rape cases

5)    Introduce the much required judicial reforms for speedier justice and to increase conviction rates of rape cases.

·        All references to “Man” or “Woman” must be replaced with the word “Person” or “Whosoever”

·        All references to the words “His” or “Her” to be must be replaced with the word “His or Her”

·        All references to the words “He” or “She” must be replaced with the word “He or She”

·        All references to the words ‘Husband” or “Wife” must be replaced with the word “Spouse”

Live-in-relationship or marriage disputes should not be included in the Sexual Assault as the same is already covered under Domestic Violence act.

Danger for Future Children & Men:

Justice Verma Committee had seen only one side of the coin with biased view. The committee give a big lecture of International law and Justice system, but failed to identify the real problem and totally remained blind to the suffering Men and children face at the hands of a "Rapist women". They also completely ignored to take into account cases of "False/Fabricated Rape".

The final punch:

Indian Women say: Murder any man and demand immunity under IPC 100 saying “He was trying to rape me”. When they do they thank #justiceverma

We had repeatedly requested and given all the examples suffering of Indian husbands and demanded all Gender Biased LAWS should immediately to be made gender neutral rather than assuming that women never lie and all men are born Criminals. "MAN/WOMAN" word to be replaced by word "PERSON" and word wife/husband to be replaced with the word "SPOUSE".

Despite our efforts, it fell on deaf ears of Government. In return the Ex-WCD minister shamelessly said: It’s the turn of Indian men to suffer, as women have suffered for long”. This is like saying Muslim Kings had destroyed lots of temple, so let demolish all Mosques in India.

·         Don’t trust Your Men, trust Condom, and this statement is given to reduce the incidence of AIDS. How can people ignore the fact that AIDS spreads by having sex with multiple partners and condoms can be used for multiple sex partners. We term married couples as single partners and encourage trust in them. 

·         A Diwali Gift to Indian women. (Within two weeks, four women were send behind bars under first DV act case in Pune and one elderly woman had to leave her own house since her daughter-in-law walked into her house with her all friends and parents.

There is another option: Vote for congress and ensure more and more suffering takes place. Not only congress, all other political parties will consider increasing the suffering of Husbands and their family members. Such husbands and their families cannot ensure defeat or reduction in vote share of such parties, so let them create more and more anti-husband, anti-family, anti-child and anti-men biased and lopsided laws in this country.

Choice is yours; you must remember “The crying baby gets the milk”. 

Anti-Men government has converted the Indian Criminal Justice system as a whole sale, free money earning business though Legal Extortion from Husbands and their families.

Vote for any party, but not to Anti-Men Politicians/MPs. By doing this you will give a clear message that anti-husband, anti-men, anti-family and anti-child laws and policies will no more be tolerated by Indian citizens.

Save Family Foundation, Men Right Associations along with more than 40 NGOs all over India request you to Send the "Anti-Men-MP" Name in Comment section with reason. We will publish the final list of all such MPs after review with all 40 NGO heads.

If any MP feels he/she is not Anti-Men they can give their justification and explain what they have done with our Proposals.

Election 2014: Vote for any party, but not to Anti-Men MP.